Dress How you want to be Addressed

[Shadiq]

Feminists are so obsessed with women's freedom that they have forgotten the word indecent. If I get a chance, I want to ask them what is the real definition of freedom? Does freedom mean nudity? Does freedom mean disobedience? Does freedom mean disobeying the rules and regulations of society?

They always compare themselves with men and want equal freedom as men, but my main question is - are men really free? Men cannot spend their earnings freely, cannot dress freely at work, whereas most women want the freedom of dressing. In the work place, women claim to be different from men. Basically, they want equal rights in those areas where they get benefits, but they are reluctant to perform equal duties, because it is not beneficial for them.

I do not want anyone to be free, everyone should be subordinate to their religion, society and state. Only then can we create a clean environment. Freedom does not mean doing whatever you want.

[Vod]

I do not want anyone to be free, everyone should be subordinate to their religion, society and state. Only then can we create a clean environment. Freedom does not mean doing whatever you want.

That's the reason for our endless wars - the religions do not share the same values.   If you don't want anyone to be free, then you have a responsibility to identify the best religion for peace and force everyone to follow it.  You'll need disciples and there is a high probability it will evolve into a death cult, but that is the price for ignoring reality.  :/

[programmer3666]

We live in a society that is full of atrocities when it comes to modalities to how people dress, people have developed more interest in the name of civilization to appear naked than to cover up their body with clothes that are defeating for a particular occasion, the question is that is this still fashion or craziness?

We dress in an abnormal way and yet still want to be addressed in a normal way, we should discourage every form of indecent dressing because it's make us feel more uncomfortable when we wear such and also the value our reputation when it's comes to public appearance, are we going to open our eyes to keep watching things going the same way and people dress in an indecent manner and we claim that the society is still corrupt of all evil atrocities among women.

To change we want begins with us now and we can leave with freedom but not to abuse the privilege of such by dressing abnormally and making public appearance in such manner, there are some dresses that must only be worn while at home because they are not suitable for an occasional dress, there are different ways people can dress based on their profession, cultureor tradition.

Must we unclad ourselves before appearing with the true version of beauty?

Whether we like it or not, the way people dress affects how society first sees and judges them. That is just the reality everywhere in the world. Take for example, if someone enters a bank wearing a clean suit, people naturally see the person as serious and responsible, but if another person enters looking very rough or half dressed, people may react differently immediately. That’s why people say dress how you want to be addressed. Even though character is more important than clothes, appearance still speaks first before words. And normally, there is a reason why a mad man is quickly noticed on the road, mostly because of the unusual way they dress or behave. Society naturally reacts to appearance first before getting to know the person better.

[Joy- maker]

One thing some people don't understand is that, the way they dress is how they will be addressed. You can't dress half naked and expect people not to see you as a prostitute. Yes, you may not be a prostitute but your dressing is making you look like one.

I always advise young girls of this days to dress decently, stressing half can only attract unserious men. it is funny how girls of this generation believe that they can attract good men by dressing half naked. yeah, they will attract men, but mostly unserious ones who just want to chop and go.

[Ucy]

I do not want anyone to be free, everyone should be subordinate to their religion, society and state. Only then can we create a clean environment. Freedom does not mean doing whatever you want.

That's the reason for our endless wars - the religions do not share the same values.   If you don't want anyone to be free, then you have a responsibility to identify the best religion for peace and force everyone to follow it.  You'll need disciples and there is a high probability it will e**l** into a death cult, but that is the price for ignoring reality.  :/

Every religion except one is fake. The true one is about freedom. We want everyone to be free, but under the condition that the freedom is used only for good. That's what true religion is all about. And it's good this is enforced by force or through war when necessary otherwise everyone becomes slave to evil. If there are endless attempts to force everyone to be subordinate to evil there will be endless effort to prevent that

[Vod]

Every religion except one is fake.

Well if you have proof, it's not a religion.   Religions are based on faith - not evidence.     If only one of the billions of people who believe in various things would present some evidence, then we could kill everyone else promoting fake ones.  

It is funny how girls of this generation believe that they can attract good men by dressing half naked. yeah, they will attract men, but mostly unserious ones who just want to chop and go.

Do girls feel that way, or are they just competing with other girls?

[Berry2d]

One thing some people don't understand is that, the way they stress is how they will be addressed. You can't dress half naked and expect people not to see you as a prostitute. Yes, you may not be a prostitute but your dressing is making you look like one.

I always advise young girls of this days to dress decently, stressing half can only attract unserious men. it is funny how girls of this generation believe that they can attract good men by dressing half naked. yeah, they will attract men, but mostly unserious ones who just want to chop and go.

Yes the way we dress shows how we should be addressed,  you cannot dress with an attire that exposes ones sacred parts that are supposed to be seen by our life partner and expect people to see you as a responsible lady when we all know it is only prostitutes that dresses that same way.

One of the problem affecting us now is the interpretation given to fashion in this current generation,  because of our thinking paspective some women believes fashion is not complete until most sensitive part of our body that is meant to be hidden are exposed as that is the only way we can be  noticed  without the knowledge of how they will be addressed with such indecent attire.

[Vod]

you cannot dress with an attire that exposes ones sacred parts

Given that:

• Mammals have existed for ~225 million years
• Current population is ~130 billion individuals
• 99.9% of species go extinct (and countless generations turnover within species)
• Rodents, bats, and small mammals have historically dominated numerically
• Each one has a sacred part

A conservative back-of-the-envelope calculation suggests quadrillions to quintillions of individual sacred parts across Earth's history — likely in the range of 10¹⁵ to 10²⁰.  That's a lot of sacredness!

[Ucy]

Every religion except one is fake.

Well if you have proof, it's not a religion.   Religions are based on faith - not evidence.     If only one of the billions of people who believe in various things would present some evidence, then we could kill everyone else promoting fake ones.  

It would be unreasonable to end up asking for evidence from those you claim depend on Faith rather than proof. The burden of proof is on the ones who rely on proof when it comes to what a religion believes.
 If a religion believes that 5 +5 is 10 and trust that belief, it's left for you to prove it and determine whether it's the true religion or not . If it's proven correct, then you accept the one who come up with that first as the true religion
By the way, the faith of false religions is based on things that aren't accurate, unless they copied from true religion. You can also prove them wrong

[Nalain420]

Value of a person is not defined by his appearance appearance. Dressing style is not related to character of a person it is a form in which a person expresses his self his choices represent themselves with reasonable behaviour fashion and Civilization never ever sported nakedness they reflect changing trends creativity. Modest and appropriate dressing should be promoted that will also help to preserve the cultural religious and societal identity. In decent dressing is also not appreciated in certain religions and it brings discomfort and misunderstandings that affect social harmony. Dressing should be decent and suitable because it reflect the personal behaviour self respect and discipline.

[GeorgeJohn]

We live in a society that is full of atrocities when it comes to modalities to how people dress, people have developed more interest in the name of civilization to appear naked than to cover up their body with clothes that are defeating for a particular occasion, the question is that is this still fashion or craziness?

you know anything that happens government will be the one to be blamed because if there is a restriction of some certain dress people will not be walking on the way with half naked, the thing is that government are not showcasing their power and the almost the countries does not have addressing code to rules and regulations... That is why you can see so many atrocities so many calamities happening within our country it is because there is no agency that we control such unbearable half naked dress code.

[Otaibayomi]

Honestly, I can't take anyone seriously that believes immorality is derived from the amount of clothing women wear or the type.
That's like saying that the rapist is innocent because she was dressed in a provocative manner.


On one hand if that's what you meant, then that is not the woman doing that, that is the man.
  
   If you are however not saying that, and are infact suggesting that a more modest society in the form of attires is desirable, then I can understand how you could see today's culture to be bathed in sin, and seeking redemption.


I am wearing a pair of Ranger Panties as I type this, really short swimming trunks. I am a male. I am not going to be a bigot against some human because she is female and doesn't want to sweat for no reason.

First of all, our dress sense is shaped by alot of things, part of which are society, culture, tradition, personal beliefs and upbringing, but one thing remains the same in all of these, and it's that decency speaks one universal language. You don't have to be a Christian, Muslim or even an atheist to dress properly. It's common sense, although they say, it's not even common. Let's take for instance, would you imagine the Queen of England,of blessed memory dress inappropriately? Or Prince Charles himself sag like a low life? I even heard some time ago that the act of sagging is actually born from the prison when their belt has to be ceased so that it will not be used as a weapon. So after inmates got out , it became a trend and gradually it became what young men emulate.
What is bad is bad and it has got no other name. Indecently dressed people know a they also know why they dress like that.
.to correct this, we all have roles to play..We should groom our children properly from infants. They should be taught decency in dressing and otherwise. Schools should do better too but the bulk of the job is with the parents.
If we can do this the society will be better. And for the adults that indulge, I think the only way to curb this is for the government that actually wants better should enact a law to curb indecency in dressing especially in women and ladies.

Merci.

Feminists are so obsessed with women's freedom that they have forgotten the word indecent. If I get a chance, I want to ask them what is the real definition of freedom? Does freedom mean nudity? Does freedom mean disobedience? Does freedom mean disobeying the rules and regulations of society?

They always compare themselves with men and want equal freedom as men, but my main question is - are men really free? Men cannot spend their earnings freely, cannot dress freely at work, whereas most women want the freedom of dressing. In the work place, women claim to be different from men. Basically, they want equal rights in those areas where they get benefits, but they are reluctant to perform equal duties, because it is not beneficial for them.

I do not want anyone to be free, everyone should be subordinate to their religion, society and state. Only then can we create a clean environment. Freedom does not mean doing whatever you want.

I quite agree with your ideology. The so called feminist are the ones that pushed this agenda of indecent dressing in the name of freedom and if you check throughly a good number of them are bitter people, either abused in the past or just want to be equal to a man. The reality is everyone is equal in the society but in the family there is no such thing as equality because the concept itself is not correct to the make-up of what family stands for. Even though the man is not to lord it over the woman, a woman that knows her place in the set-up will do a lot better at her job than the one that feels she and her husband is equal.
Women holds the key toba better society and they can also destroy it in a snap of the finger.


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[Adiljutt156]

Precious stone (diamond) is found in the dirt and it glitters with so much beauty. If you don't go in search for it with patience, you wouldn't see it inside the dirt. This is how a good lady is. She doesn't need to be naked but dress decently and time will tell. These days ladies look for every possible means to be noticed by men. Another way they seduce men is through their dressing.

Clothing is not a signal system for character availability of morality people dresses for multiple reasons including  culture whether confidence comfort level or simply because of their personal preferences, reducing your clothes on the name of your personal choice is not ok. Person cannot be treated as an object that can be found and dignity is not something that we come visible when someone searches with patience, respect should not be related to the dressing or clothing it should be given to someone because of his or her inner self. Dressing is cultural preference or personal preference not moral judgement and noticing someone's personality should not require interpreting their clothes as an invitation

[Berry2d]

Precious stone (diamond) is found in the dirt and it glitters with so much beauty. If you don't go in search for it with patience, you wouldn't see it inside the dirt. This is how a good lady is. She doesn't need to be naked but dress decently and time will tell. These days ladies look for every possible means to be noticed by men. Another way they seduce men is through their dressing.

Clothing is not a signal system for character availability of morality people dresses for multiple reasons including  culture whether confidence comfort level or simply because of their personal preferences, reducing your clothes on the name of your personal choice is not ok. Person cannot be treated as an object that can be found and dignity is not something that we come visible when someone searches with patience, respect should not be related to the dressing or clothing it should be given to someone because of his or her inner self. Dressing is cultural preference or personal preference not moral judgement and noticing someone's personality should not require interpreting their clothes as an invitation

Dressing may not be a signal for responsibility but does not mean we should not appear in modesty and decency. I am not of the opinion that good character is noticeable by our physical Dressing because most appears in good Dressing  but deep down there mind they are serpents looking for who to destroy.
I will still say how we dress at times depends on how we are going to be addressed and this is one mistake we normally make all because of the term fashion,  not that it is bad Dressing good but we most  be conscious of our choices of Dressing at all times because some get into trouble because of wrong Dressing.

[Tungbulu]

Dressing may not be a signal for responsibility but does not mean we should not appear in modesty and decency. I am not of the opinion that good character is noticeable by our physical Dressing because most appears in good Dressing  but deep down there mind they are serpents looking for who to destroy.
I will still say how we dress at times depends on how we are going to be addressed and this is one mistake we normally make all because of the term fashion,  not that it is bad Dressing good but we most  be conscious of our choices of Dressing at all times because some get into trouble because of wrong Dressing.

Indeed dressings may not actually define a person’s personality or character, but still, it has the potential of influencing how people perceive and approach you, you know what they say, dress how you wanna be addressed. That’s why it’s always important to first appear modest and decent, because when the world sees you, the first thing they do is react to your appearance first before even considering your attitude. Yeah fashion is good, but choosing the right choice of fashion can potentially save you from some unnecessary misunderstanding or even trouble.

[Mando100]

Yes, our dressing talks alot about us because it is our personality, which guides our modesty,  dignity and integrity in the eyes of the people and wherever we may find ourselves, but now adays some people think when you dresses and show your body by wearing half dress, it's what would make them known in the society, not at all. If they continue such behavior how would they be in control of thier children when they see them in an unusual pattern of dressing. So not all dresses talks good about us or bring out the beauty in us, but rather it talks bad or irresponsible of who we are in our community. Dress well, smart and look humble it will tell good alot about us in our present or absent and even after our death.

[Dunamisx]

I understand there are different costumes we may try to wear just to show ourselves the beauty of the culture or the kind of attire we are putting on, this are for occasional purposes and oh no that dressing in a general appearance should be done decently, and we should not try to appear odd in a situation whereby we look more different from any other person in a particular appearance and it's so obvious, it may end up in shame.

[Queen uloma]

People have the right to choose the way they want to dress, but they need to understand that different places and occasion have different expectations. What seems to be OK for beach, school, church, swimming pool  or office may not be good in some public gathering, people are supposed to be dress according to the occasion. For me, beauty does not depend on how a person expose themselves. You can dress decently, confidently and still look very much attractive to decent people. A true beauty is  all about your character, self respect, and how you as a person package his  or herself, not by exposing your body to the public.

[POPOLUV]

How a person dresses should not concern the general public. Before you judge a person's outfit, check if whats he/her is wearing is suitable for that occasion. Like beachwear cannot be worn in an office, office wear cannot be used at the beach for swimming. If it suits the occasion, everyone has the right to dress the way they choose. Although in the world we live in, people have opinions on what you do, but sometimes opinions addressed disrespectfully are very unnecessary.

Yeah, that is why people always make use of this popular saying, that we should not judge the book by its cover, and yet there is always a need to always dress good before leaving your house, and probably it doesn't concerned the general public as you said but it is not a bad idea of keeping a good reputation of yourself before anyone or the public, because what kill most people career when they have the ambition in contesting for any position in the society, first before you could think of contesting for any position in the society, a background check up will be run on you to know if you are capable of such position. So you can never disregard the concept that said, we should dress how we want to be addressed.

[Tmoonz]

How a person dresses should not concern the general public. Before you judge a person's outfit, check if whats he/her is wearing is suitable for that occasion. Like beachwear cannot be worn in an office, office wear cannot be used at the beach for swimming. If it suits the occasion, everyone has the right to dress the way they choose. Although in the world we live in, people have opinions on what you do, but sometimes opinions addressed disrespectfully are very unnecessary.

Yeah, that is why people always make use of this popular saying, that we should not judge the book by its cover, and yet there is always a need to always dress good before leaving your house, and probably it doesn't concerned the general public as you said but it is not a bad idea of keeping a good reputation of yourself before anyone or the public, because what kill most people career when they have the ambition in contesting for any position in the society, first before you could think of contesting for any position in the society, a background check up will be run on you to know if you are capable of such position. So you can never disregard the concept that said, we should dress how we want to be addressed.

Most people don't give a fuck about seeking public opinion or validation towards what they are wearing, one of the truth is that the kind of dressing that might good for you might not be good for others and the ones that are good for them may likely not be good for you, do you know what? Because of dressing code alot of people may not attend certain functions or events which doesn't suits there own kind of person, actually am not judging anyone and I will not but we get to accept the fact that how we dress has a bit of how people may likely address us on a general note.