USA went for an aggressive stance towards the world, while China went for a passive-aggressive stance. It makes Chinese leadership looks more friendly than the North American one, what doesn't mean the world is favourable to China, anyway.
It seems the main difference between both is that Trump enjoys the status and fame, besides power and mostly, money. Meanwhile, Xi Jinping doesn't care about the status and fame at all. Chinese modus operandi focuses on being powerful, but in a more discreet way... Doing their schemes and being highly authoritarian on the shadows, far from the spotlights of the media.
Yes true, Trump is a self centered person, Actually he created tension or discomfort in different countries. All this act basically are going against him, his priority to get control over the resources of different countries by imposing war. His all acts actually created hatred and distract the different countries away from US. While on the other side,China is silently working on it's progress. Because China has different approach, every next day they improve or upgrade themselves especially in technology or economically. The policies or the attitude of the whole nation including their president is admirable. Many countries consider China is a strong economic patner so to strengthen their economy they prefer to build strong relationships with China. So yes, slowly and gradually China will be the first preference of other countries if US attitude remains same.