I told him to escrow it as I wanted to do the escrow for free so far it is a free giveaway, he did not listen.
Wow. I think you should read eddie13's post, he was spot on (when you were still a Newbie):
How many countless good and intelligent users have been chased away because they “might” scam..
A new startup can’t come here and start a signature campaign for example without completely being bullied into “trusting” some escrow they have probably never heard of, so heaven forbid they couldn’t possibly scam some users willing to take the risk..
A new user can hardly post anything for sale here without being bullied into some 3rd party “idiot protection” scheme because OMG they might try to scam you..
A new user here can’t start lending on any sort of collateral because holy shot they might scam the collateral..
All new economics here CRUSHED by regulatory bullying in the name of “protecting idiots”...
I think Antonpans should be given red trust.
I think it should be neutral. I'll quote myself on the reason why:
Bitcointalk is all about freedom, and if someone wants to give away $25 in a non-transparent way, that's fine. If you don't like it, don't join.
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I don't want to annoy a new user with questions and hoops to jump through. If he doesn't select a winner, we'll know it was fake. But I don't want to discourage genuine users from running giveaways.
Giving away in a non-transparent way is fine by you but not fine by all. Some members want transparency.
I really don't see the relevance. If someone doesn't like something on the internet, that doesn't mean someone else has to change what they're doing.
I have seen newbies get tagged red for simply asking for a loan in the Lending board
I've seen it too, and don't like it. To quote eddie13 again: "protecting idiots". If someone wants to send his money to a Newbie, let them! They'll learn a valuable lesson.
yet there seems to be a different mindset when it comes to giveaways.
Luckily, I might add. Bitcointalk wouldn't be nicer if someone starts tagging Newbies just for offering a giveway.
If a newbie comes along and says he is giving away 10 BTC, will you avoid asking questions (and expect others to not ask questions) purely on the basis you do not want them to jump through hoops just in the event he is genuinely going to give away 10 BTC? If that is your stance then that is for you but not everybody feels that way.
I'd have a lot of questions

But that shouldn't stop a Newbie from doing what they want.
I remember the Newbie who gave away 1 Bitcoin to many users years ago. If I remember correctly he later started asking for money.
Remember:
the forum's mission to be as free as possible.
I'm more and more starting to get theymos' stance (and eddie13's frustration) with this. The freedoms Bitcointalk offers are really rare on the internet. Cherish it!