Do you agree with me that marrying a wrong wife can reduce men lifespan

[mvdheuvel1983]

The man who got married to an unknown woman, I mean allowing his parents to impose a lady on him to get married to is wrong, and he as an adult should have not allowed that to happen in the first place, when we come to the issues with choosing our spouse, is Very important not to allow third party help, since doing so may deny you the ability to properly select the right person for yourself, marriage should be based on relationships not arrangements.

The parents did it the old family way of helping men to get women they get married to without their consent but they had no choice according to the story that was told bask in the days, it's abnormal to see this things happening this time and men are still silent about it when they know that the new generation can't survive staying with the people they do not know, the man should never accept an unknown wife it's going to be a war in the family because such marriage will never work out since it wasn't the man who made the choice by himself.

[Bitcoin.com97]

Marriage is an institution and a lifetime commitment for that matter , so it is inappropriate for parents to choose or force anyone into it , it’s best you make your decision and choice so when anything happen you can find a way to navigate through it , I know it was done to our parents in their days and it favored most of them but this our generation is something else , one mistake can cause a lifetime regret , the worst thing that can happen to anyone is marrying the wrong woman , your whole existence will look like a dream .

[Franctoshi]

The type of woma a man marries can determine the life span of that man because if the woman doesn't give the man piece of mind that man may suffer or die of depression. Men doesn't need a woman that will add to their problem or ruined their state mind, because they already have a lot they're thinking and shouldering the family. This is why most married men that got bad wifes ,after they close for work they hardly go back home rather they go home late in order to dulge their wife's problems

[Bigjoe33]

In our society today there are men that has been doing well with their single life's and many don't have mindset of getting married at the moment because they think they aren't ready yet,  and for the fact that these categories of men has everything a man needs to archive in life and yet they have not think of getting married because they still chancing the money but one morning they will just wake up in their house and see that their parents has already arranged and brought wife for them since they have the chance of thinking or talking about when and how to get married, so decided to getting married through the wife that their parents brought to them and why some men chose who they will get married without knowing the actual history about girl they are married to, simply because the lady is beautiful and nice looking and after marriage, he found out the woman she get married to can't cook, wash and can't do anything helps the family business grow but what she can think of spending the money every time and once the husband refuses to give her fight and quarry everyday and in such situation of lossing money every dey from the bad wife that wants to contribute but only based on demanding money for everything new things she come across in social media, and i believe that these social media has corrupt so many good wife's out there to another thing entirely, mostly these generations were the ladies are just for the money, it is very adviseable to get married to who support you as a man in every area of endeavors, because they you finally married a wife that is not reasoning the way forward, is the day you will reducing without you noticing.

Firstly Marriage should not be a thing of arrangement from parents, it should be an agreement of a man and a woman who knows their left and right because is a lifetime experience.
Yes in our society today many men go through toxic marriage , marriage where by the wife is a nagging woman no peace at home combined with the work load to provide for the family which can always result to high blood pressure, heart attack and many more sickness reducing the lifespan of that man.

Secondly, A man should at least know some basic things about that woman he want to call a wife because she will not only be a wife but a mother. A woman who can not cook, wash or do not like domestic work and business to support the family of cause is a liability to that man. First, looking at the aim of marriage, marriage is for support, what then is marriage if the wife is not supportive?

[Sulegzy39]

I understand that marrying the wrong wife can diminish a man's longevity.It's best you make your decision and choice so that when anything happens, you can find a way to navigate through it. I know it was done to our parents in their days and it favored most of them, but this our generation is something else, one mistake can cause a lifetime regret, the worst thing that can happen to person.

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Most of the arranged marriage are for wealth keeping and business ventures of their parents. And that's why both parents agrees to it for their own benefits. But for the involved people, the couple themselves, they can agreed upon it as well depending on the setup. While others will say that they can still learn to love each other. And the others don't really feel comfortable in doing that. I believe that choosing the love of your life is very important. Because the happiness that it provides you as a person can't be compared to any other thing and so if it shorten the life span of a person, I do believe it does.

Like the conglomerates who match their children with conglomerates again in order to maintain their wealth for generations by keeping the business running, maybe this story is not a little out there, some are successful in the sense that they love each other in the end there are also those who end tragically.

I prefer to choose my own love and it will know for a few years of dating the character of the woman, when everything is ready then just get married, maybe every country is different in different ways but finding your own love is better than being matched.

[BADecker]

At this point, I don't really know if I agree or disagree. Maybe y'all could help me out by watching the below video.

If a Misogynist and Feminist Were Married

[philipma1957]

In our society today there are men that has been doing well with their single life's and many don't have mindset of getting married at the moment because they think they aren't ready yet,  and for the fact that these categories of men has everything a man needs to archive in life and yet they have not think of getting married because they still chancing the money but one morning they will just wake up in their house and see that their parents has already arranged and brought wife for them since they have the chance of thinking or talking about when and how to get married, so decided to getting married through the wife that their parents brought to them and why some men chose who they will get married without knowing the actual history about girl they are married to, simply because the lady is beautiful and nice looking and after marriage, he found out the woman she get married to can't cook, wash and can't do anything helps the family business grow but what she can think of spending the money every time and once the husband refuses to give her fight and quarry everyday and in such situation of lossing money every dey from the bad wife that wants to contribute but only based on demanding money for everything new things she come across in social media, and i believe that these social media has corrupt so many good wife's out there to another thing entirely, mostly these generations were the ladies are just for the money, it is very adviseable to get married to who support you as a man in every area of endeavors, because they you finally married a wife that is not reasoning the way forward, is the day you will reducing without you noticing.

Some women are unrealistic and would be terrible to marry. This type of woman is the type to avoid.

Some women are realistic and a good teammate this is the type to find and marry.

So in general I agree that some woman would be unhealthy for you or me to marry .

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Inflation is skyrocketing, to the point that even if you make 6 figures, sometimes that won't be enough to support a family with kids.
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I don't think there is a direct relationship between inflation and marriage rates...

The birth rate is lowest in the world's most wealthy countries. The highest birth rates are in the world's poorest countries...

The concepts of religion and family are disappearing at the same time. Even if social gender roles are not a divine command, they are a model that works 100%. Even an atheist should embrace the common culture of human history...

[Cryptoprincess101]

Society made it look as if marriage is compulsory but let us look at it in the real context of why people get married. The primary reason why people get married is for procreation and to raise a family. You can raise a family as a man or a woman without each other. You can adopt a child or children and they become yours forever. There are many vulnerable children in the society who are living unhealthy lives, and some are orphans but yet people still bring more vulnerable children to the world especially those who are not financially stable to take responsibility as a parent. I have created a topic on procreation before and to be honest if not to raise children, marriage is really unnecessary and considering the high rate of divorces, people might be discouraged to get married in the near future.
     I don't think that in this digital age, that parents still arrange marriages for their children. Those were practices that was done in the olden days but now people are more educated about marriage and i don't think anyone should get married because of pressure from parents or their peer groups.

OP let me talk about your subject, marrying a wrong woman cannot reduce a man's life span because marriage is not a do or die affair. If your marriage is beginning to get toxic and you have tried to reach an understanding with your partner and it's not working, what you should do is seek for a divorce for your sanity and peace of mind. Don't allow anyone to ruin your life all in the name of marriage.

[Proty]

 marrying a wrong wife will reduce a man life pan some people may think that this a lie but this a fact. The choice of life pattern do affect both the man and the woman and it will be good if a man married someone that is compatible to him.
Any marriage were there is no peace , constant abuse either from the husband or the wife will affect the lifespan of both parties. I have heard cases of domestic violence. Husband beating the wife to dead , wife killing the husband. So it doesn't just affect the man alone but both man and  woman.

[Nothingtodo]

When an adult man cannot live alone, it becomes necessary to choose a wife as his companion. However, in this case, I think that if he can choose a good life partner with the consent of the family and according to his own choice, then life will be easy and happy. But if that life partner is not to his liking and there is not enough harmony between the husband and wife, then their post-marital life becomes miserable. In this case, of course, both the husband and the wife have to go through difficult moments. However, the reason for the decrease in the life expectancy of a man should not be blamed only on the bad behavior of the woman or the wrong choice of partner, but in this case, there may be some other related reasons due to which a man is mentally tortured.

[Royal Cap]

I think the main problem here is getting married in a hurry or without understanding, If you agree just because you look pretty or because your family says so, you have a chance of regretting it later. Also not all girls just want money, many do a lot to keep the family together that is not understood from the outside, In fact money or knowing how to cook is not the only thing to keep a marriage going, the most important thing is to match the mentality of both of you. The person who will be by your side in your bad times is the real one. If you have the wrong person, there will be chaos even if you have everything and if you have the right person, there will be peace even if you have little.

[Herold]

Sadly I see the real life examples of that. The fear of loneliness and social pressure killed many man.

[Mhizlove]

The main problem is about compatability and pressure because as a mature man why will you give a room to your parents to chose a bride for you to marry? You see  marriage is not something that should be rush into because you parents wants you to or because the lady in concern has good looking face. See whether it's society or from the parents if two people don't agree on something definitely at the end there will be a great problem and it will lead to frustration

In aspect of character I will say that it do not only based on gender because we women are responsible and supportive too, just as there are also men that are not responsible out there and we all know that the social media do influence everyone and not just wives alone. At the end what both partners need is maturity, sharing goals together and most of all having understanding of each to make it work, marriage is a beautiful thing when you meet someone that understands you

[uneng]

Some women are unrealistic and would be terrible to marry. This type of woman is the type to avoid.

Some women are realistic and a good teammate this is the type to find and marry.

So in general I agree that some woman would be unhealthy for you or me to marry .

The complex side of the story is that it's not only about having a good teammate, but also someone who to feel physically attracted to. There are some good teammates around, who fits well for a friendship, but not for a love relationship.

There is something very subjective in ourselves which make us attracted to some people, and repelled to other people. It can't be explained in words, but just felt and experienced for real.

And even more mysterious is the force in the universe which allow some people to meet the ones who match them, while others are left by themselves for a long time, doesn't matter how hard they try to find someone who they could engage in a romantic relationship.

[Fiatless]

The type of woma a man marries can determine the life span of that man because if the woman doesn't give the man piece of mind that man may suffer or die of depression. Men doesn't need a woman that will add to their problem or ruined their state mind, because they already have a lot they're thinking and shouldering the family. This is why most married men that got bad wifes ,after they close for work they hardly go back home rather they go home late in order to dulge their wife's problems

Some people see marriage as a do-or-die affair. They prefer to remain in a toxic marriage because of religious or cultural beliefs. Some religions forbid divorce because they think marriage should last forever. As for me, I will never remain in a marriage that is causing depression and other problems. It will be better to file for the dissolution of the marriage than to keep suffering. Some people have died because of marital problems and I will not be one of them. I prefer to stay unmarried rather than live a miserable married life.

[DYOR+BTC]

The type of woma a man marries can determine the life span of that man because if the woman doesn't give the man piece of mind that man may suffer or die of depression. Men doesn't need a woman that will add to their problem or ruined their state mind, because they already have a lot they're thinking and shouldering the family. This is why most married men that got bad wifes ,after they close for work they hardly go back home rather they go home late in order to dulge their wife's problems

Some people see marriage as a do-or-die affair. They prefer to remain in a toxic marriage because of religious or cultural beliefs. Some religions forbid divorce because they think marriage should last forever. As for me, I will never remain in a marriage that is causing depression and other problems. It will be better to file for the dissolution of the marriage than to keep suffering. Some people have died because of marital problems and I will not be one of them. I prefer to stay unmarried rather than live a miserable married life.

Choosing toxic relationship or marriage because of religious beliefs is a first step to premature death,  no cultural or religious beliefs supports a union without peace as they are advocate of peace because they know what such relationship is capable of doing. At times while choosing our life partner we  put beauty and adorable shapes at the forefront without knowing good character is far much better that beauty. To live long we must never forget to carefully scrutinise or study the character of our partner so we can be able to understand if both are compatible and never consider any other thing including religious beliefs because any mistake one makes today stands to hunt the person till the end

[hellflame]

Well if she is a murderer it certainly can but some women can cause undue hardship that leads to health issues from stress, anger, anxiety,jealousy etc brought about from her bad behaviour,laziness,infidelity,general bitching etc which may have a negative impact upon ones mental and physical health however in the interest of fairness men can also reduce the lifespan of a good woman through the same .

[Callido]

Some people see marriage as a do-or-die affair. They prefer to remain in a toxic marriage because of religious or cultural beliefs. Some religions forbid divorce because they think marriage should last forever. As for me, I will never remain in a marriage that is causing depression and other problems. It will be better to file for the dissolution of the marriage than to keep suffering. Some people have died because of marital problems and I will not be one of them. I prefer to stay unmarried rather than live a miserable married life.

We only have one life to live and it is compulsory to make good use of the time we have because we don't have it plenty, do whatever makes you happy, some people are so much tied to beliefs and cultures that they no longer know themselves. Marriage is a union, and if things are not going as planned then separation is best, I'm saying both for the man and woman, leave when it becomes toxic and unbearable, in the process of waiting for partner to change, the worse might happen.