The most depressed person in the family

[GIF-JOBS]

Before oldest sons are faced with a lot of challenges and responsibilities but right now a lot of eldest sons are living a nonchalant life nothing concerns them with family problems they just care about themselves. Depression doesn't care who you are, things of this world can make anyone to be depressed. So in a family facing what so ever, the person that could be depressed is the person working his ass off to earn money, and when he or she earns the money, he or she will use the money to solve family problems.

The responsibility is always greater among the eldest sons of the family, the first thing that every parent has to rely on after losing their source of income is their eldest son. They always put a lot of pressure on their eldest son, and if that son cannot earn, then the parents can never be right. The situation of every person is not the same, some people struggle silently with the problems of the family on their shoulders and some try to stay away from those problems. When the parents then give them responsibilities, they do not fulfill them, but on the contrary, they quarrel with their parents, that is, they are a kind of disobedient children of their parents. However, I do not think that such sons have any depression, because they are people with a different mentality, who do not decide to do anything or help the family even after seeing the plight of their family, they are actually irresponsible. A person who works hard to earn money and tries to solve family problems with that money is under a lot of mental pressure, but in the end, he will definitely be able to manage his family and build his own future, but those who stay away from problems and do nothing, lose their families and at the same time lose their own future.

[Dreadboost]

I don’t think there’s a particular person in the family who’s always more depressed, It depends on the family and what each person is going through. Anyone can be depressed regardless of their position in the family.

For example, in some families it may be the father because of the pressure and responsibilities he has to deal with. So I don’t think it’s right to automatically assume that the first son is the most depressed, everybody has their own struggles and being the first son doesn’t necessarily mean you’re the one suffering the most emotionally.

[Dicee]

Depression happens day and night. In a family facing what so ever
Who do you think is the most depressed person in the family?
Could it be the eldest son?
What is the fact behind your reasons?

actually, in a family anyone can be depressed, but the most depressed in the family can either be the one with the most responsibilities (be it the first son or any of the son) or the one been pressured by the family.
In a case were the first daughter or any of the daughters encounter delay in marriage,  the pressure from the family on her to get married might lead the her into serious depression, same thing as to the first son, also when the things been expected from a fisrt son are not been seen, like in the aspect of financial responsibilities it triggers depression. So been most depressed in a family dont really rely on position in the family but on how the family treats issues.

[MusaPk]

I don’t think there’s a particular person in the family who’s always more depressed, It depends on the family and what each person is going through. Anyone can be depressed regardless of their position in the family.

For example, in some families it may be the father because of the pressure and responsibilities he has to deal with. So I don’t think it’s right to automatically assume that the first son is the most depressed, everybody has their own struggles and being the first son doesn’t necessarily mean you’re the one suffering the most emotionally.

We can't label a person as depressed just because of his position in the family. There are people who can handle stress way better then others, for instance I have seen my father with huge responsibilities on his shoulders but I have not seen him depressed or at least he has not shown his depression to his family. Its also part of responsibility to show a strong character to your family, so that their moral remain high. If leader of family show sign of depression to his family then whole family go demoralize 

[ASloveapg]

I don’t think there’s a particular person in the family who’s always more depressed, It depends on the family and what each person is going through. Anyone can be depressed regardless of their position in the family.

For example, in some families it may be the father because of the pressure and responsibilities he has to deal with. So I don’t think it’s right to automatically assume that the first son is the most depressed, everybody has their own struggles and being the first son doesn’t necessarily mean you’re the one suffering the most emotionally.

We can't label a person as depressed just because of his position in the family. There are people who can handle stress way better then others, for instance I have seen my father with huge responsibilities on his shoulders but I have not seen him depressed or at least he has not shown his depression to his family. Its also part of responsibility to show a strong character to your family, so that their moral remain high. If leader of family show sign of depression to his family then whole family go demoralize 

Correct. When your family depends on you, your morale will become the most important thing for them. If you show depression in front of them, then they will definitely lose their morale because they are all basically depending on you. When the head of a family falls ill, then everyone in the family becomes very worried about his illness, his health becomes the most important thing for the family, because he is the only hope for his family. and also one should not take these responsibilities as a burden but as your own responsibility, do not lose your family, always try to be good with them, do not tell them your bad words, because this will only increase the worries in the family. Like I also avoid giving my family bad news, I give them as much good news as possible, because if you give bad news, they will not be able to help you, on the contrary, this will also cause them to feel bad and this is the same in the case of depression.

[BTC FutureKing]

I don’t think there’s a particular person in the family who’s always more depressed, It depends on the family and what each person is going through. Anyone can be depressed regardless of their position in the family.

For example, in some families it may be the father because of the pressure and responsibilities he has to deal with. So I don’t think it’s right to automatically assume that the first son is the most depressed, everybody has their own struggles and being the first son doesn’t necessarily mean you’re the one suffering the most emotionally.

We can't label a person as depressed just because of his position in the family. There are people who can handle stress way better then others, for instance I have seen my father with huge responsibilities on his shoulders but I have not seen him depressed or at least he has not shown his depression to his family. Its also part of responsibility to show a strong character to your family, so that their moral remain high. If leader of family show sign of depression to his family then whole family go demoralize 

Being the head of the house is a huge and important responsibility that takes responsibility for fulfilling all the procedures of the house and making decisions.Along with this the family also has some expectations from him from which they think that he has the courage to face all the difficulties and the strength to endure depression.Therefore anyone head does not need to fulfill all these things.This often happens but sometimes the situation can be the opposite because the condition and courage of every head is not the same. I have never seen my father showing the toughest and most depression.And maybe that is why we are living a carefree and peaceful life and the credit for this goes to our father.

[Jerrycrypto2024]

Society today has ways of diverting attention unlike before , head of the family has bear the most painful part which result to depression as all eyes are on him, but now some who suffers such now is not Long head by age but financial head been financial solvent in a family or house carried a whole lot of responsibility most African style of responsibility and entitled responsibility to help relative youngers etc such situations course some depression when the load is much not just on the Head of the family but whoever that is resourceful enough that handle to responsibility., like some traditional beliefs the head has a lot of sacrifices he need make for protection of the family weather financial ok or not this task if full of depression most time.

[Barikui1]

Depression happens day and night. In a family facing what so ever
Who do you think is the most depressed person in the family?
Could it be the eldest son?
What is the fact behind your reasons?

It's not proper to conclude that the most eldest son of a home is the one depression can easily hit, because to the best of my knowledge, nobody is immune to depression, since unhappiness or loneliness can easily makes an individual falls in it.

In the case of the most eldest son in a family, he can easily falls into depression if his age is going up fast and he is not experiencing any progress in his life, but their are some first son in a family that would still not give a dam about their financial state, even though they knew that expectations are high. So I believe that the mental strength of a person plays an important role if he or she will fall into depression or not.

[Rabata]

Society today has ways of diverting attention unlike before , head of the family has bear the most painful part which result to depression as all eyes are on him, but now some who suffers such now is not Long head by age but financial head been financial solvent in a family or house carried a whole lot of responsibility most African style of responsibility and entitled responsibility to help relative youngers etc such situations course some depression when the load is much not just on the Head of the family but whoever that is resourceful enough that handle to responsibility., like some traditional beliefs the head has a lot of sacrifices he need make for protection of the family weather financial ok or not this task if full of depression most time.

In our society, most people stand by their parents, siblings and children, leaving aside their own needs. But when that person falls ill, there is no one to look after him. If that person saves money for his future, then that money may be spent due to the illness of a family member or the education of a child or any urgent need, and if this happens repeatedly, that person may suffer from mental stress and depression.

In my opinion, it is always good to help and support the family, but not at the expense of everything. One should also think about one's own financial security and mental peace. If a person keeps helping with all his savings, later he will have nothing left from his own savings, and his family will not value him. So standing by the family does not mean that you have to sacrifice yourself completely, but rather you should fulfill your responsibilities in a way that your family's future and your own future are secure.

[Obulis]

And there's a deeper reason why they chose to go happy-go-lucky and that's their temporary escape to the reality. We don't know each other and we have battles that we're going through and we just do something in order for us to overcome that stress and depression that we're going with. But sadly, others can't fight those battles anymore and the heavier it gets, they resort to that one decision that they think would end all of it. If someone out there has a silent battle, I wish you all the best and counting on you to win that.

That's an honest and encouraging words, this can be helpful because there are people that actually needs this, sometimes put on smiling face while they struggle silently, and not everyone likes to show or complain about themselves or what they are facing, one will think everything is well with them but deep down the pains its too much as they can't even know how to explain themselves, but seeking help is good, even if some people shows they don't care, one can't tell who is going to help.

Life is has been like that, as in not many or everyone that freely express the level of their emotional hot. They smile but in the dippest emotional shambles, like judith87403 said they suffer silently. But then such is life. Not even that some don't know how to explain themselves, some don't want to express themselves yet suffering even more than those expressing their dippest emotion or depressions.