We cannot control the money we receive when doing p2p in a centralised exchange. Anyone would fall for this trap because it is a p2p trasnaction, and the merchant has the right to send from his account. However, what we can do is keep a proper record of the transaction and ensure that we receive the money directly from the merchant's personal account. Meaning the account on the exchange should match the account he uses to send the money. Avoid merchants that ask if they can send you money from a different account. Dont be nice when doing p2p, because one simple form of kindness can put you in a deep mess.
This post deserves more merit because it highlights what many of us P2P traders would ignore on a normal day because we simply want our funds anyways without properly checking details and sources of funding from the buyer.
For one, receiving payment from a different account from the name that appears during the transaction is breaking the platform rules to begin with and it's a big red flag.
It is proper to do a strict name verification before releasing or completing a transaction, otherwise refund and leave a review on the platform.
One thing scammers and criminals prey on is your patience and when you act in a hurry, and they use delay tactics, it's probably a start of how you get into trouble and that's why it's good to be patient and relaxed and in a comfortable situation not under duress, before making and completing a P2P transaction.
I love keeping records and as a trader please learn to do so, it would save you a lot of such issues in the future and lastly, I prefer to use a short timer so as to ensure there's not enough time for a trader with bad intentions to fulfill their agenda.
Stay vigilant and cautious and trust your instincts, because the crypto currency space is a delicate one and there's no saying what kind of ploy criminals may come up with during any transactions.