Gambling, Drugs, Women, are these the enemies of good life Or something else?

[TokenTikas]

Most of us already know about gambling. We have heard many things about drugs and even seen some of their consequences. But along with these, there is another issue I heard from my school teachers and my parents, which is about “women”. They said that three things are enough to destroy a boy’s life, those are: casino, drugs, and women. When I was younger, I did not really believe what my teachers and parents said but as I grew up and started to understand life, I realized that what they said was true.

These three things are enough to destroy a boy’s normal and beautiful life. I understand these issues in this way:
✓ When someone becomes addicted to casinos, he ends up losing everything.
✓ Drug use pushes a person toward destruction.
✓ Falling into the trap of women can ruin a normal life. (Here, the word women refers to bad women, whose influence can ruin the lives of men when they fall into their trap.)

Truly, these three things are very dangerous in the life of a healthy and normal boy. What level of importance do you think these three issues have?

[Rashlyowl]

Truly, these three things are very dangerous in the life of a healthy and normal boy. What level of importance do you think these three issues have?

In our place, we call it the danger triangle. Typically, boys are affected by one of these three addictions, women, gambling, or drugs. However, there are also others who involve all three. I have a bros who has been affected by all three & his life seems to have lost its direction. If I were to say, he's just waiting to die. He gambles & wins, then the money goes to women or drugs. If he loses, he will look for quick money, loans or stealing valuables & then continue his gambling. It forms a killer cycle.

[mindrust]

They probably mean “prostitutes” or “gold diggers”. I don’t think having a gf is as dangerous as gambling, drugs, smoking etc but gold diggers are indeed dangerous. You definitely don’t want any of those people around you but if you happen to make some money from gambling, eventually they’ll appear around you and you’ll think you are making friends. In reality, you are attracting parasites and parasites eventually kill their host and move to the new one. If you knew they were parasites, you wouldn’t keep them around but that’s how they confuse you and it is pretty damn easy to confuse male mind. A couple of melons and apples are usually enough. Don’t fall for this cheap trick and you’ll be fine.

[cryptoaddictchie]

Truly, these three things are very dangerous in the life of a healthy and normal boy. What level of importance do you think these three issues have?

I think the deeper issue behind all three isn’t casinos, drugs, or women themselves, but a lack of self control and clear values. Anything that hijacks judgment and discipline can derail a life, whether it’s addiction, substance abuse, or unhealthy relationships. When someone builds boundaries, purpose, and accountability, these dangers lose most of their power. We all know that someone can stop it no matter what but some chooses to do so ending up with one of those three.

[CONVOAI]

✓ Falling into the trap of women can ruin a normal life. (Here, the word women refers to bad women, whose influence can ruin the lives of men when they fall into their trap.)

I don't think it's a trap. Every boy has some woman in his life and a good relationship can develop between them. But if for some reason their relationship gets ruined, they blame each other. This saying that girls always trap boys is not true. A relationship develops with the consent of both the boy and the girl. So I think we shouldn't just blame the girls.

And it's better to stay away from drugs as much as possible. We need to be more aware about drugs because it is a very dangerous addiction.

[DubemIfedigbo001]

Gambling and women are recreational tools that can be controlled to a large extent since you apportion time and availability to it unless you're careless. If you've a good woman and not just womanizing, she'll be a blessing and a gift from nature to you.
The worst of it all is drugs. Drugs are easily abused even without actually knowing and it surely has negative consequences. Drugs are easily addicting and your body tends to adjust to its consistent intake and depends on it to function properly.
Of all three of them, drug rehabilitation is the hardest and depending on what you took, your ailment may be temporal or permanent.

The possibility of being addicted to the 3 of them are very slim, drug addicts care less about womanizing, they might gamble a lot but they care more about their intakes than consistent womanizing. In all you do, avoid drugs, the consequences are far greater than expected, both health wise and psychologically.

[Sammye3]

Truly, these three things are very dangerous in the life of a healthy and normal boy. What level of importance do you think these three issues have?

Gambling and drug use are the most destructive element of a man's life, women as you mentioned OP, tagged as "bad women" are also another illusion that a man must learn to resist to avoid a life that leads to an early grave.

To a huge extent, more emphasis should be laid on drugs and gambling over women, because one could have a woman in his life who never fails to give corrections and advise when necessary over acting ignorant as gold diggers only when times are good.

It all depends on the mindset of the individual,  how they control their urge and organize their self control over these three elements, because no matter how a man's sees all of these as a bad habit, without self control it becomes difficult to stop such habits.

[gunhell16]

Those three mentioned things can really be said to be weaknesses of men, I remember during the times when I was 20 years old until 35 years, women really became my vice, I was extremely attracted to beautiful women. During these times, most of the women I was attracted to, I got what I wanted from them, although I also spent all my money on them.

And most of them I got really serious with, but in the end, I was still the one left behind and lost. Though during those times, I never experienced taking illegal drugs or gambling, and when I learned from my mistakes in having a vice for women, I then tried online casino here in the crypto space, but I'm not addicted to it; rather, I have limits on my gambling, and in the several years I've been doing this, I haven't had any problems. It was really only with women back then that almost ruined my life. But now I've really learned from my past.

[TokenTikas]

In our place, we call it the danger triangle. Typically, boys are affected by one of these three addictions, women, gambling, or drugs. However, there are also others who involve all three. I have a bros who has been affected by all three & his life seems to have lost its direction. If I were to say, he's just waiting to die. He gambles & wins, then the money goes to women or drugs. If he loses, he will look for quick money, loans or stealing valuables & then continue his gambling. It forms a killer cycle.

If someone gets addicted to even one of these three things, they lose the balance of a normal life. You are saying that there is a brother over there who is addicted to all three. Honestly, he is now just waiting for death and nothing else because he has lost all the goals of his life. It feels very painful when I see or hear about such situations. From a beautiful and normal life, how they put themselves in danger and completely ruin their own lives.

In reality, you are attracting parasites and parasites eventually kill their host and move to the new one. If you knew they were parasites, you wouldn’t keep them around but that’s how they confuse you and it is pretty damn easy to confuse male mind. A couple of melons and apples are usually enough. Don’t fall for this cheap trick and you’ll be fine.

Definitely true, if we are protect ourselves and to keep our normal, beautiful life balanced, we should not step into such traps. If we stay careful from our own side then maybe such bad things will not happen to us.

I don't think it's a trap. Every boy has some woman in his life and a good relationship can develop between them. But if for some reason their relationship gets ruined, they blame each other....

You may understand the kind of women i'm talking about. Naturally, good women are an important part of our life but the women i mentioned are the ones you can already understand in a normal way.

[davis196]

Most of us already know about gambling. We have heard many things about drugs and even seen some of their consequences. But along with these, there is another issue I heard from my school teachers and my parents, which is about “women”. They said that three things are enough to destroy a boy’s life, those are: casino, drugs, and women. When I was younger, I did not really believe what my teachers and parents said but as I grew up and started to understand life, I realized that what they said was true.

These three things are enough to destroy a boy’s normal and beautiful life. I understand these issues in this way:
✓ When someone becomes addicted to casinos, he ends up losing everything.
✓ Drug use pushes a person toward destruction.
✓ Falling into the trap of women can ruin a normal life. (Here, the word women refers to bad women, whose influence can ruin the lives of men when they fall into their trap.)

Truly, these three things are very dangerous in the life of a healthy and normal boy. What level of importance do you think these three issues have?

You could add alcohol, porn and videogames to the list. There are many bad habits and vices, that can destroy someone's life. The importance of self-control and moderation cannot be neglected. Any form of addiction is dangerous, but if you are not getting addicted, everything if fine. It's funny how women(toxic women, of course) are put into the same category as gambling and drugs. I agree that toxic women can waste your money and severely damage your mental state and your nerves, just as much as gambling and drug abuse. Every young man must use his brain and try to stay moderate, when it comes to certain activities. The men, who have the will power to stay disciplined and to never get addicted are a minority.

[_act_]

You could add alcohol, porn and videogames to the list. There are many bad habits and vices, that can destroy someone's life. The importance of self-control and moderation cannot be neglected. Any form of addiction is dangerous, but if you are not getting addicted, everything if fine.

How can videogames destroy someone's life? These are existing for people to enjoy and I do not see how they can destroy life.

Excessive alcohol can destroy life but many people drink moderately.

I do not know about porn but I do not think it should be added just like videogames should not be added, but excessive porn can reduce libido for men. Experts will tell such a person to reduce watching it.

It's funny how women(toxic women, of course) are put into the same category as gambling and drugs. I agree that toxic women can waste your money and severely damage your mental state and your nerves, just as much as gambling and drug abuse. Every young man must use his brain and try to stay moderate, when it comes to certain activities. The men, who have the will power to stay disciplined and to never get addicted are a minority.

Women can destroy life if you are not established yet and if you do not use your brain. He is talking about adolatory. I mean having different women and spending on them.

[YOSHIE]

Truly, these three things are very dangerous in the life of a healthy and normal boy. What level of importance do you think these three issues have?

Talking about drugs, gambling or other language which often mentions the contextual implications of women or promiscuity, these three elements are not enemies of life, they can also damage you physically/mentally or morally. These three elements can also destroy the overall economic order and also have a negative outlook on people's lives.

For this reason, we as parents or those of us who are still young, need to comprehensively handle the impact of negative things that could happen, especially now that we live in the technological age, almost the average young person can easily access online casinos. Indecent applications and also access to drug dealer networks need to be alerted early before it is too late.

[imthegreat]

Most of us already know about gambling. We have heard many things about drugs and even seen some of their consequences. But along with these, there is another issue I heard from my school teachers and my parents, which is about “women”. They said that three things are enough to destroy a boy’s life, those are: casino, drugs, and women. When I was younger, I did not really believe what my teachers and parents said but as I grew up and started to understand life, I realized that what they said was true.

These three things are enough to destroy a boy’s normal and beautiful life. I understand these issues in this way:
✓ When someone becomes addicted to casinos, he ends up losing everything.
✓ Drug use pushes a person toward destruction.
✓ Falling into the trap of women can ruin a normal life. (Here, the word women refers to bad women, whose influence can ruin the lives of men when they fall into their trap.)

Truly, these three things are very dangerous in the life of a healthy and normal boy. What level of importance do you think these three issues have?

I laughed while reading your article because I understand the logic, but I still want to argue. I didn't see alcohol in your list of destructive factors, and it's a very harmful habit. It's not as bad as drugs or uncontrolled gambling, but it ruins lives, and it's especially terrible if, for example, a father or mother drinks heavily, and the children suffer because of it. I also don't really understand why you included women in this list, because wives are certainly evil but we need them. Without them, we can't have children to start living our best lives, continuing our family lineage and bringing joy to our parents.

[Kelward]

This is why these three things that you mentioned are not for children, aside from hard drugs like cocaine that can damage somebody's mind and body the rest two are fine if you are a responsible adult. Women and gambling are not for underaged that is why we don't encourage underaged gambling and rushing into relationships when you are not matured enough to handle what is in it. I gamble and I have a wife yet my life is not ruined because I'm matured and in control of my gambling and in charge of my family. If you cannot control yourself in the above things you should give yourself time to mature or don't go into them.

[Asiska02]

Truly, these three things are very dangerous in the life of a healthy and normal boy. What level of importance do you think these three issues have?

I like the bolder part in your statement, it is really showing that you have indeed given an exception to some women because now all women are bad women and in this case, it could be the kind of life the man wants to live that will affect his relationship with women. If he has an intention of becoming a womanizer or he’s already one, when he comes across women that are also having the mentality of selling their body or gold digging, he’ll misuse his life there and won’t see any tangible benefit to himself after many years of struggle.

Drug addiction and gambling addiction are more prevalent as the after effect of them when addicted without control is beyond repair immediately. It damages your mental and psychological health, so this can be as a more dangerous effect that a man should never involve himself in. Gambling addiction and womanizing can actually be controlled when engaged in diligently, but for drugs, it is never a good way of life and should now even be tried as the consequences are worse than all and can lead to immediate mental damage or eventually death.

[Hazink]

And among the three critical things you mentioned as what can destroy man, none of them is being imposed on someone, it's still people who choose which of them to go after or get involved in all three.

It's all a thing of choice and personality, not what society forces you to get involved in or be regarded as not being strong enough.

There are still ways of gambling and not being addicted. Where the main promen also comes from is excesses. Too much of everything is always bad.

[giammangiato]

A similar discussion was opened a few months ago, in addition to this triangle of bad habits, family growth also affects personal life.
If you are not "educated" as a child about the real values of life the risk of losing yourself is really easy.
Easy money and not sweating to get something amplifies the signs of bad habits, until you get everything easily you grow, so you will soon be looking for alternative ways to make quick and easy money (which is often gambling) at that moment I enter the tunnel of deception.
If, on the other hand, a person is educated to sacrifice and that you have to work hard to achieve something, perhaps the risk is reduced.

[fullfitlarry]

Truly, these three things are very dangerous in the life of a healthy and normal boy. What level of importance do you think these three issues have?

Yes, some of us here might have fallen for this bad vices in life. And if you have this kind of combination? You might ruin your life for what's it worth. That's why we should really control ourselves specially if we are young, because this kind of things are really what life can offer to us.

Maybe we can choose one and for the majority of us here it could be gambling only. But then there is also this addiction, but choosing lesser addictions amongst the three? It could be just gambling as we can only waste our money and not our body or mind to a certain extend.

[Mr. Magkaisa]

✓ When someone becomes addicted to casinos, he ends up losing everything.
✓ Drug use pushes a person toward destruction.
✓ Falling into the trap of women can ruin a normal life. (Here, the word women refers to bad women, whose influence can ruin the lives of men when they fall into their trap.)

Casino is a part of a good entertainment and becoming bad due to addcition of others.
Drugs is no use for anything, it will ruin you and your life and destroy everything even rrelationships with your people around. It will urge you to sell what you have just to buy and make your self satisfied.
WOMEN! are always a no good even she is good or a bad one, no need for any influence as long ans you get it at first its already a bad thing if you already have a family and wife.
Though if you are single then its a different story to tell.

[iv4n]

Gambling, Drugs, Women, are these the enemies of good life Or something else?

If these are the enemies, then I gladly surrender! Why choose war & destruction when we can choose love?

Interesting topic, and comments... I think OP should add alcohol too, to make it complete. A glass of some fine wine will make gambling, drugs, and women even better...  

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