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I want to ask everyone here openly: is my post intentionally seeking sympathy? I only asked about wallets, which I don't think is wrong. If it is wrong, please tell me and I will share all the details here. However, I still don't think that is compulsory.
I didn't perceive your initial post as one to seek sympathy. You suffered a severe loss and still posted in a quite composed manner indicating to move on.
When you're asking about wallets, hardware wallets likely, my personal recommendations are: Foundation Passport, Trezor, Bitbox02 (this is my current device of choice in the last few years).
I don't like how Coinkite behaved in the past, outing themselves as sort of enemies of open-source, to protect their code from potential competitors. And they screwed up their firmware really really badly which led to your and others substantial losses. Nobody deserves to loose their hard earned and hodled coins by such a stupid mistake of morons at Coinkite.
If you don't want to trust a hardware wallet vendor's implementation (hardware and software involved) to generate a wallet's initial random entropy, you can generate that base entropy yourself, e.g. by dice. Take your time to read and comprehend the following long article:
Dice to seed — the methods Bitcoin wallets use to turn dice rolls into a mnemonic(Source: I've seen this link first posted by dkbit98 here, maybe not the first mention in this forum)A warning to less knowledgeable users: on the topic of "seed generation" it's in my opinion easier to do things less secure than to do things right and with top security. You should understand what you're doing when later coins are deposited in such a wallet. The security of a wallet depends on many factors and user's actions. If you have no or few clues, learn first before you do stupid things that you'll regret later.
Otherwise I usually recommend to keep a low profile with being a bitcoiner. The less you talk about it in public where it could be tracked to your real life person and address, the better. There's usually no need to disclose exact sums or so, unless you ask for specific transactions and need help with them. It should be known that a transaction history can reveal more details than intended.