Do you agree with me that marrying a wrong wife can reduce men lifespan

[POPOLUV]

In our society today there are men that has been doing well with their single life's and many don't have mindset of getting married at the moment because they think they aren't ready yet,  and for the fact that these categories of men has everything a man needs to archive in life and yet they have not think of getting married because they still chancing the money but one morning they will just wake up in their house and see that their parents has already arranged and brought wife for them since they have the chance of thinking or talking about when and how to get married, so decided to getting married through the wife that their parents brought to them and why some men chose who they will get married without knowing the actual history about girl they are married to, simply because the lady is beautiful and nice looking and after marriage, he found out the woman she get married to can't cook, wash and can't do anything helps the family business grow but what she can think of spending the money every time and once the husband refuses to give her fight and quarry everyday and in such situation of lossing money every dey from the bad wife that wants to contribute but only based on demanding money for everything new things she come across in social media, and i believe that these social media has corrupt so many good wife's out there to another thing entirely, mostly these generations were the ladies are just for the money, it is very adviseable to get married to who support you as a man in every area of endeavors, because they you finally married a wife that is not reasoning the way forward, is the day you will reducing without you noticing.

[Justbillywitt]

Firstly I think it's wrong for someone to allow their parents chose a girl they get married to. Marriage is a life time commitment and it's not something that one should make a mistake about. Although there are those that their parents recommend a woman for and they get it right. But in scenario like this you should ask the girl some real life questions, try dating for sometime and try to find out if you both will be compatible before deciding to marry her or not. Your parents can only recommend, but it is you that have the final decision to make.

[HyperCodexV]

When a men feel the need to marry at a certain stage in his lifetime, the appropriate thing to do is to glance for a lady who has purpose in her life endeavors because a wrong woman is a recipe for disaster, and men should never surrender to the pressure of their parents when it comes to choosing a life partner.

[Baseplate]

In our society today there are men that has been doing well with their single life's and many don't have mindset of getting married at the moment because they think they aren't ready yet

Not really, the social climate is horrible for young men today to consider marriage.

Inflation is skyrocketing, to the point that even if you make 6 figures, sometimes that won't be enough to support a family with kids. Not to mention the fact that we have conditioned society to accept adultery in marriage, which can largely explain why divorce rates have skyrocketed beyond 50%, people don't wanna marry because of the risk that the partner will cheat, causing a divorce, and in a divorce settlement, they will lose most of their assets.

As long as society actively accept adultery as the new "normal", this trend isn't changing anytime soon.

[EluguHcman]

OP you have hit lot of points that may be unfortunate about marriage with the man's decisions.
First don't find it to be improper about recommendations of spouse because your parents who actually want the best for you can not mislead you. Perhaps if they find out you are of age to marry and have all it takes to marry including resources and you have not thought of it, you will be reminded because lot of men actually get lost of their senses to pick a wife all because there are tones of ladies to kill the times with.

Secondly, your parents can actually recommend you a good wife material but the right thing to consider in there is both of you understanding each other, you might not be her spec based on some qualities and vice versa while undermining your comfortability and tolerance for each other and just igbjrantly get married to each other could be chaotic marriage because you are not matched.

Again, when you marries a woman without undermining her characters, then you don't have to complain when she do still exhibit those characters in your home.
In marriage both the man and the woman have to work on each others behavior before getting married so that no one feel toxic over others.

In summary, marriage is not for those who are not ready.

[Tmoonz]

When a men feel the need to marry at a certain stage in his lifetime, the appropriate thing to do is to glance for a lady who has purpose in her life endeavors because a wrong woman is a recipe for disaster, and men should never surrender to the pressure of their parents when it comes to choosing a life partner.

Chosen a life should be a personal decision which parents should completely stay away from though they can give their parental advice but shouldn't pressure their children because it is meant to be a lifetime decision, some times getting a life partner can either build or destroy a man, no one is perfect which we know but there are still considerable qualities to be looking out for in a lady before getting married, marriage is best when you are looking out for a companion, some one who accepts your imperfections and willing to ride with you as a life partner, of course a lot of people has destroyed their life by making a wrong choice as a life partner.

[passwordnow]

Most of the arranged marriage are for wealth keeping and business ventures of their parents. And that's why both parents agrees to it for their own benefits. But for the involved people, the couple themselves, they can agreed upon it as well depending on the setup. While others will say that they can still learn to love each other. And the others don't really feel comfortable in doing that. I believe that choosing the love of your life is very important. Because the happiness that it provides you as a person can't be compared to any other thing and so if it shorten the life span of a person, I do believe it does.

[Frankolala]

I think that it should be a mutual understanding between both parties on house chores. It's not compulsory that the woman alone does all the house chores, the man can also assist. If your wife don't know how to cook and you can, there's no harm in teaching her. Every woman have their own positive side financially. However, a real man should get a wife for himself.

[Solodoski]

Biologically it is not true. What causes effect on men's life span by a woman is stress, anxiety, thinking and pressure. When a woman pressure a man to take risk, he could lose his life in the process.
Anxiety and thinking increases the human blood pressure. That alone can short the life of a man is the anxiety and thinking was caused by the wife. I pity a man who marries the wrong wife, he will regret for the rest of his life.

[Jewan420]

Such incidents happen very rarely, when parents find a girl as a wife, the chances of that girl becoming a social media addict are very low. Because when they look for a life partner for their child, they try to choose decent girls. The chances of choosing the wrong girl by mistake are very low, yet sometimes the wrong girl is chosen.

We men are very emotional, we like the girl who looks very beautiful and has a good physique, which we see on social media. We ourselves prefer those girls who are chasing money. The incidence of divorce is now more among those couples where a third person is present in the couple, someone's lover or someone's family. Family is definitely necessary, but when a couple's family shows more presence than necessary in their life, the relationship is less likely to last. Another reason can be the greed of women for money.

[Nmjut]

Yes! Marriage is not just about looks or vibes, it’s about teamwork. If your parents pick your wife, you might miss real love. If you choose just for looks, it can flop . Social media makes love seem like all money and showoff, but for real, you need someone who’s got your back, helps you grind, and builds with you—not just spends. Pick smart, or you’ll watch your future fade.

[Oluwa-btc]

I do not wish to get married to wrong and bad woman but then, if it comes to that, I will wholeheartedly files for a divorce immediately.
This has got to be the reason why our African forefathers ate polygamous in nature. They don't even bother when one misbehaves. But yeah, for men involved in nuclear marriages, it is facts, and it is the fastest way to the grave. A home with a wrong woman and zero peace. This is also why all men need to court and observe whatever woman he intends to spend the rest of his life with. Hopefully, we all meet our expectations.

[Barikui1]

Their is a popular saying that the partner you choose plays an important role on how your life may end up as a man, and that's true, because men don't easily flourish in hostile environments, because once you stay unhappy for too long, it will definitely have a negative effects on your health, that's why I believe in your theory that marrying the wrong person can reduce your life span, since it's someone that will want to have a say in most of your decisions making.
Additionally, once you are not having a good laugh overtime, it will has a negative effects on you as a man because it makes you to grow wrinkles faster, that's why being more happy makes an individual look younger than someone that is always frowning his or her face due to unhappiness.

[Hewlet]

it is very adviseable to get married to who support you as a man in every area of endeavors, because they you finally married a wife that is not reasoning the way forward, is the day you will reducing without you noticing.

While marrying a partner that supports you is a good thing, your definition of support has  to be well known or else you end up over using your wife as a result of a flawed mindset.

There's a lot about a person's future that hangs on marriage and once anything goes wrong with who you marry, it has an high tendency of affecting the entirety of your life but time and that's the reason why care ought to be taken before one thinks of setting down. The choice of a life partner can either make you or mar you and that's a fact and there's a level of frustration that you might face in your marriage that can lead to untimely death when it gets really extreme.

[Uhwuchukwu53]

Marriage has left referral stage of arrangements, even the one chosen by way if courtship whose character has been studied is difficult to control. To choose wife should be a personal thing conceptional, and proper readiness of the heart not persuasion from parents. Person future can be built or destroy with the type of choices he made, two can't work together except they agreed, if the person arrange by parent is who you can't work with it becomes a setback that can breakdown your dreams. Wrong marriage is destructive, it's more of breaking once future than building.

[Spaceman1000$]

For me the matrix is very simple, if a man gets married and there are irreconceivable differences between himself and his wife, it is most advisable the both parties seek for a diverse, this is because probably their compatibility reduce after their marriage, probably during their courtship the compatibility was there but marriage has brought a different side of the both parties within them that they cannot come together, so the best thing is for them to go their separate ways. Marriage is not a do or die affair, so for both parties to have a long lifespan, the divorce button should be pressed.

[Odusko]

The man who got married to an unknown woman, I mean allowing his parents to impose a lady on him to get married to is wrong, and he as an adult should have not allowed that to happen in the first place, when we come to the issues with choosing our spouse, is Very important not to allow third party help, since doing so may deny you the ability to properly select the right person for yourself, marriage should be based on relationships not arrangements.

[Agbamoni]

The man who got married to an unknown woman, I mean allowing his parents to impose a lady on him to get married to is wrong, and he as an adult should have not allowed that to happen in the first place, when we come to the issues with choosing our spouse, is Very important not to allow third party help, since doing so may deny you the ability to properly select the right person for yourself, marriage should be based on relationships not arrangements.

Things like this are still happening in our generation? When I was little, I watched movies where parents force their wife on their male child, it also existed then, but I thought it was a thing of the past.

A man must be acquainted with his partner before getting married. Marriage without love and proper understanding of your spouse will not last long. There will be regrets later in the future.

[Easteregg69]

We could agree fact checking is not interesting. If you know you got it.

Which bring me back to what is the chance of all the time in the world your still around?

Lucky pot shot. You get some random bs. Being a thug is a thing of the past.

Since it all safe it get some sleep now. Chasing dreams.

[Emeraldo]

Yes! Marriage is not just about looks or vibes, it’s about teamwork. If your parents pick your wife, you might miss real love. If you choose just for looks, it can flop . Social media makes love seem like all money and showoff, but for real, you need someone who’s got your back, helps you grind, and builds with you—not just spends. Pick smart, or you’ll watch your future fade.

It's very surprising that many parents even in this jet age are imposing partners on there children, which in many occasions those marriage later become harmful to there children. And many a times this is based on parents selfish interest, like keeping bounds in relationships between them and there friends, business associates, maintaining a particular social, political circles and more. So they don't calculate the risk involved in making such decision for there children.
Left with me, I won't allow anyone influence me into marrying someone I don't love or have feelings for in other to please them. My state of mind, happiness and peace is important to me first.