Unless they have had personal experience with Boomerang or know how exactly it works.
If they have personal experience with Boomerang or know how exactly it works, they know that due to using Boomerang, the withdrawal ceremony takes a relatively long and unknown time. That is the exact expectation and it is guaranteed.
but for some reason it's taking too long or doesn't work.
If they know Boomerang, they know that taking too long is not faulty behavior or caused by non-cooperation on your side. That's how Boomerang is supposed to work even in normal conditions. Just like a 2-of-3 multisig that needs 2 keys to move funds.
This isn't a guarantee that they won't physically harm you, though. It might cause exactly that because they may get angry and think you are playing the fool.
That is why Boomerang somehow is the opposite of security through obscurity. If you announce you are using Boomerang as an enterprise, your attacker thinks twice before the operation against key holders. But if you are facing a crude attacker, you may gonna have the same destiny as if you had a 2-of-3 multisig and needed to explain your inability to move the funds alone to a person totally unfamiliar with bitcoin.
Hence, we need to educate attackers on Bitcoin and, in this case, Boomerang as well
