Why Do Marriages End in Divorce?

[Female King]

The main reason there have been more divorce rate in this present time than it was in the past is because women of today have financial independence than in the past when many of them were not working. Women of those days prefer to please their husbands than women of today.

That is not only the reason, but it is the main reason.

You’re spot on, I think women of this days are not marrying for love, they’re more interested in the financial benefits that comes from marriage and getting divorced, which is why they’re more likely to getting divorced when there is a benefit attached to divorce, and the men are the once who stands to loose more in a marriage.

Women of this generation, are more likely to get divorced because they don’t want to respect a man, or want to be under a man, women now wants to be in control, but that doesn’t mean that you don’t have the good once available.

It's only few women now that marry for love, majority are after what the man can afford, they will pretend to love you when you have money and ask for divorce when the money start diminishing, and they may have start cheating on the man before the divorce.

The rate of divorce may likely increase in time coming, most women in this generation don't want to settle for less they see life as a competition, they want to look good like other women forgetting that marriage is a thing of patience, for better and for worse, if women can genuinely love a man and respect him the high rate of divorce will decrease.

[DanWalker]

The truth is that majority of this young lady who got married don't understand what marriage is all about, or they are not yet matured for marriage. Marriage is not for children but for matured mind. Those who entered marriage hurriedly will jump out quickly because it's not a game for children. Lack of understanding, infidelity do to poor sexual performanceay cause divorce from marriage. In fact there are many things that cause divorce but let me just say this few.

Hilarious to instantly jump to blame women for not understanding, when their awareness and education has been growing. And like men wouldn't cheat and get testy and abusive. Do you want some stats how many women are abused by men while we are at it?

Reason why marriages don't last is because people don't have to take abuse anymore, and they have right to earn their own money (which is hard for a single parent by the way), so they can just leave if some man-child doesn't want to grow up and work with issues and before they start abusing their kids as well.

What's even more telling is that most people in this thread seem to put the blame on women, saying they marry for money, dont respect their husbands...It's almost as if men are always innocent and somehow the ones who suffer the most in marriage. LOL

I guess most of these people are either unmarried or are rather patriarchal husbands. A responsible man who truly respects his wife will understand that marriage is a two way relationship, and both sides are responsible for the problem in the relationship.
No offense, but only cowardly and irresponsible men blame their partners.

[HelliumZ]

The number of divorced marriages nowadays is alarming and it got me thinking is it that people easily fall out of love or is that they aren't patient enough to work out issues. Maybe it is because they stop communicatin one of them cheated. Why are marriages failing today and what can we do to better?

Nowadays, divorce has become a common problem in the world, especially in every country, it is an alarm problem. If we analyze it, we will see that both men and women are work-oriented, so no one is giving time to each other. As a result, there is a lack of love within them. The husband is moving away from his wife, the wife is moving away from her husband, and this generation gap that is being created between them is not easily resolved. Now both husband and wife prefer to spend time on social media instead of loving each other. If they learn to understand each other well in whatever free time they have after work and instead of using social media, they can feel each other's presence, only then can our male and female society be free from the terrible disease called divorce.

[Taricoins]

What's even more telling is that most people in this thread seem to put the blame on women, saying they marry for money, dont respect their husbands...It's almost as if men are always innocent and somehow the ones who suffer the most in marriage. LOL

I guess most of these people are either unmarried or are rather patriarchal husbands. A responsible man who truly respects his wife will understand that marriage is a two way relationship, and both sides are responsible for the problem in the relationship.
No offense, but only cowardly and irresponsible men blame their partners.

I think the common misconception that happens to marriage failure is improper dating, when you didn't get the chance to understand and love your partner for who they are and the most important is having a clear goal in common that nothing can stop until you fulfill it, I've seen alot of beautiful homes built on marriage and abuse goes both ways, feminine abuse doesn't always come with physical altercations, they tend to abuse these partners emotionally through words, and sometimes they push there male partner to such act, don't put yourself in the situation to receive harm, and am not excusing some of this evil men but it goes both ways, that is, the blame.

[Roseline492]

What's even more telling is that most people in this thread seem to put the blame on women, saying they marry for money, dont respect their husbands...It's almost as if men are always innocent and somehow the ones who suffer the most in marriage. LOL

I guess most of these people are either unmarried or are rather patriarchal husbands. A responsible man who truly respects his wife will understand that marriage is a two way relationship, and both sides are responsible for the problem in the relationship.
No offense, but only cowardly and irresponsible men blame their partners.

You are right because all the fault I have seen from a lot of people have been pointed at the women but however if they calmed down to analyse what some men are doing they would understand that some women are also a serious victim on their marriage so actually in marriage only one gender shouldn't be blame for all the problem in their marriage but however is a fault that usually come from the both of them, and also if someone have not been into deep relationship they might not understand how this things works and they will keep seeing women as the problem in every marriage.

[BTC FutureKing]

The number of divorced marriages nowadays is alarming and it got me thinking is it that people easily fall out of love or is that they aren't patient enough to work out issues. Maybe it is because they stop communicatin one of them cheated. Why are marriages failing today and what can we do to better?

Nowadays, divorce has become a common problem in the world, especially in every country, it is an alarm problem. If we analyze it, we will see that both men and women are work-oriented, so no one is giving time to each other. As a result, there is a lack of love within them. The husband is moving away from his wife, the wife is moving away from her husband, and this generation gap that is being created between them is not easily resolved. Now both husband and wife prefer to spend time on social media instead of loving each other. If they learn to understand each other well in whatever free time they have after work and instead of using social media, they can feel each other's presence, only then can our male and female society be free from the terrible disease called divorce.

It is being observed that whether one is interested in marriage or not there is a decrease in the preference of husband and wife for each other.Many lives are being destroyed due to social media.Apart from this, there are other reasons due to which husband and wife prefer to divorce and get divorced instead of living together.Now most of the families have become more interfere in the relationship of husband and wife which is considered an undesirable act.Not giving time to each other doubting each other due to which the strong relationship of husband and wife also breaks down.Therefore, ending the issue of divorce also involves the efforts of both husband and wife.If both are sensitive and love each other then the matter will never reach the point of divorce.

[$crypto$]

The main reason there have been more divorce rate in this present time than it was in the past is because women of today have financial independence than in the past when many of them were not working. Women of those days prefer to please their husbands than women of today.

That is not only the reason, but it is the main reason.

Yes, this is the reason in one of her divorce numbers, now many career women with high salaries than her husband when there is a quarrel in the household women can be willing to divorce like there is no sense of sadness because financially enough do not need to rely on a husband.

There are many reasons, such as no longer understanding in the household, so what I know the divorce rate in my country is due to insufficient economic factors of the husband.

[uneng]

In previous decades and centuries, marriages used to last a whole life, but it doesn't mean couples were happier back then. It just mean the society was more strict about this matter, so couples felt forced to remain together until the end in order to not disappoint the society, and as consequence, to be approved by it. Many also married due to rational and logical reasons, and not for emotional reasons.

Nowadays, there is more freedom on this matter. People are free to marry, then to divorce, and then to marry again. They aren't judged by their actions like before. It encourages the kind of behavior you identified in the present days, where there isn't commitment or long term bonds between couples.

In every cases, I would say love is so rare nowadays like it used to be in past days... On this aspect, nothing changed.

[Franklyn-wood]

When you discover that people cherish pleasure than having genuine interest in theirselves, one's love is not involved, any other thing that contributed to the institution of a marriage will definitely break up once it is not longer in place, but perfect love concurrent all challenges that may come through in marriage, some are only getting attracted to their partner because of what they get as benefits and not because they have their mind into the relationship that leads to the marriage even at the worst condition.

Marriages today are not longer what it's use to be during our parents time, we have seen in several occasions where marriages crumble and seems as if the bothe partners have never seen each other before.
I believe everyone have different reasons why they enter in marriage, some to show off to the college or friends that they got married earlier than them, some because of Money or fame, beautiful, age, intimidation, pleasure, and lot more like that.
So by the time they Begin to see the reality of marriage, they wouldn't be able to stand because what the expected to see is not what they are seeing.

[passwordnow]

The number of divorced marriages nowadays is alarming and it got me thinking is it that people easily fall out of love or is that they aren't patient enough to work out issues. Maybe it is because they stop communicatin one of them cheated. Why are marriages failing today and what can we do to better?

You have said the possible reasons.

• Communication issue
• Access to divorce has been easy

And there's more but I think when there has been people who looks at marriage as if it's just some event of their lives, they're the ones who can easily file for divorce but they don't know how costly it is to get out of it. When both partners are understanding each other and they have the love for their relationship, it's only the last resort or even it's not the solution for any problem that they deal with. They forget the promises they have said in front of the union during the process because divorce process is at ease.

[Agbamoni]

What's even more telling is that most people in this thread seem to put the blame on women, saying they marry for money, dont respect their husbands...It's almost as if men are always innocent and somehow the ones who suffer the most in marriage. LOL

The reason is that the most divorced stories known to the world are practically women becoming the villain. Most victims of divorce are men since men have more to lose in divorce than women.

No offense, but only cowardly and irresponsible men blame their partners.

I would rather remain a coward than take the blame for a woman who is at fault in a relationship. If I'm the problem, fine, I will take the blame. I would be a coward to blame the woman.

Some marriages can't be fixed. Reconcile today, fight tomorrow. Such marriages will not last. The best is for both of them to go their separate ways.