Is it true that there are some people who doesn't know how to face the public?

[AgriTrack]

have you experienced such a thing before to you knowledge?

Many of us can express our ideas and points in our friend circle, but when we go on stage, like at any gathering, we don't have the confidence to speak. So what's the psychological effect behind that behavior? I think the problem is public speaking and low confidence in talking. In our student life, we have seen many friends who had very logical questions, but due to fear of people, they don't express them, because when everyone looks at them, they become nervous.

That's the biggest fault in the personality of any individual and the point of thinking is how can we improve it? As it's a very common problem, its solution is obviously very easy. At current times, there are a lot of online platforms where people do practices, so after that, individuals should start talking through a small group and then, gradually, when they start to build a little confidence, then they present their ideas in big forms. So, with the passage of time and with improvements, we are able to define anything even on a large scale, like in public and mainly on social media, where the human traffic is much higher than our expectations.

[uneng]

Many of us can express our ideas and points in our friend circle, but when we go on stage, like at any gathering, we don't have the confidence to speak. So what's the psychological effect behind that behavior? I think the problem is public speaking and low confidence in talking. In our student life, we have seen many friends who had very logical questions, but due to fear of people, they don't express them, because when everyone looks at them, they become nervous.

It's quite frequent especially nowadays in this polarized world. Depending your views, 50% of people around will hate you and another 50% will support you. It creates an environment of hostility where the individual protects himself in a defensive zone the whole time, reducing social interactions and his spontaneity in order to avoid conflict and retaliations. The educational environment is a good example of that.

Any discussions get hot really quickly these days without reaching solid and enlightning conclusions after all, so it makes sense to avoid facing the public. I see it as an unnecessary emotional distress.

[BADecker]

If you don't learn how to face the public, you probably won't earn much money. Then you will have to become a beggar to support yourself.

[Biirakedee]

Some people express themselves better in private that in front of the crowd but that does not meant that they lack the confidence or have nothing thoughtful to say. Sometimes the fear of being judged or making a mistake is enough to affect how a person speak.
Most of the time someone who struggle to communicate openly can clearly and easily communicate through writing. That is why I don’t think we should always judge a persons ability or intelligence based on how they talk in front of people. Public speaking is not something everyone can be naturally good at, it is something that requires constant practicing.

[Rabata]

I am actually surprise to see that there are some people who doesn't know how to face public, this happened on a seminal hold on our group friends where someone among us was asked to host the people since it was their turn to do that, but it happened that weren't able to present themselves very well. Though I never mean to post this here but something stroke me to post here to know if we have same people here, there are some people who doesn't know how to express themselves in public and they would want it to be private or somehow meet someone in private to be able to express themselves and their feelings. Same thing happened to popular person we know to be Mark, and through such experience he created facebook where people can communicating and sharing their feelings through online.

have you experienced such a thing before to you knowledge?

Almost everywhere there are people who are actually very intelligent and can talk a lot but when they are called to speak in a public meeting they keep to themselves. They feel nervous about speaking in public. They are not weak but when they come in front of others and try to speak they seem to forget the words or their voice does not want to come out of their mouth. This is a human problem although it is not the case with everyone. There are some people who may have such a problem because they think that if they speak in front of people, people will criticize them if they make a mistake which can be very embarrassing for them. If the same person is allowed to speak in front of one or a few people they can speak very well. Not all such people are stupid but there are many intelligent people who talk less and try to keep themselves hidden all the time.

[bakasabo]

I am actually surprise to see that there are some people who doesn't know how to face public, this happened on a seminal hold on our group friends where someone among us was asked to host the people since it was their turn to do that, but it happened that weren't able to present themselves very well. Though I never mean to post this here but something stroke me to post here to know if we have same people here, there are some people who doesn't know how to express themselves in public and they would want it to be private or somehow meet someone in private to be able to express themselves and their feelings. Same thing happened to popular person we know to be Mark, and through such experience he created facebook where people can communicating and sharing their feelings through online.

have you experienced such a thing before to you knowledge?

Almost everywhere there are people who are actually very intelligent and can talk a lot but when they are called to speak in a public meeting they keep to themselves. They feel nervous about speaking in public. They are not weak but when they come in front of others and try to speak they seem to forget the words or their voice does not want to come out of their mouth. This is a human problem although it is not the case with everyone. There are some people who may have such a problem because they think that if they speak in front of people, people will criticize them if they make a mistake which can be very embarrassing for them. If the same person is allowed to speak in front of one or a few people they can speak very well. Not all such people are stupid but there are many intelligent people who talk less and try to keep themselves hidden all the time.

It is so easy to raise hesitation, nervousness and fear of facing public. It is enough to make a laugh or just a short ha-ha on public on someone when that person speaks on public at school. Every others make a response and support laughter, publicly speaking persons first turns red, then he starts to fear to talk on public. Most of our fear and hesitations comes from unpleasant situations during our childhood, and they affect us our entire life. I cant even say that this is bullying, because some people dont even realize they make others feel uncomfortable and are they reason why others later are afraid to face the public.