Need For Parents Involvement in a Child's Upbringing

[Wakate]

I think the problem today is time and priorities. Many parents are working a lot and assume school will handle everything else. But upbringing is not something you outsource. Kids need guidance especially when making decisions that affect their future. Parents are the only ones who truly care about long term consequences.

Parents are making sure they hustle for the money so that they can pay for their children day cares which is very important.
The availability of a parent in handling day care of a child is very important but some has chosen to chase the money and forget about the wellbeing of their children. Parental cares is a necessity to the upbringing of a child and this also contribute to their behaviors.

[Accardo]

Parents are making sure they hustle for the money so that they can pay for their children day cares which is very important.
The availability of a parent in handling day care of a child is very important but some has chosen to chase the money and forget about the wellbeing of their children. Parental cares is a necessity to the upbringing of a child and this also contribute to their behaviors.

Most people think the world is about making so much money but forget that training up kids for the best in future is the most important thing, why birth the kids if they won't be there to spend time with them? Humans forget about how bad they prayed for something when it arrives, which is a bad idea. Children are undercared these days, which has affected the emotions of the kids around the world. The painful thing is that they don't end making enough money after the whole negligence they have on kids for works sake.

[Dunamisx]

We have the full responsibility of taking care of our children because their upbringing depends on us, we need to understand why we should always stand in for them, because they slowly depend on us right from their childhood to every stage of their life as they grow, if a parent fail in taking care of their children, then this will now be a serious challenge to them and even the society at large later in the future.

[Fiatless]

Most people think the world is about making so much money but forget that training up kids for the best in future is the most important thing, why birth the kids if they won't be there to spend time with them? Humans forget about how bad they prayed for something when it arrives, which is a bad idea. Children are undercared these days, which has affected the emotions of the kids around the world. The painful thing is that they don't end making enough money after the whole negligence they have on kids for works sake.

Some people were doing well when they had children. They were employed and had enough to take care of their family. But the economy turned out bad and some of them lost their jobs. I don't blame some of these parents who are facing financial challenges because it was the government that mismanaged the economy. However, I encourage parents to plan ahead because taking care of their children is a priority.

[Accardo]

Some people were doing well when they had children. They were employed and had enough to take care of their family. But the economy turned out bad and some of them lost their jobs. I don't blame some of these parents who are facing financial challenges because it was the government that mismanaged the economy. However, I encourage parents to plan ahead because taking care of their children is a priority.

Challenges are there but this beautiful kids deserves time and care more than anything else, I get the fact that some parents have to suffer a lot to face the economy, but there are people who don't get it right, those who have enough to feed these kids, but deny them the time because of the kind of standards they wish for these kids, maybe how they wish for the children to look, and appear in public whenever they is need for an outing. However, it's tough, yet if it's made a routine to Carter for the kids and squeeze out a little time for fun and conversation, the parents won't have to know the underlying troubles these children face both in school and their allies environment.

[Hispo]

Parents of nowadays feel sending a child to school is enough in raising a child.
Sadly, a child needs more than school in as much as school is very important.

Parents should get involved in upbringing of children.
They are their kids and no one would be more sincere in teaching their kids actions they took that caused them grave mistakes.
Every other persons would be interested in teaching their success story and when they teach their mistakes, they don't go deep.

Parents should be involved in the growth of children. Hold their hands while they navigate life.

You already fail as a parent if your child can't see you as the best friend to share difficulties of life with.
Seeking solutions outside will expose children to bad mentorship and peer pressure.

Don't get me wrong, a child doesn't need only parents to grow. The point is, with parents, they have assured sincere opinion.
This is because, no sane parents would lie to their kids about life consequential decisions.

It is not just the fact there are parents who are so bad at parentijg that they are willing to just send their kids to school and give the burden of raising them to others.
There are adults who literally allow their children to by raisen by smartphones and television (and the internet), provoking very deep personal problems on their psyque and the way those kids interact with their family.

I agree that parents are supposed not only to provide material goods and economical conditions for their kids to thrive, children need affection and trust from their parents in order not to suffer from trauma and problems later in life.

[Sticky Bomb]

I think the problem today is time and priorities. Many parents are working a lot and assume school will handle everything else. But upbringing is not something you outsource. Kids need guidance especially when making decisions that affect their future. Parents are the only ones who truly care about long term consequences.

Parents are making sure they hustle for the money so that they can pay for their children day cares which is very important.
The availability of a parent in handling day care of a child is very important but some has chosen to chase the money and forget about the wellbeing of their children. Parental cares is a necessity to the upbringing of a child and this also contribute to their behaviors.

Chasing money doesn't prevent parents from taking adequate care of their Children. A popular example we all may know and have read is Sonia Carson, the mother of Ben Carson. She worked multiple shifts and had little time for her kids, yet she made sure she gave them all the mentoring and follow-ups possible and which she learned from working in rich people's houses.

Most parents are just lazy or clueless on how to properly bring up a child and they often hide their incompetence in their busy schedules. I always have this mindset that couple who are not ready to take care of children shouldn't have one. There is a lot of involvement needed in the life of a child both physically, emotionally, psychologically and even spiritually and every child deserves the care, love and attention of their parents if they are alive.

[knowngunman]

Parents should get involved in upbringing of children.
They are their kids and no one would be more sincere in teaching their kids actions they took that caused them grave mistakes.
Every other persons would be interested in teaching their success story and when they teach their mistakes, they don't go deep.

Parents should be involved in the growth of children. Hold their hands while they navigate life..

What do you really mean by parents should get involved in upbringing of their children? Aren't they the number one teacher for the child? I don't want to agree with your choice of words and the title of this thread.

Parents are automatically the number one and also involve in the upbringing of a child. They are the first set of people a child learns from before being enrolled in school. Teachers spend very limited time with children and can only help to shape the child upbringing, it's not their sole responsibility. Only irresponsible parents will shift that responsibility to their child teachers.

If there's anyone here who thinks teachers are responsible for their child upbringing just because they are paying school fees, I don't know how to likely they want to hear it but that is irresponsible and shift of role. They should be ready to accept any behaviour their children exhibit in the future.

[rodskee]

I think the problem today is time and priorities. Many parents are working a lot and assume school will handle everything else. But upbringing is not something you outsource. Kids need guidance especially when making decisions that affect their future. Parents are the only ones who truly care about long term consequences.

Parents are making sure they hustle for the money so that they can pay for their children day cares which is very important.
The availability of a parent in handling day care of a child is very important but some has chosen to chase the money and forget about the wellbeing of their children. Parental cares is a necessity to the upbringing of a child and this also contribute to their behaviors.

both financial and emotional support are important for children. none is more important than the other because either one has some serious consequences
 this is why parents should be financially ready and emotionally prepared before having kids

[Muba20]

Parents education is the best education for the growth of young children. Parents can be better teachers for a child than a teacher. Moreover, children will also get a good education from their parents. If they leave it to the teacher alone, those children are deprived of many things. Those children will definitely not develop much emotional feelings. Generally, not all teachers raise their children as their own children. At least every parent should keep the child under their care up to a certain level. The conditions of some families are such that they cannot take care of their children while they are growing up, even if they want to. In a family where both the woman and the man are busy with work, it is definitely difficult to raise children, but if someone helps the children grow up, even if they make a little sacrifice, then those children will definitely be guided properly later.

[Onyeeze]

From my own suggestion sending a child to school will you give the child a knowledge to adapt in any condition so that is the essence of sending a child to school, secondly the child will be exposed in different kinds of things so I believe that knowledge acquired through School is the best knowledge and it will make you to establish if you are being focused so except that a person is not being focused, another thing that is very important that will are supposed to know is that going to school will it make you to be self-independent and also make you to establish on your own without depending on the body, so it will have different advantages which account be able to mention all

[Bitcoin.com97]

Sending your child to school is just to get knowledge, but the right upbringing is the parent duty ,the first role model and teacher every child has is there parents and many has failed , some career women even send their child to school as early as 6months , so they could focus on themselves and work , forgetting childhood doesn’t repeat itself , any mindset impacted at that young age stick with them , that is why many children has grown to become a schedule of themselves, no parents love , no attention, many learnt how to figure most things out by themselves at early age . Parents should do better .

[Achalugo BTC]

Sending your child to school is just to get knowledge, but the right upbringing is the parent duty ,the first role model and teacher every child has is there parents and many has failed , some career women even send their child to school as early as 6months , so they could focus on themselves and work , forgetting childhood doesn’t repeat itself , any mindset impacted at that young age stick with them , that is why many children has grown to become a schedule of themselves, no parents love , no attention, many learnt how to figure most things out by themselves at early age . Parents should do better .

That’s very correct, every child before even getting enrolled in school should have already undergone the elementary level of education by their parents and then whatever character they take to school should be what the parents have already impacted on them. There’s only so much a teacher can teach a child, and no matter how much a teacher is being paid or how passionate they are about their job, they can never really give your child exactly what they need as children. That’s why it’s the parent’s number one responsibility to bring up a child in the way they should go, and then others, like the teachers can assist them.