Living as an outsider inside society

[Cleanshit]

Yo an extent, it is difficult to cope and manage with such class or people or individuals that you don't align with, both in character and otherwise. No matter how hard you try to just act normal and live your life by interacting with them as if nothing is wrong, the more it pisses you off and you might get insane some day.

But what can you do? It's just so painful that there are so many insane leaders that make life not cool around. And sometimes, your closest neighbors. Well, you could live your life, and avoid them since you dont agree. Because trying to relate with them and act as nothing is wrong might cause serious problem someday. And for the government, since we can't change them, we might as well sit back and fight out lives out, living a peaceful and normal lives while we wait for the next elections.

For real because living among people whose values and behavior are completely different from yours can sometimes be frustrating, I believe avoiding unnecessary conflict doesn’t mean we have to isolate ourselves from everyone we disagree with. We can maintain our principles, set healthy boundaries and still learn coexist with different kind of people so not every one around us we share our opinions and values with and that part of life.

[BTC FutureKing]

Man is a creature and needs other people to live.Every human being has a part but that does not mean that they live according to the thoughts and words of others.Man should have good relations with people respect everyone and share the pain of others but at the same time he should also advance his own thoughts his own choices and his own principles.We should avoid saying good things with our words in fact while living among people we should live our own identity identity developed and principles of life.Be good to other people but do not make yourself a slave to the thoughts of others.

[icebar]

Being citizens of the same country does not mean that everyone will have the same opinions and lifestyle. Completely isolating oneself due to these distances is not a good solution. If one is to build relationships with people who are steadfast in their beliefs and principles, and who know how to respect each other's opinions.

Electing leaders is not our only responsibility to society. It is also our responsibility to do good from our own position and to respect the opinions of others, even if they do not agree with our own. Standing by a neighbor's side in times of danger, even if you do not like their political ideology, may be a sign of a good citizen.

[Doll2233]

Right now we're living in a time where its more important for the government to be out of our lives than in our lives because they have caused most of the problems and especially caused people to feel like outsiders in their own home. Directly solving problems with your own two hands is where we are at today in society because we cannot rely on them to help and have been counting on them to be corrupt and solely do what is self-serving with very little positive benefits.

Finding our place in society means firstly knowing your self as what you want out of life, secondly figuring out how it is you want your virtues and values to be implemented in this world in terms of your daily life as your job, your friends, your education (including helping others with theirs), church, and so on. That will help you fit in. And furthermore, you don't necessarily have the option to fit in where you're living and it turns out since the world has billions of people you can find somewhere that you can fit in. If you tell me about your virtues and values maybe we could help with that idea.

It is true that people should learn to solve a problem instead of just depending on the government to solve everything for them but the government staying out of our life is not the only solution that they have. There are problems that cannot be solved by a person such as health care problems, unemployment or insecurity or if there is no proper infrastructure. These issues need proper policies to be solved. The problem is not government in part of people's life but thing is that they have failed to make their responsibilities. In any community people should live with dignity without being forcing them to start from somewhere else. It is important to have personal responsibilities but that does not mean that is the excuse for the government to escape there responsibility and accountability

[Byebyebtc]

In this generation, I don't think countrymen shear the same belief or value, majority of individuals live a personal life, they do and respect what is only valuable to them, most of them don't even vote anymore.

I feel this is a generation where shared values and beliefs are fading away, consider how homosexuality has been normalized every where, no one Cares, every one life as they like,

Sharing the same country but not belief, personality, value and any other thing you can think of, the world is not like before anymore, and it's actually not a good thing

[Sticky Bomb]

Sometimes being an outsider is not just about where we live but also about how we define our place among others. You may not share the values of the majority but that does not mean that there is nothing to learn from the people around you. Even in an environment you disagree with, there may be people whose potential are overlooked just because they don’t think or express themselves just the way you do.

So I feel it best to just maintain your principles without becoming so detached that you stop seeing people as individuals instead of judging them by their environment.

In this life you must choose between focusing on where you're going to or going to where you're focusing at. You cannot do both at the same time and make any meaning out of your life. You must give less relevance to involvement with people you cannot relate with their ideology and way of life. That's the best way to loose yourself and go on to becoming something you don't recognize or didn't plan for. You should reduce interactions with people you're not compatible with to the barest minimum and replace them with people that share your vision whether you meet them physically or virtually.

You can learn from anyone by observing them or listening to them speak, but you must not allow close relationship with anyone your personal values doesn't align with.

[Tony Adams]

There are many people in society who may not agree with political thoughts, policies, values or decisions. But because of this, they should not keep themselves alone, rather it is important for them to interact with people in society and complete social activities. However, if being alone at home creates a feeling where one feels completely helpless, then interacting with people does not feel very lonely. There may be people from different professions in society, their thoughts may be different, but still, if one follows one's beliefs and conscience, one can survive in society. However, a person may not agree with the opinions of others in society, but that person also lives in society and tries to maintain his own values.

[Doan9269]

Being citizens of the same country does not mean that everyone will have the same opinions and lifestyle. Completely isolating oneself due to these distances is not a good solution. If one is to build relationships with people who are steadfast in their beliefs and principles, and who know how to respect each other's opinions.

We have to be part of what is happening in our Society; this will show more about our commitment to building it to a desired standard and working together towards a common goal. We are not always to be found agitating against the leaders, but instead to be supportive and considerate, as we always reason along with them. Every one of us has one or two responsibilities to take as a member of a society, not even when we wait for the government to intervene before we can do something in our own capacity for development.

[Joy- maker]

Much is said in this forum section about the importance of the government in our lives, and how wonderful it's for citizens to choose their leaders.

However, what about those citizens who don't feel linked to this society? Does anyone feel to not share the same principles, values and common sense of your countrymen? How to live in a society you don't develop any bonds with your leaders and with the people who put them there?

Do you know how it feels to be a cuckoo in the nest?

As a citizen of a country I don't even feel like participating in whatever is going on in country. As a matter of fact, I'm living outside the society because the peoples way of thinking is different from mine.

I don't even vote during elections because, I believe the people don't know what they want. How can a president perform terribly during his first term in office yet a group of people still wants him return for a second term simply because they belong to the same tribe and share the same religion.

However, I won't be surprised if the person in question return back to office for a second term. People are free to sell their votes for peanuts, and they should also be ready to face the consequences for their ignorance.

[Halifat]

We have to be part of what is happening in our Society; this will show more about our commitment to building it to a desired standard and working together towards a common goal. We are not always to be found agitating against the leaders, but instead to be supportive and considerate, as we always reason along with them. Every one of us has one or two responsibilities to take as a member of a society, not even when we wait for the government to intervene before we can do something in our own capacity for development.

Most at times our little effort is expected to be seeing before the government can even intervene, agitating on things we can be able to fix and decided to wait for the government to fix it, definitely we are not planning to develop our Society. The government is not only for your own society, so assisting government by putting more effort then they will find it very easy to lift you up, there are important roles that the citizens need to do when it comes to developing a society, sanitation should also be done by government but the people in that community have something to offer to the government before they can do it, by making proper that everything is being collected in one particular place.