Consistency matters a lot because even all this while that they are losing, they don't have that intention just that they have not gotten the right strategies to use that is why they keep losing and again because even those that are enjoying a lot of profit now also follow the same way.
Everything you said is the same thing a person who has seen gambling as a way to "hit" thinks. I gamble, so I recognise the similarities. You make yourself believe your time will come. All you need to do is be patient and find better strategies or options. You keep hoping and using other people who have hit the jackpot as a reference, but there is no guarantee that it will even come.
You hear phrases like "you can't get unlucky every day for 365 days" Well, technically, you were not unlucky every day. There are days when you get some profit/win some bets, but if a net profit is calculated, you're either at a loss or haven't made that much.
This may seem hypocritical because I gamble a lot, but I don't do it expecting to earn an income. If I win from it, fine; if I don't, then at least I had fun doing it. Either way, I know what I signed up for.
Take your time and look at what is required to be a successful stock trader on Wall Street, and ask why you think trading Bitcoin and crypto should be any different.
They have special analysts and researchers; they also have degrees in Finance/Economics, Maths, and even computer science, to be successful at stock trading, but somehow you think just a 6-month online course will do the trick in crypto?