Hello everyone,
I am very new to crypto and have unfortunately invested money with a person who I believe is a scammer.
She was guiding me and I have followed because I trusted her, I know now that was pretty stupid.
Yes, you're!
After reading the jargons the scammer is using to convince you about some fake Ethereum some how through RPC bla bla and your friend( a lady for that matter) is still trying to make you do it but your conscience is not telling you enough that it's a scam.
A simple Google search should help you know that this is a scam, the person you claimed to be your friend and is able to pull this off and you still think the person is your friend is scary, I'm not sure if you know the difference between a friend and a witch at this point

Can anyone tell me or confirm how I can find out if the money (Ethereums) in my wallet is really there or not?
I can see it but I just cannot withdraw it, swap it for another coin or move it.
I have a feeling it is a scam.
Thanks for any help!
I'm not going be sarcastic, you are about to be scammed. There is no free money on the internet, let that get into your head. This is just one of the other plenty scams that are online. They will claimed to give you some coins, could be usdt, ether or sol and requested you make withdraw and when it's time to withdraw, they asked for a fee to be deposited into a particular address and as soon as you make that deposit, you have just unluck another stage of scam.
They are going to request another fee a second time, if you are not able to wake from the scam, they will continue to ask for the fee until you later realize that you are been dupe. Stay away from scam platform and fake giveaways.