Ask me anything about being a sex addict. (Serious thread)

[Confessions]

Do you need the constant flow of new women to prove something to yourself?

I think deep down, yes. I feel like crap afterwards usually.  But it's almost like a drug.

What is it you're trying to prove to yourself?

I really do not know.  I wish I did.

I have an awesome family, but I cannot seem to control this part of my life. 

[eid]

Do you need the constant flow of new women to prove something to yourself?

I think deep down, yes. I feel like crap afterwards usually.  But it's almost like a drug.

What is it you're trying to prove to yourself?

I really do not know.  I wish I did.

I have an awesome family, but I cannot seem to control this part of my life. 

You mentioned earlier that as a youth, you had very low confidence. I wonder how you thought about yourself.

Then you discovered sex and it made you feel good about yourself. I'd imagine that could be very addicting. Though ultimately futile and destructive.

How do you view women in general? Have you ever had a meaningful relationship with one?

[Confessions]

Do you need the constant flow of new women to prove something to yourself?

I think deep down, yes. I feel like crap afterwards usually.  But it's almost like a drug.

What is it you're trying to prove to yourself?

I really do not know.  I wish I did.

I have an awesome family, but I cannot seem to control this part of my life. 

You mentioned earlier that as a youth, you had very low confidence. I wonder how you thought about yourself.

Then you discovered sex and it made you feel good about yourself. I'd imagine that could be very addicting. Though ultimately futile and destructive.

How do you view women in general? Have you ever had a meaningful relationship with one?

I think my self confidence as a youth was a factor.  I was very shy, and had a hard time talking to people in general.

I view women more as objects than people, honestly.  I have had relationships, but have cheated each and every time.  My relationships are generally not great, I used to have major jealously issues, but that has stopped as of late. 

[bitgeek]

I've read recently that some scientists discovered people who watch a lot of porn have smaller brains than others, because the part responsible for motivation doesn't develop. You can look it up online.
What's your opinion?

[bluefirecorp]

Is there a huge difference in quality between masturbation vs sex? Does sex satisfy your addiction more than just masturbation?

[Confessions]

I've read recently that some scientists discovered people who watch a lot of porn have smaller brains than others, because the part responsible for motivation doesn't develop. You can look it up online.
What's your opinion?

I am pretty intelligent, I work in a field where I have to be pretty bright.  My opinion is that its not a smaller brain capacity, but it may be that the person who watches a lot of porn is nonstop thinking about porn, as opposed to other things.

[eid]

I think my self confidence as a youth was a factor.  I was very shy, and had a hard time talking to people in general.

I view women more as objects than people, honestly.  I have had relationships, but have cheated each and every time.  My relationships are generally not great, I used to have major jealously issues, but that has stopped as of late.  

I used to have problems with jealousy too. It stemmed from my belief that everyone was better than me. So they could come along and take her from me any time they desired.
I also went through addictions trying to blot out this hideous self-hatred. But of course this just creates a huge aversion in your mind, for your mind (or its contents). In the end things only started to improve when I began to face my fears.

It's amazing how quickly fears disappear when you look at them directly.

I guess it's easier for you to have meaningless sexual encounters than go through the hard work of having a proper relationship and all the fear that entails?
But you're giving up so much to your fear :/




Have you thought about getting some help to learn how to deal with stuff?

[Confessions]

Is there a huge difference in quality between masturbation vs sex? Does sex satisfy your addiction more than just masturbation?

I get more pleasure at the thought of sexing a new woman.  The actual process though, is about the same. 

[Confessions]

I think my self confidence as a youth was a factor.  I was very shy, and had a hard time talking to people in general.

I view women more as objects than people, honestly.  I have had relationships, but have cheated each and every time.  My relationships are generally not great, I used to have major jealously issues, but that has stopped as of late.  

I used to have problems with jealousy too. It stemmed from my belief that everyone was better than me. So they could come along and take her from me any time they desired.
I also went through addictions trying to blot out this hideous self-hatred. But of course this just creates a huge aversion in your mind, for your mind (or its contents). In the end things only started to improve when I began to face my fears.

It's amazing how quickly fears disappear when you look at them directly.

I guess it's easier for you to have meaningless sexual encounters than go through the hard work of having a proper relationship and all the fear that entails?
But you're giving up so much to your fear :/




Have you thought about getting some help to learn how to deal with stuff?

I want to stop, I am looking into getting help professionally with this, actually.

[eid]

I think my self confidence as a youth was a factor.  I was very shy, and had a hard time talking to people in general.

I view women more as objects than people, honestly.  I have had relationships, but have cheated each and every time.  My relationships are generally not great, I used to have major jealously issues, but that has stopped as of late.  

I used to have problems with jealousy too. It stemmed from my belief that everyone was better than me. So they could come along and take her from me any time they desired.
I also went through addictions trying to blot out this hideous self-hatred. But of course this just creates a huge aversion in your mind, for your mind (or its contents). In the end things only started to improve when I began to face my fears.

It's amazing how quickly fears disappear when you look at them directly.

I guess it's easier for you to have meaningless sexual encounters than go through the hard work of having a proper relationship and all the fear that entails?
But you're giving up so much to your fear :/




Have you thought about getting some help to learn how to deal with stuff?

I want to stop, I am looking into getting help professionally with this, actually.

Good. I'm sure you won't regret it.

[Confessions]

I think my self confidence as a youth was a factor.  I was very shy, and had a hard time talking to people in general.

I view women more as objects than people, honestly.  I have had relationships, but have cheated each and every time.  My relationships are generally not great, I used to have major jealously issues, but that has stopped as of late.  

I used to have problems with jealousy too. It stemmed from my belief that everyone was better than me. So they could come along and take her from me any time they desired.
I also went through addictions trying to blot out this hideous self-hatred. But of course this just creates a huge aversion in your mind, for your mind (or its contents). In the end things only started to improve when I began to face my fears.

It's amazing how quickly fears disappear when you look at them directly.

I guess it's easier for you to have meaningless sexual encounters than go through the hard work of having a proper relationship and all the fear that entails?
But you're giving up so much to your fear :/




Have you thought about getting some help to learn how to deal with stuff?

I want to stop, I am looking into getting help professionally with this, actually.

Good. I'm sure you won't regret it.

I know I won't.  As soon as I have the funds to see a professional, I will be going. 

[bitgeek]

This topic is really interesting to read. I have some more questions.
Have you ever dated another sex addict?
What if you met a woman who likes it as much as you do? Could you stop chasing other women and just have fun with her?

[Confessions]

This topic is really interesting to read. I have some more questions.
Have you ever dated another sex addict?
What if you met a woman who likes it as much as you do? Could you stop chasing other women and just have fun with her?

I currently am meeting a woman like me, but its still not enough, as I tire of seeing the same person all of the time.  She does anything I ask or want, no limits.  She sees a lot of men herself, and we have done group things together. 

However, I am not happy with just her.  Even knowing I can do anything I want with her, at any time, it still doesn't fill my need or desire. 

[eid]

This topic is really interesting to read. I have some more questions.
Have you ever dated another sex addict?
What if you met a woman who likes it as much as you do? Could you stop chasing other women and just have fun with her?

I currently am meeting a woman like me, but its still not enough, as I tire of seeing the same person all of the time.  She does anything I ask or want, no limits.  She sees a lot of men herself, and we have done group things together.  

However, I am not happy with just her.  Even knowing I can do anything I want with her, at any time, it still doesn't fill my need or desire.  

Could you have a meaningful relationship with someone and agree to have other sexual partners? Monogamy isn’t for everyone (excuse the pun).

I mean, apart from the addiction, you may just have a very high sexual drive.

[Confessions]

This topic is really interesting to read. I have some more questions.
Have you ever dated another sex addict?
What if you met a woman who likes it as much as you do? Could you stop chasing other women and just have fun with her?

I currently am meeting a woman like me, but its still not enough, as I tire of seeing the same person all of the time.  She does anything I ask or want, no limits.  She sees a lot of men herself, and we have done group things together.  

However, I am not happy with just her.  Even knowing I can do anything I want with her, at any time, it still doesn't fill my need or desire.  

Could you have a meaningful relationship with someone and agree to have other sexual partners? Monogamy isn’t for everyone (excuse the pun).

I mean, apart from the addiction, you may just have a very high sexual driver.

That might work.  In the past though, even when I was with someone, it was more of the thrill of someone new, and I would completely lose interest in the person I was with, regardless of how much I was attracted to her.

[Este Nuno]

Do you find yourself deceiving new women you meet? As in telling them you're interested in a relationship and not just sex.

Where do you meet most of these new women you're constantly pursuing?

Do you think that if you were less hung you would also have less interest in sex with new partners constantly? Is part of your motivation in effect 'showing off' to all these new women?

[nickenburg]

Hey op my question's for you:

Have you had any girl partner's that where also interested in bitcoins?
Are you rich?
How do you pickup girls?

Thanks

[rohnearner]

Just few questions I have for now
1 How old are you?
2 If you maintained the count would you like to tell how many sex encountered you are indulged into till date. [approx if not totally accurate]
3. At what age you had your fist sex encounter.

[bitgeek]

Just few questions I have for now
1 How old are you?
2 If you maintained the count would you like to tell how many sex encountered you are indulged into till date. [approx if not totally accurate]
3. At what age you had your fist sex encounter.

Haven't you read the topic? He said he was 17.

[rohnearner]

Just few questions I have for now
1 How old are you?
2 If you maintained the count would you like to tell how many sex encountered you are indulged into till date. [approx if not totally accurate]
3. At what age you had your fist sex encounter.

Haven't you read the topic? He said he was 17.

There are two other questions ..!
There are so many stupid question asked in the thread , so its better to ask question thats answer you want to get I don't want to read all of them because  many of them are totally stupid according to me..! You might call these stupid too , but its your opinion  like mine..!