All that matters these days is who's got the money, power or authority. Nothing else matters. Values don't mean anything. There is no line people cant cross for what they want. People have no principles or guidelines anymore.
But I don't believe you have to be just like them to survive in this world. You can have values and principles and lines you cant cross and still be successful in that field. You may not be as successful as they are, but you're not in a competition with them.
Money and power rules the world bro, if you're not flexible at all, you risk being sidelined or at worst wiped out and replaced with who is willing to play the game better. Still, you don't totally have to sell your conscience to be relevant, you can do what you can and yet not stand in the way of powerful people when they do their shits. It is hard for people who are rigid with discipline to climb to the top and worse for people who compromise very easily because they just serve as puppets, you should have a blend of the two, not too rigid, and uphold principles when it is very necessary. You must not fight powerful people because of your values and principles, there is a level of compromise that becomes necessary most times, else you would be left behind when the ship is sailing to a different course.
My country had an election where the sitting candidate lost, and people expected him to fight because it was assumed that the election was rigged, but he didn't fight; he gently stepped down, and till this day, people call him weak, but not to me. There would have been so much bloodshed of innocence if he had decided to fight, and he doesn't want that on his conscience, and that is something I can respect, especially from a politician. He moved on to better things today simply because he held on to his values and never crossed the line he set for himself.
So we don't need to be the way society or the world sets for us, we can be different.
The sitting president gave up his seat willingly, he didn't loose. If he wanted to win, he would've changed the INEC chairman which was obviously working against him even before the election. I would say he didn't want to continue, he got tired of the pressure from the Presidential seat. If he really wanted to fight for his position, he would have done that long before the elections was held.