I just brought this to our local board because I saw another thread on the beginner and help that is coming from one oga like that with the same complaint. There are some people you will mistakenly send it to and they will use it against you. Please let's be careful.
I read your whole post and honestly spent some time thinking about how low someone can go just to beg for merit like this. Earning merit in this forum is not that difficult if someone is willing to put in a little honest effort. But sadly, there are still some members who do not want to do even that basic work, so they keep sending messages to different users asking for merit.
By hiding the identity of the person who sent you the message, are you trying to give him another chance? I could not really find any clear existence of that person in your whole post. In my opinion, if you receive PMs like this, it is better to expose the identity of the sender. That way, proper action can be taken against him and a warning tag can also be placed on the account. Anyway, please stay careful about these matters and never get involved in merit farming or account farming in any way.
I have two different people in my PM which I displayed above and I strongly believe the two of them might be in this local board so there's every tendency they will see this thread. Sometimes things like this are targeted to let he who has ear, hear because we all are here for various purposes of which the entire goal is to be better than we were. So if they take corrections, fine but if they insist, they will definitely land on someone's PM who will use the report button.
Exposing their profile is what I don't see as necessary especially in this instance because some of the people that joined did not spend enough time reading the forum rules or seeking for knowledge about the DOs and Don'ts, such people are the ones that go about in PMs like this without knowing the implications. With patience, I hope everyone will get there one day so why worry!
This is a bad behavior and should be penalized. i thought I was the only one that got the PM so I let it slid even though I replied the user that merit are earned naturally when you make good quality post. If your post is worth meriting it will speak for it self by earning merit without you begging anyone. But it’s now looking like it’s his strategy sending various pm to different users with the same text. it’s obvious that it’s a strategy to farm account i hope moderators in the forum can do something about it. Initially I didn’t want to expose him because I thought he was ignorant about merit rules but it doesn’t seems so. he’s sending to different users so I think it should stop.
Evidence of the users PM is below see;

The last line of this your PM got me rolling on the floor😂 but come to think of it, with activity of 30 and 6 merits, I don't think it's a bad performance from anyone because I have seen some accounts that are worse or really very lower than this.