DNA test as part of postnatal health service bill

[Makus]

I feel like a DNA test shouldn't be much of a big deal and it is something that should be done without letting it cause any sort of conflict, besides DNA tests are not only about confirming the paternity on a child this test is also carried out to know if they are any medical conditions that are being passed genetically. what happens between couples nowadays is that once this is suggested by the Manchester woman starts seeing it as a disrespect to her but that shouldn't the mindset behind this

[AmoreJaz]

DNA testing is very sensitive investigation. It is classified into two.  Rest of mind DNA test and Legal DNA test. In rest of mind this where the man felt his not comfortable with the activities of his wife. Therefore choose to clear any doubt without any legal registration. While legal DNA test is where both couple are in dispute. Acquisition and Advice of cheating. Such DNA test is refer as legal. Law have to sign such results.
Making a postnatal Bill for DNA test is optional, it is unacceptable to impose such into ones marriage. Besides the outrageous Bill for DNA test can't be affordable by many. DNA testing is only requested for promiscuous marriage.

This is true. If you are in doubt, you won't be at peace with yourself up until you did this step. This is also a very solid ground for Legal issues if both parties are in conflict. But for regular deliveries without any issue, I don't think you need to include this in the service bill because this is quite expensive. And it is not very practical especially if the family can't afford such service. Unless, we have this test kit where you can get the results in just few hours at a very cheap rate.
But if you trust your spouse enough, for me, there's no need for this and so this is only additional bill for the family if it will be like a mandatory test after birth. For me, it should be an optional and not mandatory.

in the meantime, in the US -


So I don't know in other countries. There may be good reasons like having database so it is easier for criminal investigations and such. But we all know that not all people can afford this. So for me, this is fine as long as it is not mandatory.

[viljy]

There must be good reasons for such testing. This means that the fact of the wife's infidelity must be established (for example, caught red-handed, or there is irrefutable evidence). Just suspicion is not enough to conduct testing. Of course, an insecure person may insist on testing based on their suspicions. But if the test shows his paternity, then there will be no turning back. The relationship between the spouses will be ruined by distrust forever.

[AmaGold70]

You know your wife and your wife knows you
then why DNA test? Is it not waste of funds?

Personally I feel that DNA test is very important for every family to do (if they have the money to do it) a lot of things are happening in the hospital these days and switching a child after birth by some of the hospital staff is not a new thing now in this generation so we all need to be careful and do a DNA test and not because you are doubting your partner but because you don't want to raise a child that isn't yours biologically. There are people that give birth to their children through a nurse that is operating on her own outside the hospital and most times she only has one patient to attend to so it's more safe there because you have nothing to worry about as switching your child but in the hospital a DNA test is very important.

[DaNNy001]

The reason why some men ask for a DNA test for their children is mostly because of some certain suspicion they are getting towards their wives, if the trust is there between the both partners there won't be need for a DNA test. however as a man, I advice that if your suspecting that the children you have with your wife are not yours biologically, I believe you should go for a DNA test privately with those children, asking permission from your wife makes her looks awkward, as she would begin to question herself if this man doesn't trust me and this will certainly cause fiasco in the family, so in a bid to avoid that kind of a drama, it is better you visit the hospital and do it privately on your own.

you have a point, if a man suspects his partner isn't faithful to him then there's no need to ask his wife for permission to run a paternity test when he can juat run it privately..most ladies cause a scene because they know that they are guilty because if they really have nothing to hide they won't allow such a small thing resort to a big issue..personally I don't see anything wrong in running a paternity test

[Oluwa-btc]

But then, the cost of DNA test will for sure make postnatal health service bill more expensive if a hospital adds it to their service charge, because not everyone can afford it even if it is a personal (the husbands) decision.

You know your wife and your wife knows you
then why DNA test? Is it not waste of funds

Honestly this would really become a problem and possibly might break some lovely homes because the rate at which men discover they ain't the paternal father of their kids it's so alarming  and hence the need for conducting a DNA test after childbirth to confirm if the child is his. Likewise the fee for that shouldn't be expensive at least there should be a discount by the hospitals. All of this is because the society today slot are going on under cover and by chance if noticed it becomes a time bomb.

[rachael9385]

There has been different ideas about running DNA test. People dropping there utmost mind about the running of DNA test.

A man was like as a husband, you have a lot of responsibilities so make sure you don't ignorantly take responsibility of another man's child or even children thinking it's yours. Do DNA test.

A lady was like if she gets married and her husband insist on a DNA test and at the end it confirms he is the father, that she will make sure he doesn't have access to the child and that means the end of the marriage, even when it's that she already has other children before the confusion of running a DNA test.
This makes me ask if running of DNA test is really a confusion?

But then, the cost of DNA test will for sure make postnatal health service bill more expensive if a hospital adds it to their service charge, because not everyone can afford it even if it is a personal (the husbands) decision.

You know your wife and your wife knows you
then why DNA test? Is it not waste of funds?

**When should a man demand a DNA test?
**You as the wife, how will you feel about that?
**Should it really become part of a husbands budget on every child delivery?
**What do you really think about running a DNA as a man or as a woman?

Running a DNA test as a man or woman is personal decision, most test the paternity of their kids when they are having suspicions about infidelity from their spouse but this causes conflict most times. The best thing to do is to run the test privately without informing tj woman about it. Asides from paternity a DNA test can also be done to detect other things as well and it's very important

[Felicity_Tide]

You know your wife and your wife knows you
then why DNA test? Is it not waste of funds?

The moment your partner starts acting suspicious and giving you a reason to doubt, then I don't think it's a waste of funds in anyone.
I have heard so many crazy stories of people raising kids that aren't theirs even till this day. Conducting a DNA test is not a crime, especially when there is already too many reasons to doubt your partner. The truth, this matter of paternity test doesn't have a general method of addressing it because it can be a bit complicated for others, especially when the partner ends up coming out clean.

**Should it really become part of a husbands budget on every child delivery?

I don't think it should be a must for every man to conduct a DNA test on the delivery.
Most relationships that are still standing together, are heavily built on love and trust, and the last thing a man would want to do is to break such trust especially when he doesn't have a probable reason for doubts. But mind you, there are other cases where a lot of people have been forced to raise the kids of other men unknowingly, just because they trust.

[Joy- maker]

You know your wife and your wife knows you
then why DNA test? Is it not waste of funds?

DNA test doesn't be consider as waste of fund, because in this world we are living now a lot had changed. And the so female genders is not to be trusted anymore, and sorry to say they are evil. This female gender can go to grave with their evil secret. Well Am trying not to be rough here, but this so called female genders had hurt me a lot and I know they have hurt a lot male genders out there with this their obnoxious way of doing things. At least if you haven't been a victim before, you have heard other people's stories on how they struggled training another person's children, and later find out that those children was never their own so ridiculous. Do you know how painful it is to grow old with children and later find out that they were never yours?

[JoyceBTC]

Well having a DNA test is not a bad thing but the truth is that before a man starts asking for a DNA test, it means he’s not sure if the child is his. Because on a normal day he will not just suggest for a DNA test when his very sure he’s the father of the child and also considering how expensive running a DNA test cost.

Most women don’t find it funny when their husband request for a DNA test even when they are 100% sure the child is for their husband because they feel for their husband to ask for a DNA test implies that the man doesn’t trust them and believe they had an affair with someone else. Why some women are not actually happy about it is because they know the child is not for their husband.

[LOVER BOY 422]

There has been different ideas about running DNA test. People dropping there utmost mind about the running of DNA test.

A man was like as a husband, you have a lot of responsibilities so make sure you don't ignorantly take responsibility of another man's child or even children thinking it's yours. Do DNA test.

A lady was like if she gets married and her husband insist on a DNA test and at the end it confirms he is the father, that she will make sure he doesn't have access to the child and that means the end of the marriage, even when it's that she already has other children before the confusion of running a DNA test.
This makes me ask if running of DNA test is really a confusion?

But then, the cost of DNA test will for sure make postnatal health service bill more expensive if a hospital adds it to their service charge, because not everyone can afford it even if it is a personal (the husbands) decision.

You know your wife and your wife knows you
then why DNA test? Is it not waste of funds?

**When should a man demand a DNA test?
**You as the wife, how will you feel about that?
**Should it really become part of a husbands budget on every child delivery?
**What do you really think about running a DNA as a man or as a woman?

While this question is for everyone,it depends on how you and your wife understand each other in the house and how frequent your wife move from outside and coming back to your house,if your wife goes to market all the time bear it in mined that she might cheat on you,women are not trusted at all so you need to do DNA test ,it help in a marriage relationship,I support DNA test