The reality is that when it happens to you, you will understand what it means to loose everything and to be faced with the harsh reality of starting from the scratch. it is a difficult spot to be at but the issue is that if you don't take the pain and wake from it, who looses? does your excuse of being affected harshly from your loss make you any better?
As difficult as starting over again is, it will always be better than lamenting over the pain of the past and never being able to stay focused on the possibility of getting things right on rack just because you were able to start all over again. even when you start over again, there is no guarantee that you might not get hit down again but you have to decide that regardless of how many times you make an investment decision that brings you down, you are going to stand only to do better ever after.
Life is unpredictable, nobody is above getting serve with bad side of life but you know what's so funny about life? You will think it's easy to advice people about life until it happen to you that is when you are going to know that indeed life is not fair with people, it's not that easy to start over like the way people says it, it takes depression to be able to bounce back. Some people that are not strong minded hardly make it back because it's not easy like we say it.
There was a person I do know that we do consider as big bro, he lost most of his property into fire disaster, he lost his studio where he do crypto content creation and partnership with many projects for promotions, he lost plenty of his valuable. It took him good 5 years before he was able to bounce back again and it those years, it was not easy, he had to squat in a friend place and build back his place and now he is doing fine. If you ask him about the story, he will first sigh! He knows it was a tough one.
Yes, I completely agree with you. It is very nice to hear the story of starting again and becoming successful but no one is willing to know the truth behind this story or does anyone listen to it. When a person once reaches the last position and then from the top, he has to overcome many difficult places and reach the last level again. But during this time, a person is under a lot of mental pressure, this mental pressure makes a person much more harmful than all other pressures.
But yes, it takes much less time to succeed in starting again than before. When someone starts something for the first time, he has to learn a lot and due to taking many wrong decisions, he has to go back a lot. But when a person loses everything and starts again, he will never make the mistakes he made before and then he will be able to go back to the previous position in a much less time than before.