Importance of Rejection

[JoyceBTC]

We all understand how hard it is to take rejections but I believe in life they are some importance and positive sides of rejection that most people fail to realize. Most people tend to give up, loose hope, become scared and have low self esteem when rejected. But I believe after most of you come across this thread, you will never feel too bad when rejected

Here are some few importance/ positive sides of rejection:

1. Self realization : Rejection helps you realize yourself in terms of making you know where you’re lacking or where you are making mistakes and help you do better in those specific areas.

2. Growth: Rejection helps you to learn and at the process of learning, you tend to attain growth.

3. Discovery of path: Rejection helps discover or redirect you to a new path or an opportunity, which you would have missed if you were not rejected.

4. Adaptability: Rejection helps you adapts to new challenges hereby making you resilient and stronger to bounce back and take on new challenges.

5. Strategic: Rejection makes you become a strategic thinker I.e it helps you become more strategic in anything you are doing, in order for improvement and more crucial ways to do better.

6. Confidence: Rejection actually makes someone build confidence i.e you know you’ve once failed and want to try again because you know you can do better thereby helping you boost confidence.

I believe this few point will be able to help us to try again after being rejected and i hope there are also more contributions that will be added to this for everyone to learn.

[TypoTonic]

I believe this few point will be able to help us to try again after being rejected and i hope there are also more contributions that will be added to this for everyone to learn.

This is really important especially on a job market with high competition. I also experienced a lot of rejection during my first job hunt, and it actually led me to try a different career path. There were a lot of realizations along the way, but I'm glad that I didn't get discouraged, and I'm actually thankful that it happened because it brought me to where I am today.

[slapper]

For every person that got rejected and found their true calling, there are ten people that got rejected and just had to settle for less. The finding of new paths thing would be real, but it's also thing survivorship bias. We remember the rejections than led somewhere better and forget the ones that just led nowhere.

Sometimes that hurt isn't growing into wisdom. Sometimes it just sits there. You are right that rejection teaches, but I am thinking you are skipping over the part where it also just hurts.

I was rejected from something that I thought I needed, and was miserable for weeks before I realized that I was mourning the status, not the actual opportunity. But here's where I'll agree with you, rejection does make you confront whether you actually want something you're chasing or you just want to win. That was useful. It left room for things I actually cared about rather than things I thought I should care about.

But what if you were rejected because you're too old, wrong gender, didn't go to the right school, don't know the right people? The self-realization point assumes you were rejected for fixable reasons. You can realize that all day long and it is not gonna help you get better because the game was rigged from the beginning. I've witnessed talented folks getting turned down so many times that they began to think the rejection represented actual feedback on their worth and not noise in a broken system.

[GiftedMAN]

6) Confidence: If you haven't been rejected once or twice you wouldn't know the importance of building self confidence. A lot of people easily give up today because growing up they got everything easy and they have never had to be rejected before getting what they want but your experience will teach you of the need to build yourself, trust that you can get better at what you were told you can't do and the need to do it again even when you failed countless times, rejection is part of the things that helps you discover who you are and the power you have if you don't give up.

[DPHOR]

Everyone in reality has the power the opportunity the vacancy for self study and I think self study is one of the major thing that would make you stand out at any time in life, whenever a scholar b o in class or unemployed person doing research and also set studying they can keep themselves ablaze in terms of any opportunities that could come in for them to fit in, there are people who are not doing self studies or even research to keep themselves ready for any opportunities that could come to them. Of course rejections gives room for self studies and that is why when there is no failure there is no acceptance, and both works directly opposite.

[Oluwa-btc]

Rejection is one of the most uncomfortable experiences we face, yet it’s also one of the most powerful teachers in life.Its in your hands,and you have the power to let it bend you or build you.Rejection builds direction, and resilience.Though rejection is not the end of the road;it’s feedback,redirection,and preparation.It produces the clarity that helps you grow instead of remaining in obscurity and if you listen carefully,it doesn’t break you,it builds you.

[AbuBhakar]

I experienced job rejection multiple times when I’m still newly graduate due to lack of my experience. This teach me the harshness of the real corporate world if you are weak and no good background.

This sad experience motivates me to be patient and grind hard to the first that I land until I gained enough experience to try my luck on higher position on different companies.

I have much easier transition on my career growth compared to my first rejection because I knew that improvement is a must before I start pursuing a better job offer.

[Mrbluntzy]

I believe this few point will be able to help us to try again after being rejected and i hope there are also more contributions that will be added to this for everyone to learn.

Your points are very helpful and the important one among all is self realization which is usually what happen the moment the person is being rejected, the thoughts of why you were rejected starts flashing and you begin to question yourself qualities and professions and then you will be energized to make improvement so that you can never be rejected but rather be the one to reject some offers. I read the story of one artist who said they rejected him from playing a role in a movie and he felt so bad but he said something woke up in him after he got rejected, he said he vowed to himself that in few years later, those people that rejected him from acting will also beg for him to feature in their movie and that's what happened. Rejection can make someone crawl back into their shell and never want to become better, while it can also make some people to greatly improve their self.

[goro_chief]

It's difficult to deal with rejection when you're a spontaneously creative person. We're not all the same; some of us may need approval, for example, as musicians. For those who have free time to practice a hobby, I recommend it for personal relief. It feels good after long hours of practice to master something that took so much effort, and without straying too far from the subject, it's still something that makes you feel like you're growing. The hardest part is keeping your feelings to yourself until the time is right to express them, because emotions are the main obstacle to your goals

[EluguHcman]

3. Discovery of path: Rejection helps discover or redirect you to a new path or an opportunity, which you would have missed if you were not rejected.

If it really true that there are ways we are destined to win or breakthrough success, rejection may be of reasons to redirect you towards where you are meant to be.

It could be about aspirations of learning new skills or ideals on the parameters of diversifications where you can alternate for explorations.

It could be if a juncture of you meeting different kind of people who would help you achieve greater things. It also builds your disciplinary mindsets to understand life that its reality is not just as the imagination neither to believe on illusions.

If had not been rejected, you may not had reached the height that you actually find yourself comfortable.
Although we are only exergeratting with positive minds otherwise, rejection is as failure which is never a pleasant while it negative consequences could ruin a life and makes a worthwhile hopeless.

[Berry2d]

We all understand how hard it is to take rejections but I believe in life they are some importance and positive sides of rejection that most people fail to realize. Most people tend to give up, loose hope, become scared and have low self esteem when rejected. But I believe after most of you come across this thread, you will never feel too bad when rejected

Here are some few importance/ positive sides of rejection:

1. Self realization : Rejection helps you realize yourself in terms of making you know where you’re lacking or where you are making mistakes and help you do better in those specific areas.

2. Growth: Rejection helps you to learn and at the process of learning, you tend to attain growth.

3. Discovery of path: Rejection helps discover or redirect you to a new path or an opportunity, which you would have missed if you were not rejected.

4. Adaptability: Rejection helps you adapts to new challenges hereby making you resilient and stronger to bounce back and take on new challenges.

5. Strategic: Rejection makes you become a strategic thinker I.e it helps you become more strategic in anything you are doing, in order for improvement and more crucial ways to do better.

6. Confidence: Rejection actually makes someone build confidence i.e you know you’ve once failed and want to try again because you know you can do better thereby helping you boost confidence.

I believe this few point will be able to help us to try again after being rejected and i hope there are also more contributions that will be added to this for everyone to learn.

Know matter what I don't see rejection as a good condition in the life of any body be it male or female, small or big as it never speaks good about the person experiencing it. I know to every disadvantages there must be advantages and the advantages of rejection should never be a reason while someone will prefer rejection over acceptance as they are of different value. Although most successful entrepreneur where rejected people who made serious sacrifices after been rejected and the sky never stand to be there limit.

[Fortify]

We all understand how hard it is to take rejections but I believe in life they are some importance and positive sides of rejection that most people fail to realize. Most people tend to give up, loose hope, become scared and have low self esteem when rejected. But I believe after most of you come across this thread, you will never feel too bad when rejected

I believe this few point will be able to help us to try again after being rejected and i hope there are also more contributions that will be added to this for everyone to learn.

It's true that rejection is part of building character and something that everyone will have to face throughout their lives in one form or another. Most of us grow stronger and it can help us improve, other rejections are simply down to mismatches between different people or expectations. It's part of the processing that we have to go through to understand the world around us and how sometimes we realize that life is not fair or as rosy as you might think.

[Marvelockg]

I believe this few point will be able to help us to try again after being rejected and i hope there are also more contributions that will be added to this for everyone to learn.

Call it rejection or failure,  they teach us to many lessons that we can't learn by being successful at everything we are doing. If you're always successful at the things you're doing, and never fails at least once in a while, you're going to end up having a one sided narrative about life which will give you the impression that life is all too simple.

Failure and rejection tells you something and that's the fact that you have a lot you're yet to work on as a person. If you pay attention to it right enough, you become a better version of yourself in the long run if not, you end up looking down on yourself become of the rejection.

[JoyceBTC]

For every person that got rejected and found their true calling, there are ten people that got rejected and just had to settle for less. The finding of new paths thing would be real, but it's also thing survivorship bias. We remember the rejections than led somewhere better and forget the ones that just led nowhere.

Sometimes that hurt isn't growing into wisdom. Sometimes it just sits there. You are right that rejection teaches, but I am thinking you are skipping over the part where it also just hurts.

I was rejected from something that I thought I needed, and was miserable for weeks before I realized that I was mourning the status, not the actual opportunity. But here's where I'll agree with you, rejection does make you confront whether you actually want something you're chasing or you just want to win. That was useful. It left room for things I actually cared about rather than things I thought I should care about.

But what if you were rejected because you're too old, wrong gender, didn't go to the right school, don't know the right people? The self-realization point assumes you were rejected for fixable reasons. You can realize that all day long and it is not gonna help you get better because the game was rigged from the beginning. I've witnessed talented folks getting turned down so many times that they began to think the rejection represented actual feedback on their worth and not noise in a broken system.

I honestly understand your point, we all know rejection isn’t a good thing at all because it weighs so many people down and there are some people who got rejected and never got something better. But remember this topic is only focused on the positive side of rejection despite having bad sides also, so as to encourage or enlighten those who tend to give up or loose hope when rejected.

[White pawn]

I experienced job rejection multiple times when I’m still newly graduate due to lack of my experience. This teach me the harshness of the real corporate world if you are weak and no good background.

This sad experience motivates me to be patient and grind hard to the first that I land until I gained enough experience to try my luck on higher position on different companies.

I have much easier transition on my career growth compared to my first rejection because I knew that improvement is a must before I start pursuing a better job offer.

There's always a take home lesson after every rejection encounter.Its either you're motivated, redirected or ignited to sudden improvements.Didn’t get the job?No interview call?Another rejection email?
Rejection is tough,but it's not the end.Rejection is redirectionEvery “no” is one step closer to the right “yes
Your skills and value haven’t disappeared, the fit just wasn’t rightJust Take it professionally not personally just one more time/approach.Therefore,keep applying,keep learning, and keep showing up.

[aysha9853]

In business and investing rejection is almost normal, deals fail ideas get ignored and plans fall apart, if you quit at the first no you will never last long, rejection builds thicker skin and forces you to adjust your approach, ft does not make you stronger by default but if you reflect on it the benefits show up.

[SUPERSAIAN]

Not everything positive stays positive. Or do negative things remain negative? While this might sound a bit philosophical, isn't that the reality? You dream about a job you desperately want, then it doesn't happen, and you get incredibly upset, only to find out you've landed a better job. In the meantime, you've been needlessly upset, spoiling your enjoyment of life. Perhaps we'd be much more comfortable if we didn't have this excessive need for control.

[Rruchi man]

1. Self realization : Rejection helps you realize yourself in terms of making you know where you’re lacking or where you are making mistakes and help you do better in those specific areas.

Consider rejection as criticism, criticism that you need to consider to become better. When you are rejected from an offer or an opportunity, try to consider the reason you think that has happened, and then if you are able to identify a reason, that is the area of your life to work on improving.

There are people who do not know how to handle rejection; that is something every mature person should learn to do. You will not always get things the way you want, and that is fine.

[libert19]

I found first two points relevant in context of getting rejected by BMs. Let me explain,

When BM rejects me, I figure I must not be posting enough in gambling board (as almost all campaigns tend to be from casinos) or my comments must not be having enough lines so I improve there (i.e, post in gambling board more and more lines), so I now tend to be accepted sometimes but I still need to do better cause BMs seems to be kicking me soon after.

By the way, how does this thread belong in economics!?

[Makus]

I realized that no matter how good we think we are in what we do not everyone would accept us and that's something that a lot of people need to accept. just because you were rejected by a firm doesn't mean you should start doubting your abilities, sometimes it is just a way of telling yourself you don't belong there. But sometimes it might be as a result of the things we lack, this is the reason why it is important to work on self improvement, if you get rejected all you need to do is to do a little but of self reflecting and ask yourself what you are lacking