AS A PARENTS IS GOOD TO ARGUE AND FIGHT BEFORE YOUR CHILDREN

[POPOLUV]

There is this  case i came across were the family head  gather with the rest of the family settling a conflict between a man and the wife, even the neighbors came to testify that this particular man argue and fight from morning till night in the front of their children and when they asked the why he love arguing and fighting all the time without minding if your children is at home and the man replied and said that when he was growing up that he usually sees his own father biting up his mother every day and he knows that the best way to correct a wife when she is wrong is by biting her up all the time, then family head caution the man and said that he took a wrong side of his father by biting up his wife all the time is wrong and even in the front of the children too, so in that case i learnt that it is not good to do anything that effect your children in future while they are still a child, you should stop doing some certain things in there presence because children learn easily from the parents.

[passwordnow]

There is this  case i came across were the family head  gather with the rest of the family settling a conflict between a man and the wife, even the neighbors came to testify that this particular man argue and fight from morning till night in the front of their children and when they asked the why he love arguing and fighting all the time without minding if your children is at home and the man replied and said that when he was growing up that he usually sees his own father biting up his mother every day and he knows that the best way to correct a wife when she is wrong is by biting her up all the time, then family head caution the man and said that he took a wrong side of his father by biting up his wife all the time is wrong and even in the front of the children too, so in that case i learnt that it is not good to do anything that effect your children in future while they are still a child, you should stop doing some certain things in there presence because children learn easily from the parents.

That reasoning shows that whatever we show in front of our kids, they'll remember that and will set as an example to do the same thing as they grow old. It's a bad model to show that kind of argument in front of your kids if the argument is between you and your wife only. Set an example that if the kids have done wrong, that's the time to show it to the siblings on how you're going to discipline them. But things between wives and husbands, it should be kept privately because the kids are easy to remember arguments day and night.

[Spaceman1000$]

There is this  case i came across were the family head  gather with the rest of the family settling a conflict between a man and the wife, even the neighbors came to testify that this particular man argue and fight from morning till night in the front of their children and when they asked the why he love arguing and fighting all the time without minding if your children is at home and the man replied and said that when he was growing up that he usually sees his own father biting up his mother every day and he knows that the best way to correct a wife when she is wrong is by biting her up all the time, then family head caution the man and said that he took a wrong side of his father by biting up his wife all the time is wrong and even in the front of the children too, so in that case i learnt that it is not good to do anything that effect your children in future while they are still a child, you should stop doing some certain things in there presence because children learn easily from the parents.

When marriage gets to where both parties fight none stop, it's better they go there separate ways, divorce was made for a reason, both parties shouldn't not be enduring domestic violence. If the Man is claiming he inherited the wrong side of his father, then he should be left alone, he should learn how to stay without a partner, because in exchanging such violence someone can lose his life, so the best thing is to to go solo. Children are too innocent to be witnessing such violence, as a matter of fact, those children should be removed from the hands of that kind of father because the legacy he wants to keep, should die with him.

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That reasoning shows that whatever we show in front of our kids, they'll remember that and will set as an example to do the same thing as they grow old. It's a bad model to show that kind of argument in front of your kids if the argument is between you and your wife only. Set an example that if the kids have done wrong, that's the time to show it to the siblings on how you're going to discipline them. But things between wives and husbands, it should be kept privately because the kids are easy to remember arguments day and night.

Children will model what parents see even though they are still small, but if they continue to show bad behavior in front of the child and do not teach good things, the child's character will be the same in the future when they grow up.

To these children, you must teach kindness, soft words and how to be polite, so that is good behavior to educate children from an early age.

If you continue to see husband and wife arguing, especially in front of children, it will cause severe psychological trauma.

[Nothingtodo]

If there is a quarrel between family members, it definitely has a negative impact on the younger children in the family. If parents are quarrelsome in the family and if there is unrest between the parents, then this bad habit of the parents has a huge impact on the younger children of that family.
Children in particular are role models and children will learn to do what their parents do. If young children see their parents quarreling and fighting among themselves, they will learn to master that habit as they grow up. When children grow up, they will also learn to quarrel between husband and wife like their parents. Of course, every parent should not quarrel in front of their children and live together in peace so that their children do not grow up to be quarrelsome like them.

[AVE5]

It's not right of the cowardice man who wasn't qualified to have a wife and a father like that man. He shouldn't had layed his hands on his wife or even arguing with his wife stupidly. Even if he was to activate that psycho it shouldn't be in from of the children because they learns more from the parents that grew them up.
So what do you expect? Definitely bad morals will have it negative effects on kids so also good morals guides them through too. That's why when acting in from of kids should be very careful because they also learns by what they sees, hears or thoughts.

I heard only jobless men spends those times fighting and arguing with wife or families at home like that.
A responsible husband and father will always live to keep good integrities and reputations for his family that's emulative.

[Queen uloma]

You're totally correct, you see children, they learn from what they see, than what they hear, not when it's coming from their own parents, anything that makes them witness fight or argument, they feel very afraid and scared, the current place we're living, we're facing the same thing, this our landlord fight his wife and even his children, everyday no peace at all, even after they took him to police station, and he ended up signing undertaking still no change, his last child is currently sick because of all the fight and argument, anything that has to do with conflict effects the well being of the children, including their school performance, which is very bad, anything you introduce to your children determined what they will become in the future, quarrel are normal thing in the family but learn to handle it calmly, not in the present of your children.

[DYOR+BTC]

Before asking others i think we need to put ourselves at the forefront of all by seeing ourselves as the children involved in this picture, we all know children learn by what they see and watch people do that is why what ever they see they come home to practice them without knowing the results they will get at last. Assuming we are the children and are parents are fighting in our presence do you think it won't be practiced when the time comes. Some men are abusive men today because they watch others especially there parents do so, therefore we should learn how to avoid such act in front of our children if we want them to be free from that in the future.

[BADecker]

AS A PARENTS  IS GOOD TO ARGUE AND FIGHT BEFORE YOUR CHILDREN


It's better than hiding knowledge of the birds and the bees from them.

[Frankolala]

Parents are the first role model to their kids because as they're growing, they will learn more from their parents than on the society especially, when it comes to family affairs. I have a friend that his wife always fight him in the public for no serious reason. I was shocked to over hear her telling her friend that her Mom use to beat her father when she was small. This was the reason she use to fight her husband to beat him. Mind what you do in front of your kids.

[passwordnow]

That reasoning shows that whatever we show in front of our kids, they'll remember that and will set as an example to do the same thing as they grow old. It's a bad model to show that kind of argument in front of your kids if the argument is between you and your wife only. Set an example that if the kids have done wrong, that's the time to show it to the siblings on how you're going to discipline them. But things between wives and husbands, it should be kept privately because the kids are easy to remember arguments day and night.

Children will model what parents see even though they are still small, but if they continue to show bad behavior in front of the child and do not teach good things, the child's character will be the same in the future when they grow up.

To these children, you must teach kindness, soft words and how to be polite, so that is good behavior to educate children from an early age.

If you continue to see husband and wife arguing, especially in front of children, it will cause severe psychological trauma.

That's true, so if the parents are showing their bad side in front of their kids. The kids will think of it as something normal and they'd do the same when they're growing up. The main excuse they'd say is always like that "I've seen it from my parents" and that's a shame on the end of the parents when their kids justifies the bad attitude they have and that's because it is what they've seen from them.

[BADecker]

That reasoning shows that whatever we show in front of our kids, they'll remember that and will set as an example to do the same thing as they grow old. It's a bad model to show that kind of argument in front of your kids if the argument is between you and your wife only. Set an example that if the kids have done wrong, that's the time to show it to the siblings on how you're going to discipline them. But things between wives and husbands, it should be kept privately because the kids are easy to remember arguments day and night.

Children will model what parents see even though they are still small, but if they continue to show bad behavior in front of the child and do not teach good things, the child's character will be the same in the future when they grow up.

To these children, you must teach kindness, soft words and how to be polite, so that is good behavior to educate children from an early age.

If you continue to see husband and wife arguing, especially in front of children, it will cause severe psychological trauma.

That's true, so if the parents are showing their bad side in front of their kids. The kids will think of it as something normal and they'd do the same when they're growing up. The main excuse they'd say is always like that "I've seen it from my parents" and that's a shame on the end of the parents when their kids justifies the bad attitude they have and that's because it is what they've seen from them.

Your excuse is to show a bunch of the other parents to your kids, so they see that what you are teaching them is arbitrary.

[MagnificentX]

Parents are the first role model to their kids because as they're growing, they will learn more from their parents than on the society especially, when it comes to family affairs. I have a friend that his wife always fight him in the public for no serious reason. I was shocked to over hear her telling her friend that her Mom use to beat her father when she was small. This was the reason she use to fight her husband to beat him. Mind what you do in front of your kids.

I agree with you brother, because I have seen and witnessed it so many times that became one thing that shaped me. I have seen so many couples or let me say partners who fight themselves and not just fight but they do it in the presence of their children and let me say this, this act affects the psychology of the children. It can make them good or become bad when they grow up and start a family of their own.

If they are reasonable enough, they can say "I want to live a more better life than my parents", learning from the what they learnt and working towards having a peaceful and better relationship with their partners and kids or they can choose to always want to impose authority over their partners because they learnt it from their parents when they were younger. It is just as simple as it is and we should not forget that a childs first form of learning is from the things he/she sees and the first teachers of a child is the parents. So whatever the parents of the child do in the presence of the child, they are indirectly telling the child to learn from it.

[passwordnow]

That's true, so if the parents are showing their bad side in front of their kids. The kids will think of it as something normal and they'd do the same when they're growing up. The main excuse they'd say is always like that "I've seen it from my parents" and that's a shame on the end of the parents when their kids justifies the bad attitude they have and that's because it is what they've seen from them.

Your excuse is to show a bunch of the other parents to your kids, so they see that what you are teaching them is arbitrary.

Yeah, that's got a point. If they don't listen to you and they think that what you're telling them is wrong, that's the next thing to be done. And that's to have a look on other parents and have them talk to your kids. They'll have that modesty if it's the other people trying to teach them instead of their parents.

[Fiatless]

Parents are the first teachers of children. The children learn from their parents behavour and this could be the foundation of the children's lifestyle. Anything you don't want your children to learn dont do it in their presence. They learn more from what they see than what you say. Parents who fight in the presence of their children are sowing thesame seed in them.