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January 03, 2026, 10:28:52 AM
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E get plenty things wey our society in fact the society in general don make us believe say na so e suppose be and our fathers fathers don live in that light for a very long time to the point wey we the children children don pick up from where them stop con continue to live like that. E get one post for WhatsApp wey I see wey make me drag this matter come here and make I mention things wey society abi the Whites make us believe and do because them too put hands for some of the things we dey believe in and do;

1) White wedding

2) pikin must cut him hair at a early age if not na sickness

3) them make us believe say na nights and days meanwhile God created DAY and NIGHT (what if na only 1 day and night we dey live all our lives but we see am as days and nights)?
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E plenty and any of us wey get more to add and talk about the floor don open clean for all of us to discuss am...I greet una.
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January 03, 2026, 02:33:55 PM
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Talking about Nigeria's culture, white wedding is never part of our culture, its an inherited tradition from the British world which people of nowadays thinks without it the union of couples won't stand, so please it was not an inherited character from our ancestors. All tribes in Nigeria has there unique way of getting married which we all know, for example we from the east practice first, giving the lady drink and money which signifies engagement, after receiving the drink the woman's people will request to see the man that gave there daughter the drink for questioning to know his intentions before proceeding for list collection and introduction rights payment them traditional marriage will be used to close up everything.

After copying everything from the British world, we on our own has introduced official open engagement which is different from the private drink given and also white wedding all because we want to please others or even want them to know the financial level of our man and not to fulfill the original purpose of marriage. So don't say we inherited white wedding from our parents, we introduced it on a were own

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January 03, 2026, 07:11:38 PM
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Talking about Nigeria's culture, white wedding is never part of our culture, its an inherited tradition from the British world which people of nowadays thinks without it the union of couples won't stand, so please it was not an inherited character from our ancestors. All tribes in Nigeria has there unique way of getting married which we all know, for example we from the east practice first, giving the lady drink and money which signifies engagement, after receiving the drink the woman's people will request to see the man that gave there daughter the drink for questioning to know his intentions before proceeding for list collection and introduction rights payment them traditional marriage will be used to close up everything.

After copying everything from the British world, we on our own has introduced official open engagement which is different from the private drink given and also white wedding all because we want to please others or even want them to know the financial level of our man and not to fulfill the original purpose of marriage. So don't say we inherited white wedding from our parents, we introduced it on a were own

I agree you with you my Broda, white wedding no be part of our culture, na we dey copy the white people (British) if not nothing concern Nigeria with white wedding, and as you talk am say everybody get their own way wey be say them dey do their marriage, for my own side, nothing like white wedding because we dey see that one like say na another religion dey do am.

Although some things dey wey be say we still dey copy the Oyibo wey be say we no fit do it our way because our fathers fathers don make us believe say na so e suppose be and we come see them dey practice those things, anything wey concern white wedding no be by force unless say the person wan do am by force or he wan suffer himself wan do like white people.
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January 04, 2026, 06:54:56 AM
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E get plenty things wey our society in fact the society in general don make us believe say na so e suppose be and our fathers fathers don live in that light for a very long time to the point wey we the children children don pick up from where them stop con continue to live like that. E get one post for WhatsApp wey I see wey make me drag this matter come here and make I mention things wey society abi the Whites make us believe and do because them too put hands for some of the things we dey believe in and do;

1) White wedding

2) pikin must cut him hair at a early age if not na sickness

3) them make us believe say na nights and days meanwhile God created DAY and NIGHT (what if na only 1 day and night we dey live all our lives but we see am as days and nights)?
ETC.

E plenty and any of us wey get more to add and talk about the floor don open clean for all of us to discuss am...I greet una.

Seasons greetings Brother, White wedding is never the culture and tradition of our people. We decided to copy theirs which they themselves did not copy ours this has made us spend extravagantly just because those involved wants to impress the public and make their wedding the most talked about in the town. It was never like that during the time our forefathers got married, once they indicate interest for a lady and they go for introduction with drinks and kolanut with a little dowry of 10naira marriage has taken place.


Those days marriage was sweet because the women were very disciplined and respectful infact it was an abomination is a girl gets impregnated by someone who is not her husband but today we tend to copy the white people and Make things difficult for ourselves, some couples even go as far as borrowing money to throw big party and end up struggling to pay back the loan after marriage, it's high time we stick to our culture because that's what we are known for.

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January 04, 2026, 08:03:09 AM
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E get plenty things wey our society in fact the society in general don make us believe say na so e suppose be and our fathers fathers don live in that light for a very long time to the point wey we the children children don pick up from where them stop con continue to live like that. E get one post for WhatsApp wey I see wey make me drag this matter come here and make I mention things wey society abi the Whites make us believe and do because them too put hands for some of the things we dey believe in and do;

1) White wedding

2) pikin must cut him hair at a early age if not na sickness

3) them make us believe say na nights and days meanwhile God created DAY and NIGHT (what if na only 1 day and night we dey live all our lives but we see am as days and nights)?
ETC.

E plenty and any of us wey get more to add and talk about the floor don open clean for all of us to discuss am...I greet una.

However plenty things wey we Dey see as normal for this life na just belief way don pass from generation to generation our parents collect am from their parents we too just pick am continue no be because we reason am well but because na so we meet am society and even western influence put hand for many of these things and over time we accept am as the only correct way.

Things like white wedding the idea say pikin must cut hair early if not sickness go come or even how we Dey see time as days and nights na all examples some culture some na religion some na borrowed ideas and some na things we never really sit down question.

However no be say anything bad but some times he good make we pause and ask ourselves why we Dey do certain thing E plenty more beliefs like this and e make sense make we talk about am openly anybody wey get more examples or thoughts the floor open.
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January 04, 2026, 08:16:34 AM
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Our society dey try make us believe say Bitcoin and crypto currencies dey bad for an investor wey dey think how em wan multiply em money and build wealth.
Dem also make us believe say as a young man, you suppose don blow and dey drive car or get personal house before them go give you regards or recognize you for anywhere.
For the ladies, them believe say you suppose dey kitchen, no find work because na the responsibility of a man wey like you to carter for your every needs including pay all the bills and take care of her parents and siblings too.

There's so many I dey remember but na the few ones wey I feel say dey very common I try mention. Just live your life and follow your own path or dream and society will follow you or fan for you.

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January 04, 2026, 09:55:41 AM
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Talking about Nigeria's culture, white wedding is never part of our culture, its an inherited tradition from the British world which people of nowadays thinks without it the union of couples won't stand, so please it was not an inherited character from our ancestors. All tribes in Nigeria has there unique way of getting married which we all know, for example we from the east practice first, giving the lady drink and money which signifies engagement, after receiving the drink the woman's people will request to see the man that gave there daughter the drink for questioning to know his intentions before proceeding for list collection and introduction rights payment them traditional marriage will be used to close up everything.

After copying everything from the British world, we on our own has introduced official open engagement which is different from the private drink given and also white wedding all because we want to please others or even want them to know the financial level of our man and not to fulfill the original purpose of marriage. So don't say we inherited white wedding from our parents, we introduced it on a were own

You no far from the truth and we value this white wedding pass our traditional marriage and all these things com be like say we no get how we dey live our lives, so many things wey people throw way and now we dey find am.hard to embrace those our culture but you see this marriage matter, na the women take am serious pass and na them dey always put pressure for the man body and some go fit call off the marriage if them no do big white wedding to show off. The idea go hard to comot from some of our heads because we blacks, ones e enter to comot na problem.
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January 04, 2026, 01:53:53 PM
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Talking about Nigeria's culture, white wedding is never part of our culture, its an inherited tradition from the British world which people of nowadays thinks without it the union of couples won't stand, so please it was not an inherited character from our ancestors. All tribes in Nigeria has there unique way of getting married which we all know, for example we from the east practice first, giving the lady drink and money which signifies engagement, after receiving the drink the woman's people will request to see the man that gave there daughter the drink for questioning to know his intentions before proceeding for list collection and introduction rights payment them traditional marriage will be used to close up everything.

After copying everything from the British world, we on our own has introduced official open engagement which is different from the private drink given and also white wedding all because we want to please others or even want them to know the financial level of our man and not to fulfill the original purpose of marriage. So don't say we inherited white wedding from our parents, we introduced it on a were own

I agree you with you my Broda, white wedding no be part of our culture, na we dey copy the white people (British) if not nothing concern Nigeria with white wedding, and as you talk am say everybody get their own way wey be say them dey do their marriage, for my own side, nothing like white wedding because we dey see that one like say na another religion dey do am.

Although some things dey wey be say we still dey copy the Oyibo wey be say we no fit do it our way because our fathers fathers don make us believe say na so e suppose be and we come see them dey practice those things, anything wey concern white wedding no be by force unless say the person wan do am by force or he wan suffer himself wan do like white people.

One question i have not received any good answers on is since we copy everything from the white, why don't we copy there unique way of developing there countries. The white have alot of good things we need to copy from them since copying them is the only thing that gives us joy, some of the good things we are supposed to copy is what they did top eradicate poverty in there country, how to live an independent life, what they did that made there country a habitable place for all. We don't see those good things, the only things we see are the things that wont be of importance to us instead it will make life difficult for us. The right time we wake up from this our sleep the better for us

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