Every trader starts believing they can control outcomes. I used to think I could manage losses or time reversals. But control ends at execution. After that, the market decides.
Now, I focus on what’s mine entries, stops, mindset. Letting go gave me more control than clinging ever did.
Freedom beats false control. Do you manage risk or chase control?
I used to think I had discipline. Stop losses all set, every single order was limit, maybe trailing stops to make me feel even more 'powerful'.
But sit at the terminal, see your trades go red, and hover near your stop and you lose discipline. You remove the stop and let it ride.
Or, keep losing? Maybe just another $100 right?
Time to sleep? Why not watch the news more and more and more. See the terminal again and again and again.
It's psychology you can't beat sadly.