Do you agree with me that marrying a wrong wife can reduce men lifespan

[Iamgoat]

The parents did it the old family way of helping men to get women they get married to without their consent but they had no choice according to the story that was told bask in the days, it's abnormal to see this things happening this time and men are still silent about it when they know that the new generation can't survive staying with the people they do not know, the man should never accept an unknown wife it's going to be a war in the family because such marriage will never work out since it wasn't the man who made the choice by himself.

You are saying it well and I'm particularly surprised to still experience this till date. I've come across several young men out there who are yet to get married simply because their parents were persistent on selecting for them who they should marry without firstly considering into the interests of their children. It is still playing out among different tribes up till now and you will be surprised how such decisions have led to several marital crises some to the extent of divorce due to lack of love, understanding and mutual agreement between both parties directly hence the cause for the misunderstandings and backlash between the couples. There is still need for serious massive media campaign to create strong messages which can influence their mindsets.

[Pearl_20]

Gone are the days when parents arranged wives for their son's or the other way round reasons being that a lot of things are happening everyday, you wake up to hear or read about the rate of divorce or separation from parents who are once lover's and good before they fell apart.  A man can acquire all the degrees but once you marry wrong that's the end of it, you can't even function well in work place, business or any other life pursuit, men who ended up marrying the wrong woman Hardly go home,  they keep sleeping out or move from one place to another just to find that inner peace they seek from their spouse at home.

Most men will leave the most important things they need to look out for in a partner and once they're inside the marriage, there eyes begins to open to see the things they can't tolerate, a man who doesn't have peace in his home is an unhappy man who's always depressed and can slump anytime, such people are even prone to high blood pressure. Marrying a wrong woman or even getting married to a wrong man is one digging his/her own grave, as an individual you can make any mistake and still pick your life together but not marriage especially when it has to do with a wrong partner, that's more like a scar that you've to live with for the rest of your Life.

Personally I don't like parent's matchmaking their children, it worked during our parent's time as they can be introduced to their friend's children and it worked, now it's different considering the rate at which marriages are crashing on daily basis, it is important that one should choose right, get to know your partner well enough before taking that bold step.

[HelliumZ]

If a man is tortured by his wife after marriage, it can be mentally or physically, then a lot of changes occur in the man. If a man is tortured mentally, then various discrepancies will be observed in his daily work. Because he will lose the momentum of his work after being tortured by his wife.
Well, people marry for their biological needs, but why would a wife misbehave with her husband? If we analyze this, it has been seen that the husband may also have some mistakes, due to which wives misbehave with their husbands. However, if a husband is courteous to his wife and has a responsible attitude towards his wife, then it does not seem that his wife will misbehave with that husband.

[Youngrebel]

In our society today there are men that has been doing well with their single life's and many don't have mindset of getting married at the moment because they think they aren't ready yet,  and for the fact that these categories of men has everything a man needs to archive in life and yet they have not think of getting married because they still chancing the money but one morning they will just wake up in their house and see that their parents has already arranged and brought wife for them since they have the chance of thinking or talking about when and how to get married, so decided to getting married through the wife that their parents brought to them and why some men chose who they will get married without knowing the actual history about girl they are married to, simply because the lady is beautiful and nice looking and after marriage, he found out the woman she get married to can't cook, wash and can't do anything helps the family business grow but what she can think of spending the money every time and once the husband refuses to give her fight and quarry everyday and in such situation of lossing money every dey from the bad wife that wants to contribute but only based on demanding money for everything new things she come across in social media, and i believe that these social media has corrupt so many good wife's out there to another thing entirely, mostly these generations were the ladies are just for the money, it is very adviseable to get married to who support you as a man in every area of endeavors, because they you finally married a wife that is not reasoning the way forward, is the day you will reducing without you noticing.

I think this thing is a 2 way thing for both the men and the women. Marrying the right partner is 1 key thing in.life as it can either make or mare your life overtime. Sometimes you might pretend all things are okay by hiding what is really going on in your home but within a very short time it is already showing out because it cannot be hidden in anyway.
Marrying the right partner will either help you live longer or cut your life shorter and that is the real life practical that is real. Nobody should pray to get into a bad partner. More reasons why you need to take your time and prayerfully pick a spouse at your own time and place. The worst regret will be when you are getting entangled with a wrong choice someone else had made for you.

[Akbarkoe]

There is a saying that a wife is the spirit of a husband's life, if your wife cannot be cooperative and cannot be invited to work together in living life then most men cannot develop more and actually bring men into downfall, the success of a household there are two pillars that must strengthen and support each other, namely husband and wife, when one of them is not in the right duties and functions then there will be failure, and it could be as you said that it can shorten a man's life.

[GeorgeJohn]

It depends your norms or culture within your region..in africa, a man is entitled to marry more than 5 wives, if you notice that your first wife is not giving you what you want, you can proceed and marry more wives to keep your life going...

If you marry only one [1] wife and your wife is wrong due to her characters, if you dont take adequate care of managing her, it can lure you earlier grave..

If your wife is not longer your soul-mate, I will advice to divorce her, because the more you're keeping her close to you, the more she's will constitutes nuisance within your environment...

[Berry2d]

It depends your norms or culture within your region..in africa, a man is entitled to marry more than 5 wives, if you notice that your first wife is not giving you what you want, you can proceed and marry more wives to keep your life going...

If you marry only one [1] wife and your wife is wrong due to her characters, if you dont take adequate care of managing her, it can lure you earlier grave..

If your wife is not longer your soul-mate, I will advice to divorce her, because the more you're keeping her close to you, the more she's will constitutes nuisance within your environment...

As for that polygamous policies in Africa i see nothing wrong about it as I believe anybody that has the capability to take care of them can go ahead with what he knows will give him joy as each and everyone of us has the right to take care of there life and not expected to be protected by others. If statistical record is taken on death rate we will be able to understand that over 70 percent are men and tracing the root cause you will be able to understand that the fault is from there wifes either because of toxic marriages or by other means. Though its once right to find any suitable way of preventing such death and if you believe polygamy is the only solution I wont say know in as much as you have the capability to take care of it.

[POPOLUV]

Gone are the days when parents arranged wives for their son's or the other way round reasons being that a lot of things are happening everyday, you wake up to hear or read about the rate of divorce or separation from parents who are once lover's and good before they fell apart.  A man can acquire all the degrees but once you marry wrong that's the end of it, you can't even function well in work place, business or any other life pursuit, men who ended up marrying the wrong woman Hardly go home,  they keep sleeping out or move from one place to another just to find that inner peace they seek from their spouse at home.

Most men will leave the most important things they need to look out for in a partner and once they're inside the marriage, there eyes begins to open to see the things they can't tolerate, a man who doesn't have peace in his home is an unhappy man who's always depressed and can slump anytime, such people are even prone to high blood pressure. Marrying a wrong woman or even getting married to a wrong man is one digging his/her own grave, as an individual you can make any mistake and still pick your life together but not marriage especially when it has to do with a wrong partner, that's more like a scar that you've to live with for the rest of your Life.

Personally I don't like parent's matchmaking their children, it worked during our parent's time as they can be introduced to their friend's children and it worked, now it's different considering the rate at which marriages are crashing on daily basis, it is important that one should choose right, get to know your partner well enough before taking that bold step.

I want you to believe that up till parents are still arranging wife for there sons to marry if you have not witness such in this present generation i have witnesse it of recent and if you should ask me i will tell you that strategy is best strategy to use because what a father can see and even when the son climbs on top of the tree, the son can't see it, and for me convince you the more on thses selection of wife for the son or selecting husband for daughter is base on religions and tribe, there are fathers that don't want to there sons or daughters married out their religions or tribes and it is still happening till now.

[Tmoonz]

It depends your norms or culture within your region..in africa, a man is entitled to marry more than 5 wives, if you notice that your first wife is not giving you what you want, you can proceed and marry more wives to keep your life going...

If you marry only one [1] wife and your wife is wrong due to her characters, if you dont take adequate care of managing her, it can lure you earlier grave..

If your wife is not longer your soul-mate, I will advice to divorce her, because the more you're keeping her close to you, the more she's will constitutes nuisance within your environment...

I want to correct an impression, most of the times men don't marry more than one wives because the previous ones are bad, it can be a choice for a man to marry more than one wives, some can marry more than one wives because they want to have as many children as possible, truth be told bad character from a woman can be devastating by creating emotional inbalance, lack of peace of mind can reduce a man's lifesSpan, life itself is challenging such that a woman with a bad character should not come and add to it a man should choose peace of man when selecting a life partner.

[Btcdeybodi]

I want to correct an impression, most of the times men don't marry more than one wives because the previous ones are bad, it can be a choice for a man to marry more than one wives, some can marry more than one wives because they want to have as many children as possible, truth be told bad character from a woman can be devastating by creating emotional inbalance, lack of peace of mind can reduce a man's lifesSpan, life itself is challenging such that a woman with a bad character should not come and add to it a man should choose peace of man when selecting a life partner.

In Africa, during the ancient days our forefathers married many wives because they wanted many children and also for security. When i say security am talking about emotional security because since they married many wives, it will be difficult for them to be heartbroken because if one of the wives is given them problem, they can disregard her and attend to the other wives and with that mentality, many of them lived longer lives. A man need not to create room for a woman to give him problems and lack of peace and to be honest, we have been deceived over the years about the beauty of marrying just one wife. Even if you marry one wife and she is giving your many troubles, you let her out of your life why you focus on your life. People will say what of the children you had with her, that is not a problem, if she wants to leave with them you let her go but one day those children will ask for their father and she will have no choice than to show them who their father is. As a man, use your brain because many men have been killed and maltreated by their wives simply because they neglected the red flags.