What proof do you have that you actually have €60k on Revolut?
Just as you don't want to go first, they may also refuse to go first and pay you, especially since you created your account on the forum today and this is your first post.
You also said that you use escrow and that "trusted works for you." However, no one can simply trust an escrow account you use on Telegram, because it could be a fake account.
There are trusted escrow providers on this forum that any member can use:https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=5047302I don't recommend anyone trust an unknown escrow provider. Avoid fake accounts. You should contact these escrow providers through their Bitcointalk accounts first.