Importance of Rejection

[Jateng]

This is a very important topic that a lot of people need to read. rejection can be very a very painful experience but most times it is a wake up call needed to be able to do better. people do not take rejection the right way, it is something that is supposed to make you self reflect and also work on yourself. rejection shouldn’t be a course to be depressed but it is a reminder that you should improve on yourself

it is a dilemma of our society that it does not teach us how to deal rejection. That's why when anyone face rejection he take its too personal or serious or feeling guilty or ashamed. There is need to do open discussion and provide proper guideline to tackling this issue. Sometime rejection doesn't mean you are weak or you lack something. It might be possible that the person or the company who reject you is not on right side. you must know about your personality weakness take it as a part of learning. It is gives you a chance to understand yourself, take review and rebuild and come back with more preparation

[JoyMarsha]

When someone sees rejection as one of those things one experience in life when growing, you know that they have grown and understand how life is to be that rejection doesn't mean one is bad in what they applied for. It could a way to redirect someone to something better suited for them is on the way. That's what they long for, they are being rejected on, it's not meant for them

[SmartCharpa]

I believe this few point will be able to help us to try again after being rejected and i hope there are also more contributions that will be added to this for everyone to learn.

There is a saying that some disappointment is a blessing, and we should not feel ashamed if we get rejected for anything and feel to give up. Rejection is not the end of story, it is another opportunity to learn more, review ourselves, and fix the reason why we were rejected from the first place so we do not make the same mistake the next time we look for the same job. One thing about this life is that being rejected doesn’t mean that we will not be accepted another day.

Be proud of yourself and work to get use to the new you. To be honest, I never feel sad for being rejected before, its made me realize that it’s all part of the journey of our lives, sometimes things don’t work as we expected, but that shouldn’t be a reason to give up.

[batang_bitcoin]

When someone sees rejection as one of those things one experience in life when growing, you know that they have grown and understand how life is to be that rejection doesn't mean one is bad in what they applied for. It could a way to redirect someone to something better suited for them is on the way. That's what they long for, they are being rejected on, it's not meant for them

Yes, it's not bad at all when we get rejected. As we become more mature, we understand that it's part of life and if we're pursuing for our dreams. This is part of the ladder to that and we'll get that often but in the end of it, the success is sweeter when we're able to get there. And so, if someone is not yet ready to get rejected, cheer up and make yourself stronger because you'll get there by experiencing the hardship too.

[acener]

Sometimes rejection leads us to something better than what we want, it could also drive us to be better.
We just need to take things positively, be motivated to be better.
Somethings might not be for us that is why we are being rejected to lead us to where we should really be, not just in work or in relationship, might also be in place to meet some people who could guide us.

[tygeade]

When someone sees rejection as one of those things one experience in life when growing, you know that they have grown and understand how life is to be that rejection doesn't mean one is bad in what they applied for. It could a way to redirect someone to something better suited for them is on the way. That's what they long for, they are being rejected on, it's not meant for them

Yes, it's not bad at all when we get rejected. As we become more mature, we understand that it's part of life and if we're pursuing for our dreams. This is part of the ladder to that and we'll get that often but in the end of it, the success is sweeter when we're able to get there. And so, if someone is not yet ready to get rejected, cheer up and make yourself stronger because you'll get there by experiencing the hardship too.

The useless type of rejection isn't good though. If you do get rejected, you should at least know why you got rejected and if that is the case then you are going to feel fine because now you have a reason why they rejected you and you can do a better job instead. But when it comes to rejected with no excuse and you have no idea why, then you never know what is going to happen and it is going to cost you a lot.

This is why if you are going to get rejected and benefit from this then you have to know the difference in it. There are a lot of situations where it is not that easy to handle any of this, of course it could be a lot more difficult than people think but growing means you focus on your shortcomings to be better.

[batang_bitcoin]

Yes, it's not bad at all when we get rejected. As we become more mature, we understand that it's part of life and if we're pursuing for our dreams. This is part of the ladder to that and we'll get that often but in the end of it, the success is sweeter when we're able to get there. And so, if someone is not yet ready to get rejected, cheer up and make yourself stronger because you'll get there by experiencing the hardship too.

The useless type of rejection isn't good though. If you do get rejected, you should at least know why you got rejected and if that is the case then you are going to feel fine because now you have a reason why they rejected you and you can do a better job instead. But when it comes to rejected with no excuse and you have no idea why, then you never know what is going to happen and it is going to cost you a lot.

This is why if you are going to get rejected and benefit from this then you have to know the difference in it. There are a lot of situations where it is not that easy to handle any of this, of course it could be a lot more difficult than people think but growing means you focus on your shortcomings to be better.

IMO, there is no need to justify why we're being rejected. It can remain a mystery to us and so that will give us a drive and motivation to improve everything and let ourselves be the judge on which part we have to be improved. If that's so, the benefit is still on us. We get rejected and we improve and in the end, we'll correct that part that we think is wrong with us or just needed some modification in order to be accepted like in our skills. Someone who can't take the rejections will start to handle them willingly.

[Yamifoud]

Rejection is already part of our life, so its here not just to hurt and make us desperate, but on the other hand it could also leave us a lesson to assist our growth and maturity in dealing life.

And while most people treat rejection negatively, for me we should be thankful on it instead. It gives us new ways and perspectives of looking at things, and appreciate that life's mistakes and rejections are not here to put us down, but its an effective way to develop self-confidence and keep lifting ourselves for the best.

[uneng]

Rejection is terrible, makes you feel the worst person alive. It highlights the most negative thoughts about oneself, including past experiences, memories and traits. The fact self-esteem is impacted negatively makes the rejected individual recluse and unnatural on his behaviors.

To learn to adapt yourself to this situation is a matter of survival. You can become more mature and even successful on determined aspects of your life after a rejection, but at which cost? And are you really able to overcome the rejection, or are you just trying to escape how it makes you feel by focusing your energies on another matters?

If you are able to overcome the rejection for real, it's great. However, if it's not the case, I fear you are just lying to yourself about how it turned you into a superior person.

[lizarder]

We all understand how hard it is to take rejections but I believe in life they are some importance and positive sides of rejection that most people fail to realize. Most people tend to give up, loose hope, become scared and have low self esteem when rejected. But I believe after most of you come across this thread, you will never feel too bad when rejected

Similarly with this assumption, "We can't possibly please everyone," especially in everyday life, what we need to do is not to appear liked by others, but rather to continue moving forward to achieve the success we have carefully planned. Failure is not a bad thing, and in fact, people who have experienced failure are usually much more able to survive in certain situations, as long as they don't give up, lose hope, become afraid and constantly think they will be humiliated.

Don't focus solely on the results it's far better to focus on development because every process we go through will certainly provide patterns that we can adapt to improve previous failures. If today we fail to achieve good financial capabilities, then we need to find a good concept to re-implement and if we like investing, then the level of knowledge in that sector or vice versa, if we like business then build awareness to run a good business.

[Agbamoni]

I realized that no matter how good we think we are in what we do not everyone would accept us and that's something that a lot of people need to accept. just because you were rejected by a firm doesn't mean you should start doubting your abilities, sometimes it is just a way of telling yourself you don't belong there. But sometimes it might be as a result of the things we lack, this is the reason why it is important to work on self improvement, if you get rejected all you need to do is to do a little but of self reflecting and ask yourself what you are lacking

I agree with you. Not everyone will see us to be that person they want for the job. I remember vividly when I was done with my skills, I started looking for opportunities in the online space. With the level of knowledge and experience I have, I am supposed to hit at least an intern job. After several trials and applications, my confidence went from 100% to 10%. Not until I decided to start my own company did I begin getting the attention I deserved.

My point here is that rejection at some point can decrease confidence. Consistency and perseverance are the only ways through those times.