For months of waiting and yet no viable solution is something that is rather irritating
It is a frustrating position to be in and a lot of instant swap services put their users in this situation. The likes of Changelly, n.exchange, ChangeNOW, etc. The reality is simple, as long as it is a custodial exchange, and instant exchanges fall into this category because you send your asset into their deposit address, you should have it at the back of your mind that you may not get your money back.
So with that knowledge, don't deposit too much money into their platform all at once, take the risk with smaller amounts. Or just use a platform that will never ask you for KYC.