Hey,
Was kinda skeptical about these new sites popping up ever since exch.cx i've never had any kind of trust to other websites .
I'm looking for a website that has high limits (above 1 BTC each transaction) BTC -> XMR and ZERO kyc. Ever. Or refund if kyc initiated.
Bonus point if they have escrow deposit on here.

Is this going to be one of those posts where you come back a few days later to edit this post saying you have found one and then go on to link to some shady phishing site?
If you are actually being serious, there are several options. b1exch and SageSwap have a good reputation on the forum, but I would not recommend swapping 1 whole BTC at once. You might have to pay more fees by doing more swaps, but it reduces the risk of losing all your funds if the exchange became malicious. It can also help reduce your price impact by spreading out your swaps into smaller orders and with enough time in between them.
^I came here to say exactly this.
No matter which exchange you choose to use, do not swap an entire Bitcoin at once. That is a recipe for disaster. There can always be something that can go wrong: maybe the swap service is/has turned scam, maybe you choose the wrong swap or maybe the liquidity is low and you are not forewarned that swapping could cause you to trade for a much lower amount of coins than you were expecting in return for your whole Bitcoin. Swap in small increments.
Always triple and quadruple check.