That will take a while, the pre-requisites are steep for most wallets.
A side chain or at least swap capability and the ability to create silent payment address (and its back end)
But this can be a third-party feature or a plugin at least, excluding silent payments if the wallet already supports it.
Only wallet using plugins is Electrum wallet, and they don't support silent payments yes.
Best candidate is probably Cake wallet for supporting Octojoin.
"Octo" sounds more like "Eight" than the animal that they want to portray with the concept.
So at first glance, I though that this is limited to 8 participants.
I don't know what was the inspiration for Octojoin name, but you are correct that Octo means 8 in latin labnguage,
but we are also using word October for 10th month in calendar year, not 8th month, same as Septem means 7, and we use it as 9th month in calendar year
