Have you ever agreed to something that you really wanted to say no to? There are many people who agree against their will for fear of hurting others or being bad to them. We often take on responsibilities to keep others happy, which are very difficult for us to fulfill. As a result, many people experience mental stress and its impact on their personal lives. Respectfully refusing a request is also a great social skill.
Remember:
1. Do not take on any responsibility beyond your capabilities, which is never possible for you.
2. You politely tell him, you convince him that you cannot do this job perfectly.
3. It is not good to change your decision due to pressure from others.
4. Do not always think of yourself as weak and cheap.
What do you think? Why do people often agree to what others say against their will, even after understanding it?
You should always put yourself first in any situation you find yourself in this life. I’ve learned how to say no because you cannot always say yes to every request for help or anything that people need you. We are all human, and there are some things we cannot do.
It’s not about work, but when people need my support, I always give them, but whenever you find yourself struggling or need a financial help, that’s when you will realise how important it is to prioritise yourself in every aspect of life.
I don’t care what people think when I choose not to give, I don’t care if you think I don’t want to help you. Sometimes you may feel bad for not giving to others, but that’s the right thing. People can take you for granted and only remember your existence when they need your help. Don’t sacrifice yourself only to please others.
