Does a cheating woman develop the habit of cheating or it runs in the family?

[POPOLUV]

Does a cheating woman develop the habit of cheating while in the husband house due uncertainty that she might need and the husband is not capable of providing of or is in their nature to cheat or cheating runs in their family lineage because some times it marvel me to see that a married woman will just decide her own to cheat on her husband for know reason to hold on to  and before know it, a marriage that is not even a year, she will come up  with the idea of divorcing her husband.

When i brought this discussion among my colleagues, so many came with allot of supporting opinions that, woman cheating habit because it runs in the family lineage and why most of my colleagues who support on the motion that, woman do develop cheating habit while in the husband house are mostly the ladies, so i decede to make it open by creating the threat at once to sees reaction here and for everyone to learn too.

[Karl_3000]

Being in the woman lineage can contribute a lot because if her mother is cheating and she knows, she is having high tendency to also cheat.

But that is not all, there are some circumstances that women can cheat on her husband. A good example is when the husband is not having money and someone having money approach the woman. Some woman are tempted and if they have bad friends, the friend will say there is nothing there.

Some women cheat when they do not feel attached to their husband anymore. Like a marriage that is becoming broken.

Some women cheat because their husband is cheating.

The way life is also now that woman were very independent, it increases the probability of women that can cheat.

[Sticky Bomb]

Does a cheating woman develop the habit of cheating while in the husband house due uncertainty that she might need and the husband is not capable of providing of or is in their nature to cheat or cheating runs in their family lineage because some times it marvel me to see that a married woman will just decide her own to cheat on her husband for know reason to hold on to  and before know it, a marriage that is not even a year, she will come up  with the idea of divorcing her husband.

Men unintentionally think that the bulk of a woman's need ends in providing for her and the family and attending to her sexually. ladies have emotional needs as well and if not met may see her start detaching from the husband. Some men are sweet and lovely until they get married and they suddenly stop being intentional about loving the wife unconditionally. Women are emotional beings, if she is not getting that emotional satisfaction from the husband, there are chances she seeks it elsewhere.

Again there is nothing like cheating runs in the lineage. Cheating is learned, a girl who observed her mum cheat would definitely see it as a normal thing, unless she is naturally built differently.

When i brought this discussion among my colleagues, so many came with allot of supporting opinions that, woman cheating habit because it runs in the family lineage and why most of my colleagues who support on the motion that, woman do develop cheating habit while in the husband house are mostly the ladies, so i decede to make it open by creating the threat at once to sees reaction here and for everyone to learn too.

I don't agree to that, cheating is a conscious decision by a person. Another thing is that any habit a lady has built in herself from younger years like dating and sleeping with 3 men at a time, having a pet dad and all of that somehow follows them into marriage and if the husband isn't available or annoys her, she may explore alternative options as she used to when she was in her dating stage.

[Solodoski]

Firstly I don't think if a woman cheat, means it's runs in the family, and secondly I have never heard or any study shows that cheating runs in the genes so it can not be passed down to children or family members. In my opinion I think a cheating wife is just a promiscuous person and I believe she might have been doing it even before getting married, but the husband might not know or choose to overlook it and hoping she will change when they get married,  but unfortunately it's already her thing and it's not possible for a leopard to change its spot. That is just my take on this issue, but I will never agree that it's a family thing.

[Merit.s]

There's no way infidelity can run in a family because it's an act that's been practice. Any woman that cheats are husband cannot be satisfied sexually by one man and it wasn't in her husband's house that she learned it. It means that she love cheating and her husband isn't the first person that she has cheated in all the relationship that the had.

Lack of being satisfied with what you have can also make an unfaithful woman to cheat.

[Findingnemo]

A woman will be interested in an extramarital affair for many reason which is not just finance, but lack of love, care, quality time and etc, and when they feel like ignored and someone just fills that void then it ends up into cheating. And marriage can get bored if both of them are not mutual, even sex will become boring if it is not done between two partners, so if a woman feels lack of something then they need to communicate it first and if still the partner is not interested in changing anything then divorce before filling the void.

[Franctoshi]

Generally, Cheating is a woman's decision regardless of whatever reason that might lead a woman into cheating, it doesn't just happen by coincidence, it's pre-planned. There are cases of some women that cheating runs in their bloodine, and whereas some are lured into doing that due to their over being ambitious for material things or unsatisfactory needs or wants.

[Charles-Tim]

There's no way infidelity can run in a family because it's an act that's been practice.

I'm my country, some people still prefer to know the family of the wife very well before concluding on marrying her. I have seen people that said they can not marry someone that his mother have many husbands. Not at once, but she will leave one for another. I have seen some that have up to four husbands like that, but 2 ams 3 are more common. Although, that may not be seen as cheating, but it is very connected. But the environment matters a lot because cheating is common in western world and in many countries they colonized, but not their fault, women like independence and it is the main reason. Nothing can be done, nothing is absolutely perfect. As an issue is addressed, another one surfaced.

[Jewan420]

If you talk about cheating in divorce, then I would say it is a hereditary habit or lack of family education or lack of family morality. It is natural for a woman to grow up in the morality of her mother, because since childhood she has seen her mother and has been learning everything from her mother. So how a woman will behave after marriage depends mostly on the family. The more dear her father's house becomes after marriage, the more bitter her husband's house will be and it also causes divorce. And cheating is always a family habit, because a woman from an ideal family will never cheat on her husband and her family will not accept it.

There are several families in my area, out of which one family is notable. Even after 4-5 marriages, a woman keeps a secret relationship with another man, when her husband comes to know about this, her family and she demand a divorce. Of course, they get a big sum of money after every divorce. It is like a kind of family business for them.

[Pi-network314159]

This cheating of a thing is not only subjected to heritage alone, it is Also caused by many factors, which I believe that a woman may cheat due to bad friend. This bad friends can make a good woman turn bad simply because she exposes her marriage issues to her friend. Secondly a woman may cheat because of extreme poverty and lack of attention from the partner, but the main thing is that a woman who doesn't have cheating in her linage will never cheat despite having bad friend or high poverty rate.

The truth is that some people don't cheat in there lineage, but someone happens to fall a victim by cheating and from then the course begin to follow such linage, and eventually people from that linage begins to cheat in marriage, they don't intentional want to cheat though but that course will keep making them to cheat. So it's not ordinary rather spiritual. But at first it may be ordinary but when it becomes often then it likely a generational curses in that linage.

[DubemIfedigbo001]

When i brought this discussion among my colleagues, so many came with allot of supporting opinions that, woman cheating habit because it runs in the family lineage and why most of my colleagues who support on the motion that, woman do develop cheating habit while in the husband house are mostly the ladies, so i decede to make it open by creating the threat at once to sees reaction here and for everyone to learn too.

Why only women singled out?
I would've loved we are discussing about infidelity in marriage so as to be a more balanced discussion.

Anyways, women don't just develop this attitude when they're already married, they've the tendencies but have been hiding it under pretense in order to get married to the man before freely expressing their true nature. Some of them has history of being sex workers or call girls and such past exposure don't erase completely because of marriage, the desire starts crawling up with time.

I think any man should be more interested in knowing about the past life of a lady he wants to settle down with and ensure he can cope with the tendencies of such coming up in the future. If she couldn't keep to a guy in the past relationships, what makes you think she would remain faithful to only you in marriage?

[Zlantann]

Does a cheating woman develop the habit of cheating while in the husband house due uncertainty that she might need and the husband is not capable of providing of or is in their nature to cheat or cheating runs in their family lineage because some times it marvel me to see that a married woman will just decide her own to cheat on her husband for know reason to hold on to  and before know it, a marriage that is not even a year, she will come up  with the idea of divorcing her husband.

When i brought this discussion among my colleagues, so many came with allot of supporting opinions that, woman cheating habit because it runs in the family lineage and why most of my colleagues who support on the motion that, woman do develop cheating habit while in the husband house are mostly the ladies, so i decede to make it open by creating the threat at once to sees reaction here and for everyone to learn too.

Why would the case of women cheating be the topic of discussion every time? Infidelities by men are underplayed while women are always the target.

Having said that, women can cheat because of many factors. Financial problems, health challenges, peer pressure, and maybe upbringing might contribute to it. 

When families are experiencing financial problems due to the loss of a job and other factors, women might want to seek means to raise funds.

Some men face health problems that make them sexually inactive. Wives might want to seek satisfaction somewhere else.

The wrong company could also motivate people to cheat. When you are always among those who engage in such. You might be tempted to join them

A child who was raised in a home where parents are not faithful might end up developing the same behavior.

[Silikiem]

In as much as I think cheating is solely an individual choice or decision to make, but If we trace most cases of cheating among married women you’ll find out that it runs in the family’s blood or lineage in most of the regions especially in Africa. There have been several cases of women who cheats in their marriages and their mother had also did the same thing in years past so you begin to wonder if it runs through the family. But the truth is, infidelity in marriage especially among women has nothing to do with family blood but one’s personal decision.  so many things can make or influence women to take this decision to cheat in their marriages ranging from the environment they grew up as there are some environments where cheating in marriage is seen as a common thing among women. Another thing is sexual satisfaction probably their husband don’t satisfy them in bed or is totally always unavailable. Psychological effects also have a role to play here, social surroundings especially where most women are working they stand a chance of cheating.

[DanWalker]

When i brought this discussion among my colleagues, so many came with allot of supporting opinions that, woman cheating habit because it runs in the family lineage and why most of my colleagues who support on the motion that, woman do develop cheating habit while in the husband house are mostly the ladies, so i decede to make it open by creating the threat at once to sees reaction here and for everyone to learn too.

My question is, are these women cheaters and speaking from personal experience, or are they just giving their opinions based on assumption?

We all live very different lives, and most of us don't really know what its like to be in someone else's shoes. So we shouldn't jump to conclusions about all women just because of a few case we've seen.

To me, there are many reasons why someone cheats and you can't always blame it on their nature, family, environment, or gender.

[Taricoins]

Firstly I don't think if a woman cheat, means it's runs in the family, and secondly I have never heard or any study shows that cheating runs in the genes so it can not be passed down to children or family members. In my opinion I think a cheating wife is just a promiscuous person and I believe she might have been doing it even before getting married, but the husband might not know or choose to overlook it and hoping she will change when they get married,  but unfortunately it's already her thing and it's not possible for a leopard to change its spot. That is just my take on this issue, but I will never agree that it's a family thing.

Yeah, I agree with you, cheating isn't by a stretch inherited by a woman, the one most susceptible to being inherited are those with the excessive sexual drive (Nymphomaniacs) studies show that this phenomenon is not transfered as a gene but by some traits from host parent. Cheating as a whole can only occur from external influences like the inability of a partner to cope with that drive.

[Sammye3]

I really do not believe in family curses like must people say. Every individual has a mind of their own that is not controlled by someone else, but it's influenced by what they see and the kind of information they listen to. A woman is not born a cheat, there are several factors that will make a woman cheat, which could be:

1. Infidelity on the man's side
2. Maltreatment
3. Values not aligning and constant misunderstandings.
4. Fights and disagreements and many others.

Both parties in question have an involvement in this result, so it should not addressed based on the cheating aspect alone but what caused it.

[Anthony Bill]

I think is in some family blood and no matter how wealthy the man is or the woman are he or she will definitely involve in cheating on behalf of the husband or wife. Some women learn it from their bad friends in the same environment because they never told them is a bad character every woman or man don't want to associate with in the society.

[Shineup]

With my little understanding on this cheating women issues, I think some it runs in their bloodline, some develope the habit, while some learn it from a bad friend, and some does it because of their husband as a pay back, but little did they know, no one really cares about men cheating unless their wife, but everyone cares about a cheating wife, the ones that it runs in their family, are the ones that no matter how rich the husband might be she must cheat on him, and they have no remorse even after being caught, the only ones that sees it as a bad habit are the ones that was influenced by pair pressure, but why would one cheat while being in a marriage life, and again those men that is fully aware that a particular woman is married and went ahead to sleep with the woman, what exactly is the color of their problem, and trust me these set of men are the ones that suspect their wife in every move they make, while they can't take their eyes out of another man's wife.

[hafiztalha]

I will never agree that cheating runs in women's families.  It is a personal choice both men and women can develop this behaviour for multiple reasons. It is true and acceptable that family environment can influence someone's values and attitude towards relationships. But it is not something that determines their future behaviour. Similarly, problems in a marriage can also contribute to dissatisfaction. But nothing can justify betrayal.

There are other options then cheating like communicating, counselling, separation or divorce. It is also that we cannot assume that if a woman is asking for a divorce mean that she has cheated because there might be multiple reason for ending a marriage. Instead of blaming women or the family lineage, it is more important to focus on an individual character, emotional maturity and how the person handles problems or situations in a relationship

[Franklyn-wood]

Being in the woman lineage can contribute a lot because if her mother is cheating and she knows, she is having high tendency to also cheat.

But that is not all, there are some circumstances that women can cheat on her husband. A good example is when the husband is not having money and someone having money approach the woman. Some woman are tempted and if they have bad friends, the friend will say there is nothing there.

Some women cheat when they do not feel attached to their husband anymore. Like a marriage that is becoming broken.

Some women cheat because their husband is cheating.

The way life is also now that woman were very independent, it increases the probability of women that can cheat.

There are a lot of things that makes a woman to cheat which some have been mentioned as it is something very rampered now in the women fold. Woman now are not ready to endure any form of pains and suffer with a man till everything become better for them.
Pear group among the women forks are major reason why some women are can continue been submitted to there husbands.
Some are looking for space to be in control of there life's and not submissive to any man as a wife mostly when they are financially ok.