Criticism Rate At Home

[Saxonebloomy]

My Mum always feel like  a police detective,she always looked for areas where I failed or any little mistake,before I had time to finish my house chores,she would inspect my work,looking for mistakes.So does it seems as though nothing you do is ever good enough for your parents,Do you feel that your every move is being examined under a microscope.That you're always being watched and constantly critiqued but you never pass inspection?
               True commands and criticism may get on your nerves,but should you conclude that nothing you do is ever good enough or that you're a complete failure simply because your parents have pointed out a few of your flaws? Whatever is behind the criticism the question is:How can you cope with it? How can you remain cool of spirit when your being criticized at home or in the society?

[Frankolala]

No one can be loved by all and it's not everything that you do will be appreciated by all. So expect critics from people close to you in order for you to become better tomorrow. If you people don't criticize you, it means you're nobody. Your Mom is doing all that monitoring to make sure that you are carrying the task correctly. Maybe, you are the stubborn type.

[passwordnow]

My Mum always feel like  a police detective,she always looked for areas where I failed or any little mistake,before I had time to finish my house chores,she would inspect my work,looking for mistakes.So does it seems as though nothing you do is ever good enough for your parents,Do you feel that your every move is being examined under a microscope.That you're always being watched and constantly critiqued but you never pass inspection?

That's normal for moms to be meticulous. How old are you? are you still a teenager that you're living with your mom and that's why she's so strict like that?

True commands and criticism may get on your nerves,but should you conclude that nothing you do is ever good enough or that you're a complete failure simply because your parents have pointed out a few of your flaws? Whatever is behind the criticism the question is:How can you cope with it? How can you remain cool of spirit when your being criticized at home or in the society?

Man, don't feel bad about your moms strictness. You'll miss that when you get older and that's not a big thing to be felt bad about. But if it's the society that's criticizing you, as long as you're not doing anything wrong, who cares?

[Hewlet]

Whatever is behind the criticism the question is:How can you cope with it? How can you remain cool of spirit when your being criticized at home or in the society?

As a parent, one of the things you ought to ensure is not missing in your training up of your child is to ensure that while you're correcting them, that you're doing so in love. If you're not correcting your children or child in love and give them the impression that you're criticising them, you've Indirectly failed in part of the roles you're supposed to be playing as a parent.

There's a place for correction and as a child or young adult, you've got to see it that the reason for the correction is that they want the best for you. A good parent trains his child by sometimes disciplining him. That act of discipline doesn't show hatred by suggest that you love and wants the best for the child.

[Ndabagi01]

Criticism has helped many to become who they are today, not having this in the process of you growing up and socializing from the family and community, you may not be able to make it far in this life. Constructive criticism are the best form of criticism but still yet many people don’t know how to interpret constructive ones and make the whole point of it looks like not wanting one to grow.

The best form of criticism that you can receive and should work towards changing is the one that is being spelt out by your parents, those are strong words from one who won’t ever mislead you into making decisions that are not worth it in this life or one that will see you going a wrong direction and won’t correct you effectively back again.

[programmer3666]

Criticism at home is one thing you can never run from, and the best way to deal with it is to force yourself to stay calm and not take everything said to you too personally! although is is difficult to do, you will have to find a way to ignore them because they will either say it to your face or say it behind you. Some parents genuinely go the extra mile to point out mistakes, not out of anger but mostly because they want some sense of improvements and sometimes their words may sound harsh but instead of looking at it from the angle of not being good enough, it would be best to see it as feedback for a chance to grow and do better.