Year 2023. I started investing in Bitcoin. The market has fluctuated many times until now. However, I have always had a long-term goal. Although I had to sell once due to circumstances, but I started investing again.
However, a few weeks after my investment, a close friend of mine also started investing. He also talked about long-term investment. Our goals were similar. However, even though the goals were the same, our behavior was not the same over time, and this is where the difference between investment and gambling was created.
He start take profits when price increased. After doing this a few times, he started monitoring the market regularly and analyzing the opinions of YouTube and Telegram. At one point, he started making decisions with the market fluctuations. Sometimes he would buy out of FOMO and sometimes he would sell out of panic. In this way, he would make profits at times and sometimes he would lose.
Even when I warned him about such behavior, he misunderstand me that maybe I did not want to let him make a profit.
However, at one point, after significant financial loss, he realized his mistake. The problem was in his behavior. He had the ability to continue investing well in the long term and even though he started investing with this intention, due to his inability to control his behavior, the investment turned into a gamble.
Do you think that mental and behavioral control are similar important with financial management, risk management in investing?
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In life generally, if you want to succeed you must be in control mentally, like from the story you shared both of you had same goal but due to certain behavioral pattens that we see common with people who truly dont understand bitcoin as an investment rather than a quick money scheme, people like that often lack control and are always prone to making mistakes.
Having a goal is one thing, understanding what needs to be done in order to achieve that goal is completely something else and that was the clear difference between you both.