Marriage Future Financial Arrangement.

[Japinat]

Marriage is sharing everything together so in finance you guys share everything as per your income and budget according to it. Usually women take care of the budget well and men also can be a participant in it. Nothing to worry about it, might be difficult to adjust at first but once you get along you will go together.

Marriage is the union of two different individuals and share everything particularly in finances as there's no secret to be kept individually when you're already in a serious marital relationship. Thus, sharing comes with different contributions so that marriage will work and becomes productive and profitable in the long run.

However, when it comes to financial set-up, its always the wife that is in-charge of it. And it would be better to have a joint bank account intended for future savings especially when there are already kids involved, you need to prepare for their bright future. And also a separate account for individual allowance so that one will not rely from the other, particularly if both have separate source of income.

[Cheema02]

Speaking about money is sensitive and plenty of problem caused this thing and for marriage financial is important because it can determinated our marriage future besides that our financial condition will determined our life after marriage that's why discussion with your partner before marriage to talking about money management is necessary besides that we should ensure our partner should be honest to managed the financial to avoiding the thing we don't want it and based on my personal experience and one of the most important too do not married with the partner who has large debts of histories because this habit can make you get in trouble to managing your financial condition

Your point is based on reality and its true that make  arguments on Money is very sensitive and importantly for marriage. For an healthy relationship financial stability plays a very important role because its directly affects life style and peace of mind. After marriage both partners equally share there responsibilities and management in this have a great impact on both partners life. So its essential to discuss about finance before marriage and couples should have planes about income and savings. Its my personal experience when we married with have large doubts then this thing created constant stress in there lives. And financial compatibility doesn't means that to have a lot of money but in actual its the sign of responsible and disciplined and its the important part of a healthy married life.

[JoyMarsha]

Before marriage, not talking about anything means that both spouses will accept whatever they see in the marriage. An unwise spouse will go with the mindset to take whatever they see in the marriage, not talking about the financial aspect, and how the family should be run, who provides more, or takes care of the future kids. A wise  spouse will like to talk about everything before they take the relationship to another level, "marriage," because marriage is not like a relationship someone will jump in and out of, just like that.

[eightdots]

Speaking about money is sensitive and plenty of problem caused this thing and for marriage financial is important because it can determinated our marriage future besides that our financial condition will determined our life after marriage that's why discussion with your partner before marriage to talking about money management is necessary besides that we should ensure our partner should be honest to managed the financial to avoiding the thing we don't want it and based on my personal experience and one of the most important too do not married with the partner who has large debts of histories because this habit can make you get in trouble to managing your financial condition

Your point is based on reality and its true that make  arguments on Money is very sensitive and importantly for marriage. For an healthy relationship financial stability plays a very important role because its directly affects life style and peace of mind. After marriage both partners equally share there responsibilities and management in this have a great impact on both partners life. So its essential to discuss about finance before marriage and couples should have planes about income and savings. Its my personal experience when we married with have large doubts then this thing created constant stress in there lives. And financial compatibility doesn't means that to have a lot of money but in actual its the sign of responsible and disciplined and its the important part of a healthy married life.

When discussing financial matters in marriage, it's essential for individuals to value and respect each other's opinions. Financial situations affect many marriages, and individuals need to support each other in the decision-making process. Honesty in financial matters is crucial and necessary for a successful marriage.

Financial stability is important in marriage, as it is in many other areas. Knowing one's responsibilities and striving for the future is essential. It's important for individuals to be disciplined and support each other financially.

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Before getting  married you need to talk about  your future financial arrangements with your intended spouse now.You can do this by considering some of these questions, Like how will our income be budgeted? Will we have a joint bank account or separate accounts? Which spouse will be more adept at keeping  financial records  and seeing that bills are paid? How much money can one of us spend on a purchase without consulting the other?
            So what's your suggestions or what's your take on this!

It looks like you are only targeting men by your questions because frequently women aren't the side that opens topics about financial management before the mariage. Personally, I will suggest a financial plan to manage family budget from both incomes me and her because I refuse to marry a jobless woman for several reasons.

Men are always the focus when it comes to financial management in marriage, you should know how the world works that when it comes to financial planning it’s mandatory that men have this responsibilities unless you’re telling me that you want to be an ignorant man, that would ignore the important things, but the most effective way of how things are done, is for women to be supportive to men, if a man gets married and they have a woman who is also supporting financially I think it gives the man some ease to be more comfortable and more confident with financial management, marrying someone that is jobless and doesn’t care about finances at home is a very awful thing in marriage, and this things makes marriage not to last longer, things like paying the bills, mostly keeping financial records is something that women can do very well, which is why women are more likely to be able to keep financial records.

Things have changed after the woman went out to labor market to compete with men in all his roles. Except for conservative closed societies like Afghanistan, a man require the woman to be working and able to provide financial help to improve financial stability. Modern society isn't a good place to have children if the two partners aren't supportive each to other and share responsabilities mutually.

[Somto9Light]

Before getting  married you need to talk about  your future financial arrangements with your intended spouse now.You can do this by considering some of these questions, Like how will our income be budgeted? Will we have a joint bank account or separate accounts? Which spouse will be more adept at keeping  financial records  and seeing that bills are paid? How much money can one of us spend on a purchase without consulting the other?
            So what's your suggestions or what's your take on this!

A very nice suggestions you have there I must say, but before you will sign up for this you need to ensure that your spouse is not this type that like flashy things or a type that is used to living a luxurious lifestyle because if you're have this type as a partner it will be very difficult to make this arrangement, at first they will just buy the idea but when they see those things that they are attracted to and it happens that there's no money available, they wouldn't mind tempering the savings to buy whatever it is that they want to buy. I'm saying this based on experience I know this might work perfectly for some people especially those that have a good partner.

[Jateng]

Financial transparency is essential. Many problems in marriages stem from money, leading to divorces. It's beneficial to discuss and decide on this before marriage, at least you'll know who will pay what beforehand. In marriage, both partners need to be constructive and do their best regarding costs. I believe it's not just the man's responsibility; the woman should also be supportive and help reduce expenses during difficult times.

In this challenging time both responsibility should be on both. we often see delays in marriage because of economic conditions. Both men and women work hard to build strong careers because they want to be financially stable before getting married. This is a good approach, but achieving this goal is not easy. They face stress and pressure from their families, and the job market is very competitive. To maintain a good position, they have to struggle a lot. the economic situation is getting worse day by day, which makes life more difficult for young people. That is why money is very important for both men and women should be financially strong before thinking about marriage.

[batang_bitcoin]

Before marriage, not talking about anything means that both spouses will accept whatever they see in the marriage. An unwise spouse will go with the mindset to take whatever they see in the marriage, not talking about the financial aspect, and how the family should be run, who provides more, or takes care of the future kids. A wise  spouse will like to talk about everything before they take the relationship to another level, "marriage," because marriage is not like a relationship someone will jump in and out of, just like that.

And they'll both take anything from each other because the foundation of their relationship is love and not with material things. The things they have are just a plus and it's a good setting that they have with those ownerships they have like for assets and businesses. But, that will also test their relationship if they're faithful to each other. Because one of the major problems that couples facing is about finance.

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Before marriage, not talking about anything means that both spouses will accept whatever they see in the marriage. An unwise spouse will go with the mindset to take whatever they see in the marriage, not talking about the financial aspect, and how the family should be run, who provides more, or takes care of the future kids. A wise  spouse will like to talk about everything before they take the relationship to another level, "marriage," because marriage is not like a relationship someone will jump in and out of, just like that.

And they'll both take anything from each other because the foundation of their relationship is love and not with material things. The things they have are just a plus and it's a good setting that they have with those ownerships they have like for assets and businesses. But, that will also test their relationship if they're faithful to each other. Because one of the major problems that couples facing is about finance.

You both seems not to know about marriage in islamic countries where mariage can be made without the two partners know anything about each other because it's socially not acceptable that the spouses meet before mariage. A man can marry up to 4 women at the same time and divorce is verbal by the man and the woman can't ask for divorce because of social stigma. There is another reality hidden in those conservative societies that not put into bthe table for discussion.

[batang_bitcoin]

And they'll both take anything from each other because the foundation of their relationship is love and not with material things. The things they have are just a plus and it's a good setting that they have with those ownerships they have like for assets and businesses. But, that will also test their relationship if they're faithful to each other. Because one of the major problems that couples facing is about finance.

You both seems not to know about marriage in islamic countries where mariage can be made without the two partners know anything about each other because it's socially not acceptable that the spouses meet before mariage. A man can marry up to 4 women at the same time and divorce is verbal by the man and the woman can't ask for divorce because of social stigma. There is another reality hidden in those conservative societies that not put into bthe table for discussion.

I know how ceremony and marriage goes with that religion but we're speaking on the other one which is not related to religion. And about marrying up to 4, for as long as the first and other women agrees to that, the man can be allowed to do so and has the capacity to do it. But if it's seen that he's not able to financially, then there will be no more additional marriage to that guy if it's with the islamic type of marriage. That is a sort of fix marriage as well but correct me if I am wrong with that.

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And they'll both take anything from each other because the foundation of their relationship is love and not with material things. The things they have are just a plus and it's a good setting that they have with those ownerships they have like for assets and businesses. But, that will also test their relationship if they're faithful to each other. Because one of the major problems that couples facing is about finance.

You both seems not to know about marriage in islamic countries where mariage can be made without the two partners know anything about each other because it's socially not acceptable that the spouses meet before mariage. A man can marry up to 4 women at the same time and divorce is verbal by the man and the woman can't ask for divorce because of social stigma. There is another reality hidden in those conservative societies that not put into bthe table for discussion.

I know how ceremony and marriage goes with that religion but we're speaking on the other one which is not related to religion. And about marrying up to 4, for as long as the first and other women agrees to that, the man can be allowed to do so and has the capacity to do it. But if it's seen that he's not able to financially, then there will be no more additional marriage to that guy if it's with the islamic type of marriage. That is a sort of fix marriage as well but correct me if I am wrong with that.

Yes you are a little bit wrong about this because in the majority of Islamic countries, marriage can be done out of legislation channels. It means it can be a customary marriage, not a civil marriage. A man can marry and divorce up to 3 women plus his initial wife without she knows about anything. Also in legislations for those countries, it's not mandatory for the man to be financiall enough stable to marry the secnd wife or plus. Note that the only two islamic countries not allowing polygamy Lebanon and Tunisia where marriage has to be always civil under law monitoring and marriage out of laws is considered a crime.

[Asuspawer09]

I completely agree with that, finances should always be talk about to your spouse, she is going to be your partner for a life time and finances should always be talk about, I mean one of the most leading reason when it comes to divorce are just financial problem, so finances should always be open to you and your partner everytime you two need to talk about it. When you get married everything is just going to merge and become one, I always like the david ramsey advice when comes to financial on married couple you become one and every income is going to be counted as one, always imphrases the "we" have an income.

I find it actually fun and exiting to budget with the fiancee, we are already starting to talk a lot of things and actually started to save even though we are not married yet, but In my opinion it is part of having a healthy relationship and even though we dont have a huge lot of savings yet since we are just getting started I feel secured that we are on the right path when it comes to finances.

[Hanadawa]

Yes you are a little bit wrong about this because in the majority of Islamic countries, marriage can be done out of legislation channels. It means it can be a customary marriage, not a civil marriage. A man can marry and divorce up to 3 women plus his initial wife without she knows about anything. Also in legislations for those countries, it's not mandatory for the man to be financiall enough stable to marry the secnd wife or plus. Note that the only two islamic countries not allowing polygamy Lebanon and Tunisia where marriage has to be always civil under law monitoring and marriage out of laws is considered a crime.

It's true that there's no fixed income limit for polygamy. In Islam, we can also marry without first knowing each other. But the absence of limits doesn't mean we can do whatever we please. Once a person has decided to practice polygamy, a woman's guardian or a wise judge/teacher will certainly not grant permission without checking the prospective husband's finances. Regarding marriage without the first wife's knowledge or divorce, which can be obtained verbally, as far as I recall, most Muslim countries have established regulations to protect the interests of both parties. Islamic law still applies and binds Muslims, but when it comes to state legalities like obtaining birth certificates, renewing ID card status, or obtaining heirship certificates, these cannot be done without a legal marriage according to state law.

[shield132]

Before getting  married you need to talk about  your future financial arrangements with your intended spouse now.You can do this by considering some of these questions, Like how will our income be budgeted? Will we have a joint bank account or separate accounts? Which spouse will be more adept at keeping  financial records  and seeing that bills are paid? How much money can one of us spend on a purchase without consulting the other?
            So what's your suggestions or what's your take on this!

In my country, the financial situation in married couple is messed up. Usually, men take loans, then are unable to pay them, then the court orders to seize their house, car, etc but to get rid of it, they move the house and the car on their wife's name, close their bank account and use their wife's account. That's how some part of people live but there is another part, the majority of people, who send their wives to Europe to take care of elder people and then these wives send money to their husbands in their home country. I know a guy who was poor and married for that purpose to send his wife in Europe to get some money from her. Hell, I even know a guy who had two wives, sent one in Italy and one in Germany and both of them were taking care of him