Friendship vs Sectarianism

[Whiteronin]

I think I now have a clear understanding of what friendship is. The human psyche is "developed" in such a way, that friendship always requires a shared, noble goal. The absense of such a goal ("the meaning of life") also triggers a need for alcohol and other drugs (people say that they drink because of "boredom"). And when normal, non-sectarian companies of friends arise, people in them inevitably become interested in politics, then some of them begin to criticize authoritarian governments, and then the governments punish them for it—I'm talking about Western autocrats (deep state), among others. Consequently, normal and natural friendship is usually replaced by sectarian and drug-fueled "friendships."
I know women who go to dance clubs and make friends there; it seems obvious to me that dancing itself is of no use or interest to anyone, but making friends is essential for everyone. Thus, dancing is a very effective way to improve one's social skills, but to use it, one must be sufficiently irrational— he/she must internally believe that dancing is a wonderful thing which can save the world. Overall, I believe that dancing for women is roughly the same as beer, football, and fishing for men.
What I have described above is the cause of "idiocracy" and injustice in general; as the singer C C Catch sang, "good guys only win in movies."

[Findingnemo]

So many irrelevant things in one post, I just don't understand what to make out of it. Women/men or anyone else goes to club to enjoy not to make friends and hanging with them is also a part but it's not the sole reason. They just want to enjoy it, whether for drinking, make out later or anything worse like gold digging which all comes in with an excuse to begin, humans are social but as well as most selfish animals.

[hafiztalha]

When friends have mutual respect and goals then the friendship become rewaeding but it is not necessary that friendship always require the activities like you have explain dancing, there are people who enjoy these activities for their own personal entertainment and also they form long lasting friendship to them but it is not accurate to say that all friendship required objectives. All these activities like football dancing, fishing, they give us enjoyment and make us stress free for certain time and also help us to build relationship. When there is lack of purpose then then mostly people become exposed to unhealthy habits but that doesn't mean these outcomes are inevitable. Human relationships are very much diverse and any healthy relationship is based on trust and mutual respect.

[Whiteronin]

When friends have mutual respect and goals then the friendship become rewaeding but it is not necessary that friendship always require the activities like you have explain dancing, there are people who enjoy these activities for their own personal entertainment and also they form long lasting friendship to them but it is not accurate to say that all friendship required objectives. All these activities like football dancing, fishing, they give us enjoyment and make us stress free for certain time and also help us to build relationship. When there is lack of purpose then then mostly people become exposed to unhealthy habits but that doesn't mean these outcomes are inevitable. Human relationships are very much diverse and any healthy relationship is based on trust and mutual respect.

I am almost sure, that the pleasure from dancing or fishing occurs only because the mind gets the confirmation of its goal - new friends appear. People would not enjoy dancing or fishing, if they do this alone.