Marriage in this generation is becoming something else.

[POPOLUV]

When i was growing up, my father always tell me that he who find a wife found a favour in the Lord but with the news I'm seeing allover the social media and this is a recent news that is going viral on social media, it is not first time we are seeing a newly wedded husband and wife and the wife end up stabbing the husband with small quarry that could have be settled amicably without next ears or neighbors hearing it but this woman in that picture is really heartless because i don't know the misunderstanding that can warrant a her to kill her own husband, can you just imagine a wife that the husband paid all the necessary traditional right died on Cold blood by the wife.

This is sending a message to all the coming youths that are not yet married to be very careful when making a choice on who to marry, because is very painful ending up with what you use your own money to pay.

[Karl_3000]

Why did you not translate what is written on the image that is in pidgin if you want this to be on the English board?

If it is not translated, it is better it should be moved to Nigeria local board where it belongs.

If you do not translate it, I will report it to be moved to local board.

[o48o]

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I am not trying to be funny, but i genuinely have no idea what text in that image is trying to say.

And if this has been allover social media, why wouldn't you post link to actual news source about this? Because all you have is what ever this gobbledygook word salad of a news is. There's no story or context of what has actually happened to whom, where or when and and not even speculation of a motive. Just a picture and word salad that people are supposed to figure out and to believe.

If something indeed has happened to someone then my condolences to people it affected, but this isn't a way to spread news. People need mandatory courses on critical media literacy.

[As-Soon-As]

In this current position, women have become the most disgusting, because girls do not respect their husbands as they deserve. Due to which there is always conflict between the two, but if we could know why this incident happened, then we could definitely learn from this mistake.
Because the person who died will definitely teach others that no one should make such a mistake, so if you get the source link, you would definitely know the incident automatically.

[Dunamisx]

Considering that part of the description of what happened in the image shows it was written in Nigerian pidgin, you would have made this thread on the local board or done well by translating the pidgin aspects to English.

Marriage today is not the same way it's used to be and that is why things are changing, but we are expected to only imbibe on the positive change upon our own marriage, sometimes you think you love your partner and until challenges arises before you could know what they are desperate to do, everyone should learn how they will manage their hunger in marriage and also be tolerant at the same time to make things work out for marriage.

[Bigjoe33]

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I am not trying to be funny, but i genuinely have no idea what text in that image is trying to say.

And if this has been allover social media, why wouldn't you post link to actual news source about this? Because all you have is what ever this gobbledygook word salad of a news is. There's no story or context of what has actually happened to whom, where or when and and not even speculation of a motive. Just a picture and word salad that people are supposed to figure out and to believe.

If something indeed has happened to someone then my condolences to people it affected, but this isn't a way to spread news. People need mandatory courses on critical media literacy.

Sorry about that. Guess the OP forgot to do a bit explanations or translate the text in a pure English for easy understanding since the write ups where made in Nigerian pigin English.

Its about a newly wedded couple, whom after little misunderstanding stabbed the new husband to death. Though the actual cause of the dispute between them was not mentioned, but people had condemned the ugly act by the wife.

My take on this is just for intending couples to be careful before they finally agree to 'I Do'. Marriages these days are just full of issues, maybe because of misplaced priorities, lack of genuine love, companionship and proper communication. It's just so painful that after weeks or months of celebration on the alter, then comes anger, disunity, fight, disagreement and later in some cases death, just like this one above. We must be careful not to make mistakes.

[Oluwa-btc]

This is sending a message to all the coming youths that are not yet married to be very careful when making a choice on who to marry, because is very painful ending up with what you use your own money to pay.

There are bad marriages and good marriages at the same time,  what do you want for yourself?!!

This is a strong and powerful warning though, and people's real life mistakes and errors like this is one of the best ways to learn as you go on in this life. Also, I do not want to jump into conclusion, but the man has done something to the woman to do such a thing. That said, she has no right to stab him to death regardless of what he's done. The truth is that no everybody will get married and those who do should learn to study their partners and live life with them in the best way.

[Chilwell]

This is sending a message to all the coming youths that are not yet married to be very careful when making a choice on who to marry, because is very painful ending up with what you use your own money to pay.

I understand your statement, but if I may understand what your father said, if you get a good wife you have found a favour. Living alone without any partner has a lot of disadvantage and when you have gotten a partner and you guys are not go the same way, it also a disadvantage too. Important of marriage is to find peace and that is why those with good wives always feel so happy in their entire life because almighty God has blessed them. If we can understand how frustration it is to have a bad wife, is when you are tested with one but I don't wish anyone to test to that, because honestly you will be regretting throughout your entire life most especially if you have gotten children, that alone is also a trap because you will be looking at your children which will make some of people stay patiently in that relationship.

[BTC FutureKing]

Considering that part of the description of what happened in the image shows it was written in Nigerian pidgin, you would have made this thread on the local board or done well by translating the pidgin aspects to English.

Marriage today is not the same way it's used to be and that is why things are changing, but we are expected to only imbibe on the positive change upon our own marriage, sometimes you think you love your partner and until challenges arises before you could know what they are desperate to do, everyone should learn how they will manage their hunger in marriage and also be tolerant at the same time to make things work out for marriage.

Married life seems easy and comfortable but only those who go through this stage are aware of this situation because it seems that there are no problems or difficulties in life after marriage although this is completely wrong because the life partner is found in difficult times.Because to live a happy life after marriage not only love is needed but along with love patience and tolerance understanding responsibility explaining and supporting your partner in difficult times.Then after marriage life seems peaceful and comfortable.If these qualities are not present in married life then fighting will be common between husband and wife.Instead of understanding each other both will prefer to leave each other which has become very common these days.

[Juicyhome]

There is no wife out there again we're in a terrible generation of women, it's hard  to even date or marry any woman now, they don't have regard and respect for men, they are all after money and enjoyment,  they don't want to endure and build with a man like our mothers.  Anywhere they see enjoyment that's where you will see them. They're very cheap to get, just have small money and you will have any of them for sex.

Have told my guys that cares to be careful in choosing wife, it's better to stay single than to marry a public girl that everyone has slept with in the area.  If you're lucky to have a respectful gilr with good character marry asap.

[hafiztalha]

This type of incident shows that how important it is to choose your life partner wisely. Life is built on communication, respect for each other and the ability to resolve personal issues without getting violent. Young generation should get a lesson from this incident that it is a very serious decision to choose the person you want to get married to. They should not just get married to someone because of the family pressure or because of money, looks, or emotions. Should take time to understand each other, and then they should decide whether they want to get married or not because it is a lifelong decision. Similarly, at the same time, we cannot justify violence in any form. Whenever there is disagreement between husband and wife on anything, they should try to solve the issue by communicating with each other. If the issue is bigger and they are unable to solve it, then they should try to take help from their friends or family or from some sort of professional person. Rather than just being getting violent or escalating the situation.

[PhilosopherKing]

I will not blame just the wife, I will blame the husband also. Permit me to just summarize what is happening in the society today. Men this day don't look deeper before they marry. Those lot are moved by how endowed the lady is in the back and front. Men this day don't bother to look as character of the lady, and even the kind of family the lady come from . This is why we are seeing this kind of news. Even the lady also don't marry because of character. They marry because of money and all the things they can get from the man. And the moment when they are not given those things she married the man for, the lady will start doing and behaving anyhow. Little thing will pepper her and small argument can turn to big physical fight.

To the youth, don't marry because of ass and boobs, or because the dude is loaded with money. Only marry because of character. It is better your wife is ugly and respectful than for her to be beautiful and arrogant. A word is enough for the wise.

[Qhunman]

These generation of women is something else. We don't know who to trust to marry because at some point, you might think your partner is a heavenly sent to you not knowing that you are about to tie the knot with the devil himself. Some women are great pretenders, they can pretend like without you they wouldn't survive. Just look at how that young man lives was cut short by the same woman he loves so much.
Even if you had a misunderstanding with your husband, does that now give you the right to end his life? These cases of women murdering their husband because of common arguments or misunderstanding is alarming. I shiver each time I read news like this.