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Today at 12:12:22 AM |
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I believe shortcuts are dangerous not because of their speed, but because of their slow impact. When we take shortcuts, we forgo discipline, frustration tolerance, resilience, and stress management. Shortcuts often lead to instant results that often make us feel self-sufficient, underestimating the hard work of others, and becoming vulnerable when real challenges arise. Worse, shortcut takers often view others' success as a fluke and feel entitled to the same results without commensurate effort.
The long road isn't always safe, and shortcuts aren't always bad. What matters is our capacity to navigate them. What makes life's journey feel light and stable isn't speed, but resilience, which comes from transferable skills, healthy financial management, strong human relationships, and a lifestyle that doesn't overwhelm ourselves. When our foundations are weak, shortcuts often appear, even though if our character were strong, we could solve problems without shortcuts. This is an emotional reaction to uncertainty, not a morally wrong choice.
Shortcuts may speed our pace, but it's the process that expands our capacity. What we pursue with shortcuts can be obtained quickly, but only the process makes us able to maintain what we achieve/get.
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