We don't grow when life is easier but we grow when life is hard

[POPOLUV]

Many of the rich men children don't grow the way they are meant to be because they see everything coming to them once they mention what they want and some time if the father notices early that this particular child will not do well because of too much pampering and the mother will claim that father is too hard on that particular child and without the mother knowing that the father want the best for the child, and most the rich men children end up growing out from the plan the father have for them once they have the opportunity to stay alone while going through high school, and once such is giving to they will doing clubbing and taking hard drugs without attending any of the licture any day because his father money, while the poor children grow well even things are hard and grap every little opportunity they have in the high school and they take lictures more serious because they know their family background and has been motivating them to be more serious in school, inclusion i advise that parents are in the best position to know in which child that is growing in the wrong direction and such child should be corrected immediately when he/she is a kids and avoid too much pampering when you know on what to do when the child did wrong and parents don't fail to apply such caution that will help your children in future when they have come to ages.

[Frankolala]

It all deepends on the child up bringing. I have seen rich people that their children are cool headed and very humble in the society. They take over their father business at a young age after they have graduated from the university. Haven't you seen a poor man child that became a nuisance to the society. This is why it's good to bring up your child in a God fearing way and let them be full devoted to God for guidance.

[Findingnemo]

Don't generalize that every rich kid is a spoild brat, there are still who managed to pass on their knowledge to their kid and made them more successful. And it is true that we will know the real face of the earth when our pockets are rich and to teach that to a kid the rich dad should expose their kid to every kind of situation instead of pampering with a luxury lifestyle which is for the goodness of their kid and when they grow up they will know the value of the money.

[Kiddo15]

Many of the rich men children don't grow the way they are meant to be because they see everything coming to them once they mention what they want and some time if the father notices early that this particular child will not do well because of too much pampering and the mother will claim that father is too hard on that particular child and without the mother knowing that the father want the best for the child, and most the rich men children end up growing out from the plan the father have for them once they have the opportunity to stay alone while going through high school, and once such is giving to they will doing clubbing and taking hard drugs without attending any of the licture any day because his father money, while the poor children grow well even things are hard and grap every little opportunity they have in the high school and they take lictures more serious because they know their family background and has been motivating them to be more serious in school, inclusion i advise that parents are in the best position to know in which child that is growing in the wrong direction and such child should be corrected immediately when he/she is a kids and avoid too much pampering when you know on what to do when the child did wrong and parents don't fail to apply such caution that will help your children in future when they have come to ages.

Children wether rich or poor can grow up to be waywards, their background is not really an issue, the most important thing is the way they where raised while growing up. When parents don't give proper attention to their children behavior, the society pays the price. I don't have any problem with Children that where born into privilege homes, that is what destiny has given to them, but when it comes to going astray, any child can do that, people focus more of the privilege children but forget that the chances of a privilege child to go astray is less higher than that of a poor child.

[Mhizlove]

How I see it is that, hardship do build up character but you see that too much comfort children get that's what cause them to lack discipline and it will make them miss there direction or step. When things are made eay for children like all this rich kids,that will make them not to learn how to be responsible, but when kids who grow up with hardship and challenges that will make them to be responsible and work hard for themselves.

What I will point out is that parents plays bigger role in shaping the lives of children to balance it, we all know that love is very important when it comes to your child or something you care for but that don't mean you won't discipline that child, because to correction and guidance is very important too and it's matters alot, to train a child early like telling them what is wrong and right on a early stage will help them to become responsible and this will prepare them for the future, no matter how wealthy the family is coming from is.

[$crypto$]

It depends on the parents' upbringing, and not all children of the rich are spoiled, many of the successes of the children of the rich after they graduate from college and continue their parents' company until they can become fast growing again.

There are also spoiled rich children --- because they feel everything is fulfilled without having to work hard or wait for the child to tend to be lazy, behind that parents do not educate properly in their character.

While the children of the poor are required to be smart and clever when the future is later, they feel how bitter all the shortcomings are, including food, daily expenses and their lives, so the hope of these children's parents hopes that their children will succeed and break the chain of poverty from themselves.

[BADecker]

The point really is, how long will you live? Anybody who is dead, is dead no matter how long he lives. If we don't keep this in mind, everything else is simply a materialistic view. And it goes for your children, too.

The important thing is to prepare your children for the next life. And the best preparation has to do with teaching them the things/truths of the Bible... especially the New Testament, first.

[Callido]

A question for you OP, do you want to raise your children as a rich man or raise them as someone whose life is hard.

If you believe staying in hard conditions makes your children to be relevant, you are wrong.

You don't want to know how terrible it is to raise children in a tough condition, when life gets tougher, they are forced to make decisions they should have made if the standard of living was at a good condition, whether rich or poor give your children the right manners.

[Samlucky O]

I understand the angle you are going bro, but it doesn't always work like that. It always vise versa meaning that some poor children end up becoming bard children while the rich kid becomes the good ones. Whole in other hands the poor child will be good while the rich kid will be the bad one All this depends on the child's upbringing. If the parents are poor but teach the children the good way, they will be good and vise versa if they teach them bad thy become bad as well so it is the duty of the parents that determine the future of the children inost cases.

[OgNasty]

I agree that the hottest flame makes the hardest steel. However, it really is the individual that makes the difference. For example, these days I have it pretty easy. I could easily eat all day and lay around getting fat, but I use my free time to learn fighting skills and lift weights. I might not otherwise have the opportunity if life was constantly beating me down.

As a child I think it is best to grow up poor with good parents to help you grow through adversity, but when you’re older, it is nice to have the free time to better yourself.

[Joy- maker]

I can't agree much with what you just said OP, but I must say this it depends. Some persons who are from rich home perform better than those coming from poor home in all aspects. See Op it depend on how a child was brought up, I can be rich I choose to discipline my children for their own good and future. What I came to understand is that if you give a child whatever he or she ask you May likely be spoiling that child. The child will see reasons not to hustle for his or her own money. IMO wether you are poor or rich Tain up your child in the way he or she should go, so that when it is old he or she will not depart from it.

[GiftedMAN]

It all deepends on the child up bringing. I have seen rich people that their children are cool headed and very humble in the society. They take over their father business at a young age after they have graduated from the university. Haven't you seen a poor man child that became a nuisance to the society. This is why it's good to bring up your child in a God fearing way and let them be full devoted to God for guidance.

Children copy what they see their parents doing and the parents having that in mind will bring their kids up in a way that they will be good people to them and to the society you don't expect to be a bad father while your kids will behave well because you can't give when you don't have. Train your kids well they will only bring good news to you if you pamper them too much because you think you have made it that's when they become nuisance and wayward to the society.

[Frankolala]

It all deepends on the child up bringing. I have seen rich people that their children are cool headed and very humble in the society. They take over their father business at a young age after they have graduated from the university. Haven't you seen a poor man child that became a nuisance to the society. This is why it's good to bring up your child in a God fearing way and let them be full devoted to God for guidance.

Children copy what they see their parents doing and the parents having that in mind will bring their kids up in a way that they will be good people to them and to the society you don't expect to be a bad father while your kids will behave well because you can't give when you don't have. Train your kids well they will only bring good news to you if you pamper them too much because you think you have made it that's when they become nuisance and wayward to the society.

Will I say that nowadays parents don't know how to train their children to be respectful and useful in future, they over pamper them to the point that if these kids are doing something wrong, the parents overlook it. Such parents will end up regretting in future when these kids grow up to adults because they will not be able to fend for themselves due to laziness. I might be wrong but this is happening in my region.

[GiftedMAN]

Will I say that nowadays parents don't know how to train their children to be respectful and useful in future, they over pamper them to the point that if these kids are doing something wrong, the parents overlook it. Such parents will end up regretting in future when these kids grow up to adults because they will not be able to fend for themselves due to laziness. I might be wrong but this is happening in my region.

Then the parents should also take the blame for not raising good children, in some cases kids will do wrong you will see their parents coming out to defend them instead of them to caution them so they won't do such things again, kids who grow to become different things are not well trained if you look the way they talk you will discover that they are coming from a background that have no time to train them up. The children will become a problem to the society if their parents are live to suffer the consequences it's better but they won't hurt their parents they will become terrorists in the society.

[OsaiEmma]

Not just rich men's children, a whole lot of people fall within this spectrum, I have seen teenagers and youths coming from not good background being vices in the society too, wasting their lives in clubs, drugs and things that deteriorates their value and cause nuisance, so yeah.
Truly we grow stronger, better and stronger in tough environments, according to a wise saying, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, so yeah, we grow when life is tough.

[DYOR+BTC]

I can't agree much with what you just said OP, but I must say this it depends. Some persons who are from rich home perform better than those coming from poor home in all aspects. See Op it depend on how a child was brought up, I can be rich I choose to discipline my children for their own good and future. What I came to understand is that if you give a child whatever he or she ask you May likely be spoiling that child. The child will see reasons not to hustle for his or her own money. IMO wether you are poor or rich Tain up your child in the way he or she should go, so that when it is old he or she will not depart from it.

Good upbringing matters alot either from the parents or how the children took advice while they were small, some parents spend time destroying there children's characters all in the name of petting or making everything they request available without knowing that same mistake will live with the  child till eternity except he or she realises his wrong and work towards correcting it. Still on the above mentioned statement, children's good upbringing do not depend on either rich or poor but how committed the parents are to the building of there children's future.

[LOVER BOY 422]

Many of the rich men children don't grow the way they are meant to be because they see everything coming to them once they mention what they want and some time if the father notices early that this particular child will not do well because of too much pampering and the mother will claim that father is too hard on that particular child and without the mother knowing that the father want the best for the child, and most the rich men children end up growing out from the plan the father have for them once they have the opportunity to stay alone while going through high school, and once such is giving to they will doing clubbing and taking hard drugs without attending any of the licture any day because his father money, while the poor children grow well even things are hard and grap every little opportunity they have in the high school and they take lictures more serious because they know their family background and has been motivating them to be more serious in school, inclusion i advise that parents are in the best position to know in which child that is growing in the wrong direction and such child should be corrected immediately when he/she is a kids and avoid too much pampering when you know on what to do when the child did wrong and parents don't fail to apply such caution that will help your children in future when they have come to ages.

It depends on the family upbringings ,some family today too much pampering spoil their kids their kids will be going in another direction some parents will be laughing at that situation, during in our days when I was much younger our parents doesn't jock with cain once you do what he doesn't said you should do ,just be ready to receive your cain ,my parents treat us in a way that we don't eat in others peoples house,if he notices that you went out and eat from other peoples pot you are gone ,I thank God today we are all grown and very wise and healthy,I think my parents applied what holy Bible said about the up bringing of a child,spear the rod and spoil the child,once you have adopted the habit of not floging your children when they go contrary to your orders you have indeed failed,that's to say you have spear the rod , don't spear it.

With that I think all the children will be well brought up,teach them on your leasure,flog anyone that is not following this is how our parents brought us up.

[Agbamoni]

You will be mistaken if you think all rich kids are the same. Some are decent while some dont grow the way they are taught to.
I know of a rich family where all the kids are well-trained in school. The father has threee business, a Hotel, an engineering company, and a hospital. All three are now managing their father's businesses because one is a doctor, the other an engineer, and the last child learn a business management. These kids grew up to follow their fathers' footsteps, so not all of them are the same.

[Rockson1]

It all deepends on the child up bringing. I have seen rich people that their children are cool headed and very humble in the society. They take over their father business at a young age after they have graduated from the university. Haven't you seen a poor man child that became a nuisance to the society. This is why it's good to bring up your child in a God fearing way and let them be full devoted to God for guidance.

Upbringing has a lot to do with what a child might likely be when he grows into a full fledged adult yes, it also has to do with the child not being influenced by bad friend, most times is not as if some children we see misbehaving does not have good upbringing or good family background, the problem might come from friends, some people are easily influenced by friends.
But I agree with what you said, some parents went through suffering before they became rich, they make sure they instill discipline in their children, the want whatever they will leaving behind to be managed very well, they try their very best to groom their children to be better version of themselves so that they can adequately manage the family business very well when they grow into full fledged adult.