We are a swap router with multiple routes, Chainflip and NearIntents are still active, when thorchain resumes our service will pick it up immediately
I am not sure about Chainflip, but if I remember correctly NearIntents is know for freezing customer coins, so I would not trust them at all.
Can you also tell me hat exactly are you using for Bitcoin-Monero exchange, atomic swaps or something else?
Near intents has pre swap validation, so they can reject before the address from the bridge is generated.
We use btc-xmr atomic swaps and so far its been really successful, For the first time users can swap btc -xmr without custody from their browser
When thorchain integrates xmr we will be at the forefront to support it