Is it true that there are some people who doesn't know how to face the public?

[bakasabo]

We already have generation that spend their life in gadgets and online instead of spending just a little bit of time offline and outside their houses. In 10-20 years will face situation when people would not know how to behave offline and on public. Already now there are people who talk a lot online, but cant say few sentences when they are on public. Already now people start to forget how is it talking offline. While anonymous online, people are brave. When then need to show on public who they really are, they get scared and confused.

[Ishicryptic]

I believe that majority of people don't know how to speak in public, they will flow very well in small gatherings but when they are in a large gathering and all eyes are in them they will suddenly become confused and stage fright will overshadow their confidence. It takes courage to face a crowd and be very confident to remember everything that you have to say and be very articulate, I believe that many speakers usually have that that fear at the beginning of their speech and as they progress they will be building their confidence.

I think that the major reason why many people have stage fright is because they don't want to make a fool of themselves in the public and the feeling will make them to be nervous if they are called upon to address a large gathering. To avoid stage fright it is necessary to be familiar with what we are about to speak about, by the time you start you will gradually gain confidence. Rehearsing in front of a mirror or friends before facing a large gathering can be helpful to avoid stage fright.

[GiftedMAN]

We already have generation that spend their life in gadgets and online instead of spending just a little bit of time offline and outside their houses. In 10-20 years will face situation when people would not know how to behave offline and on public. Already now there are people who talk a lot online, but cant say few sentences when they are on public. Already now people start to forget how is it talking offline. While anonymous online, people are brave. When then need to show on public who they really are, they get scared and confused.

We are in a generation where people will rather choose to hid under their key pads to rant and post crazy things online all in the name of making content through the help of artificial intelligence but meet them in real life they can't engage in a public conversation with you, people are no longer interested in developing themselves academically they don't understand the need to study and become well outspoken so that they can hold good conversations with people they keep being afraid, the only remedy to solving this problem of fear and lack of composure when people are in the people is for them to engage more in public speaking instead of talking more offline.

[Shineup]

Definitely true, there are people that cannot confront the public, there is what we called crowd phobia, not everyone have that confidence of public confrontation and that is where we must try to understand people by their own kind of nature and figure out their desiring abilities in them before we engage them on a particular task.

Being unable to make a public appearance or address the public is not an abnormality, but rather a decision anyone can fall under the category, this is where individual differences appears and our various abilities as well, while there are some that will definitely take this as  a challenge in building up their confidence in public and effect on this drastic change over the time.

It is called glossophobia alot of people are struggling with it and some can even take it to the grave, some outgrown it over time while on the other way some people are very good at speaking publicly some have it naturally while others too learn it through school or education of some sort, honestly I was a victim of this circumstance while growing but I had to stand on my ground and took it like a challenge, I faced the fear because I know it is good that I do it for myself, is very funny how I was known to be a shy person back then now am a different person and am happy about it.

[WhoYouCantKill]

We already have generation that spend their life in gadgets and online instead of spending just a little bit of time offline and outside their houses. In 10-20 years will face situation when people would not know how to behave offline and on public. Already now there are people who talk a lot online, but cant say few sentences when they are on public. Already now people start to forget how is it talking offline. While anonymous online, people are brave. When then need to show on public who they really are, they get scared and confused.

That's true, people have been too connected to Internet that they even forget that there is a life outside online, as they don't know how to approach matters because they think everyone use gadgets like the way they do. At times, its good for one to interact people offline more to know how to do or fix things themselves, as there are some people that doesn't show their real lives online and they have to tread carefully with this kind of people.

[Frankolala]

Yes, I have. There was a time I wasn't used to mingling with people because I always stick to myself. I went to a meeting and couldn't say anything than saying the same thing over and over again. I got disappointed towards myself and started mingling with people, attending programs and started teaching. This was what improved my confidence to be able to speak in public when called upon. Currently, I do give speech in occasions and in church.

[Umulala-alala]

Everybody are not the same there are shy people who don't know how to express themselves in public while there are also people who even want to speak in the public for people to know them, like me i don't like showing up but not that i can't express my feelings in public, i good dancer should always know when to leave the stage. If you haven't face a crowd before and it happens to be your first time if you are not careful enough you may not give a good expression of what you came to present.

[Findingnemo]

Introverts are not alien, they exists among ourselves too and to be honest I am not very social either, I can only communicate well with the people who I feel comfortable and not with everyone and definitely I will hesistate to go on a stage to do something which all are very common things that others might not understand at all.

[bakasabo]

We already have generation that spend their life in gadgets and online instead of spending just a little bit of time offline and outside their houses. In 10-20 years will face situation when people would not know how to behave offline and on public. Already now there are people who talk a lot online, but cant say few sentences when they are on public. Already now people start to forget how is it talking offline. While anonymous online, people are brave. When then need to show on public who they really are, they get scared and confused.

We are in a generation where people will rather choose to hid under their key pads to rant and post crazy things online all in the name of making content through the help of artificial intelligence but meet them in real life they can't engage in a public conversation with you, people are no longer interested in developing themselves academically they don't understand the need to study and become well outspoken so that they can hold good conversations with people they keep being afraid, the only remedy to solving this problem of fear and lack of composure when people are in the people is for them to engage more in public speaking instead of talking more offline.

I think people prefer conversation online to offline, because talking online gives them a little pause to think about the answer. When people post in chat, they dont reply immediately (but if they do, these are not smartest, intelligent and brilliant replies that fit). Also they have backspace and delete options. They can always delete what they have said or started saying. Offline you cant take your words back. Talking offline makes them off balanced and uncomfortable. Maybe people became slow thinkers? That is why they have difficulties talking offline, keep conversation and replay instantly?

[Dunamisx]

Some people cannot stand the crowd, this is no more new to us any longer because we have everyone according to their capacities and various abilities in them as well, facing the crowd is not everyone's responsibility because some people cannot stand the confidence of facing the crowd, not even to make a public appearance, while some can still decided to develop this confidence over the time if they see an opportunity for undergoing mentorship to streamline them on how they could gain confidence.

[Achalugo BTC]

Introverts are not alien, they exists among ourselves too and to be honest I am not very social either, I can only communicate well with the people who I feel comfortable and not with everyone and definitely I will hesistate to go on a stage to do something which all are very common things that others might not understand at all.

Exactly, you are totally describing me because that's how I act also, I have few friends which I do communicate with them on social media and sometimes talking can actually be a stressful thing to me, that is why I like to communicate more with people online and when it comes to reality, I communicate very fervently with people who I'm very comfortable when they are around me and this my kind of person have really make them to protect myself from harms and other harms that would jeopardized my mental health.

[Findingnemo]

Introverts are not alien, they exists among ourselves too and to be honest I am not very social either, I can only communicate well with the people who I feel comfortable and not with everyone and definitely I will hesistate to go on a stage to do something which all are very common things that others might not understand at all.

Exactly, you are totally describing me because that's how I act also, I have few friends which I do communicate with them on social media and sometimes talking can actually be a stressful thing to me, that is why I like to communicate more with people online and when it comes to reality, I communicate very fervently with people who I'm very comfortable when they are around me and this my kind of person have really make them to protect myself from harms and other harms that would jeopardized my mental health.

Not many people can understand myself, they think I am being rude but this is how I have always been and that is not my problem if they are offended when I am not that talkative when I meet them on occasions.

[Achalugo BTC]

Not many people can understand myself, they think I am being rude but this is how I have always been and that is not my problem if they are offended when I am not that talkative when I meet them on occasions.

Absolutely, some people think being quiet its kinda pride or rude, even when explained to them, they won't adhere to it and that shouldn't be a problem, as everyone has the right to behave and act they way they want, I'm glad you can relate to what I'm saying. If people decides to judge one based on their personality, that's their own business because I'm not responsible on how one decides to behave or not, which I got no reason to prove any point to anyone.