Is it true that there are some people who doesn't know how to face the public?

[Sunshine1525]

I am actually surprise to see that there are some people who doesn't know how to face public, this happened on a seminal hold on our group friends where someone among us was asked to host the people since it was their turn to do that, but it happened that weren't able to present themselves very well. Though I never mean to post this here but something stroke me to post here to know if we have same people here, there are some people who doesn't know how to express themselves in public and they would want it to be private or somehow meet someone in private to be able to express themselves and their feelings. Same thing happened to popular person we know to be Mark, and through such experience he created facebook where people can communicating and sharing their feelings through online.

have you experienced such a thing before to you knowledge?

It's very common, i could remember some dude who was called up by our principal in secondary school days to give a speech on behalf of his hostel but he ended up shaking with the mic in his hand, it was so embarrassing and I could remember some group of girls laughing at his girlfriend, I laughed too but felt pity for the girl cause I would've feel bad if it were my boyfriend.

Not cause he's embarrassing me but what was going through his head and how embarrassed he felt. Some people are like that, they ain't dumb or lack what to say but they're so shy that they can't express themselves in a crowdy or public space without stammering or fidgeting, it's caused by lack of self confidence.

[hafiztalha]

Some people are born with a personality and distaste for crowds.
Some people are born with a personality that strongly prefers crowds.
Some people are untrained in crowded situations, and
Some people are trained in crowded situations from childhood.

In these things have different backgrounds that we can assume why from some people are not able to express themselves in public, this is different from public speaking more to how our daily lives that make the crowd seem to drain more energy for those who are not used to it, while conversely for those extroverts when too much alone they will be much weaker than when crowded.

Personality has a great influence on someone and it make you comfortable and define that how comfortable someone is when they are in crowd I do not think that it is simple to say that people are born to either enjoy or dislike public situation, confidence is the main thing, confidence in front of others is often learned skills that can be learn rather than a fixed personality trait I have seen many people who are introvert and later they became excellent public speakers and there are people who are extra word but they don't feel comfortable while talking in public. self confidence plays  important role in definingpersonalities and its define ability of someone on how they interact with others, this ability can be developed with the help of training exposure practice and encouragement.

[Akbarkoe]

Some people are born with a personality and distaste for crowds.
Some people are born with a personality that strongly prefers crowds.
Some people are untrained in crowded situations, and
Some people are trained in crowded situations from childhood.

In these things have different backgrounds that we can assume why from some people are not able to express themselves in public, this is different from public speaking more to how our daily lives that make the crowd seem to drain more energy for those who are not used to it, while conversely for those extroverts when too much alone they will be much weaker than when crowded.

Personality has a great influence on someone and it make you comfortable and define that how comfortable someone is when they are in crowd I do not think that it is simple to say that people are born to either enjoy or dislike public situation, confidence is the main thing, confidence in front of others is often learned skills that can be learn rather than a fixed personality trait I have seen many people who are introvert and later they became excellent public speakers and there are people who are extra word but they don't feel comfortable while talking in public. self confidence plays  important role in definingpersonalities and its define ability of someone on how they interact with others, this ability can be developed with the help of training exposure practice and encouragement.

Related about personality such as character, emotion, intelligence basically we know that genes influence in this case, but the most influential is the habit, where the habit can be through education (or educated), or someone does have an interest in independently so that he learns and has the ability to be either introverted or extroverted (have confidence), if a person is accustomed from birth, and this will affect them as adults in expressing themselves to the public, although anyone can be able to change depending on the conditions he experienced and the willingness so that someone wants to do something for his life.

[Oshio-man]

have you experienced such a thing before to you knowledge?

Yes, during end of the year party when many schools use to celebrate their end of the year party with different activities that will be making students to display what will make their parents to leave them in that school next term, not that the children don't know book but they are not bold in standing in public to display but if you give the student pen to display what is planning to showcase in public he or she will do better in that presentation, in such category of people in the classroom, just give them few years and you will begin seeing changes in them on how to get display perfectly in public.

[Franklyn-wood]

Well it's not a new thing, it is called stage fright or inferior complex. This feeling makes a person not express themselves freely in public. Most times it is not there fault, it's just unfortunate that they are not used to speaking in public. And anyone who is not familiar with public speaking will surely embarrass him or herself in public. Some people are introvert and don't have that energy to withstand crowd because they are used to private communications. Infact public speaking is not for everybody. People even go to study how speak in public because it's not really easy as you think. Don Just blame the person in question, because he is not used to it.

All you said is just the truth because I have some friends who are like that. They can't talk when there is someone new around them. It sounds funny but this is who this people are. They feel extremely unsecured in the mist of crowds not just talking but also in there feelings.
This is as a result of upbringing for children raised in environment where they are not exposed to interact with other children even at home whose parents are over protective. They go to school, come back and remain indoors, no friends, nabours visiting and family members visit occasionally.  By the time the grow up it becomes a life style for them, seeing others as suspects to there well being.

[POPOLUV]

Yes of course, so many people has the same Problems of facing the public because facing the public is something that one should be starting why growing up, I'm talking out of experience and i noticed that once one passes the young age when he could have learn how to  withstand or overcome stage frightening, it seems so difficult for him at the point of being a man/woman that has not been practicing or speaking before for a while and i believe schools management and churches should be given younger one the opportunity of standing before the public while growing up as teenager and i think people can cope in dealing with stage frightening with consistent practice of speaking before the public because stage frightening is one of the major problems people are facing in the society now.

[Agbamoni]

It's very common, i could remember some dude who was called up by our principal in secondary school days to give a speech on behalf of his hostel but he ended up shaking with the mic in his hand, it was so embarrassing and I could remember some group of girls laughing at his girlfriend, I laughed too but felt pity for the girl cause I would've feel bad if it were my boyfriend.

Not cause he's embarrassing me but what was going through his head and how embarrassed he felt. Some people are like that, they ain't dumb or lack what to say but they're so shy that they can't express themselves in a crowdy or public space without stammering or fidgeting, it's caused by lack of self confidence.

We often see this event happening regularly, whether in schools or churches, mostly found in public gatherings. The cause of it is stage fright or public anxiety.

The audience judges instantly that they have low IQ, are not intelligent, incompetent, or not completely ready for the stage. But deep down, we know that most folks in such a situation are highly intelligent, more competent enough to steal the show. Anxiety should not be used to judge intelligence. In African culture, the conclusion is that the kid is not sharp. If the anxiety is worked on, such a person will be bold enough to address the public in due time.