Fair point, so here's a straight answer.So far none of our swaps has been asked for KYC. It can happen with larger amounts, because the exchange that runs the swap does its own checks. If that ever happens and you say no, your deposit goes back to you, minus the network fee. That's written in our terms, not just a forum promise.
Stolen coins or coins from sanctioned addresses are a different story. We don't accept them, and no, they don't get refunded with no questions asked. Every exchange blocks those, and so do we. We're not here to clean dirty coins.
You're right that claims are cheap. BitList ran its own test swap through us on 2 November and published it with the on-chain proofs:
https://bitlist.co/service/noxswapBetter yet, test it yourself. Do a swap, any pair you like, and post here how it went,
good or bad.
I'd honestly like to see your review in this thread.