Ask me anything about being a sex addict. (Serious thread)

[eid]

I want to change because I have a family, and obviously this cuts into my ability to have a fulfilling relationship.

I think I misunderstood you earlier when you mentioned your family. Just to be clear, you have a wife/gf and child?

are u trying to have a babby repeatedly without first asking the niehgobrs persmission?

 As of the last few years, I have been getting more into not finishing in a woman, and more into finishing places that a lot of women find degrading.  Face, ass, etc.

This is interesting, especially coupled with what you said about seeing women as objects. There seems to be some strong misogyny in your relationship to women. Do you agree with that? If so, any idea where that may originate?


p.s. the only way I know how to multi-quote here is to open 2 tabs so I can copy-paste into the reply box.

[Confessions]

most people here are sex addicts. if you stop ejaculating for 7 days, you would probably go nuts.

I strongly disagree with this.  Thats like saying most people are drug addicts, because they like to smoke weed.  An addict is completely different than someone who can control their urges.

The longest I have gone without sex and/or masturbation in the last 10 years is probably 36 hours.  

Yeah there's a big difference between a sex addict and not ejaculating for a while. It's not the orgasm that the sex addict craves, it's the actual sex with new women(or men in some cases).

Which brings up another question, have you ever met a woman who you thought was a sex addict as well?

As stated before, I am currently seeing a woman who is a sex addict as well. 

The sex with new women is definitely the thrill.  I have received oral from a man before, as well, although I do not consider myself bi or gay.  To me, it was just another way to get a release.

Wow you surprise me , only 36 hours.. So If you had sex even with a man and enjoyed It, then probably It's all about excitement for you, but If man excited you I would say you could be bi, because straight guys just wouldn't do that probably. And why would you want "another sex addict" I don't think there is any difference between sex addict who is having sex and  normal horny people who wants sex, or you want to have sex addict to be couple with?

I did not enjoy the man part, especially right after.  Was very awkward.

And I didnt seek out another sex addict, she just happened to be one.  I could care less about the person I am sleeping with's status, etc.

[gagalady]

Ok, so you have family and kids, and you are addicted to sex? What things do you enjoy in your life without sex and Is there any moments when you do not think about sex? And with the addict part, you 100% sure you want to lose your addiction or you are not sure?

[Confessions]

I want to change because I have a family, and obviously this cuts into my ability to have a fulfilling relationship.

I think I misunderstood you earlier when you mentioned your family. Just to be clear, you have a wife/gf and child?

are u trying to have a babby repeatedly without first asking the niehgobrs persmission?

 As of the last few years, I have been getting more into not finishing in a woman, and more into finishing places that a lot of women find degrading.  Face, ass, etc.

This is interesting, especially coupled with what you said about seeing women as objects. There seems to be some strong misogyny in your relationship to women. Do you agree with that? If so, any idea where that may originate?


p.s. the only way I know how to multi-quote here is to open 2 tabs so I can copy-paste into the reply box.

Yes, I have a significant other, and a child with her.  She knows I have an issue, but not the full extent.  

I think I agree with the misogyny.  It stems from not being popular in school, and having a hard time making friends.  Now I feel like I can take revenge on women because of it.  I have also sought out people who I did not get along with in school, and seduced their wives/gfs.  

Ok, so you have family and kids, and you are addicted to sex? What things do you enjoy in your life without sex and Is there any moments when you do not think about sex? And with the addict part, you 100% sure you want to lose your addiction or you are not sure?

I am sure I want to stop.  200%

I am into sports pretty heavily in life. But sex outweighs all, specifically with random new people.

[rohnearner]

Just few questions I have for now
1 How old are you?
2 If you maintained the count would you like to tell how many sex encountered you are indulged into till date. [approx if not totally accurate]
3. At what age you had your fist sex encounter.

Most accurate count I can come up with is around 150. That's not an exaggeration. It may be a low count also.

Ok so you had sex with 150+ women..! thats a huge number and I read your early posts on this thread where you said you are not much cautious about your safety during sex.... I must say " Not a good choice "

I am between 25-35.  I prefer not to name exact age, as I want tostay annon.

Isn't this ask me anything thread , and you claimed you'll answer everything honestly

Surprisingly most would agree to hook up again, regardless of tthem knowing by then that all I wanted was to have sex,

Not so surprised because that exactly what they wanted too you are not the only sex addict on this planet.

[Confessions]

Just few questions I have for now
1 How old are you?
2 If you maintained the count would you like to tell how many sex encountered you are indulged into till date. [approx if not totally accurate]
3. At what age you had your fist sex encounter.

Most accurate count I can come up with is around 150. That's not an exaggeration. It may be a low count also.

Ok so you had sex with 150+ women..! thats a huge number and I read your early posts on this thread where you said you are not much cautious about your safety during sex.... I must say " Not a good choice "

I am between 25-35.  I prefer not to name exact age, as I want tostay annon.

Isn't this ask me anything thread , and you claimed you'll answer everything honestly

Surprisingly most would agree to hook up again, regardless of tthem knowing by then that all I wanted was to have sex,

Not so surprised because that exactly what they wanted too you are not the only sex addict on this planet.

I will answer honestly but I will not reveal info that may reveal who I am.  If you can't handle that, that is your problem.  You may stop reading if thats an issue.

[gagalady]

With what things you are unhappy in your life without sex? Do you have any dreams? And are you self confident or you have communicating problems. Or what problems you have without sex or are unhappy with and would like to change?

[Bitcoin Magazine]

Ok, so you have family and kids, and you are addicted to sex? What things do you enjoy in your life without sex and Is there any moments when you do not think about sex? And with the addict part, you 100% sure you want to lose your addiction or you are not sure?

it's not sex he's worrying about.  it's with random people.  he's obviously the Devil

[eid]

I want to change because I have a family, and obviously this cuts into my ability to have a fulfilling relationship.

I think I misunderstood you earlier when you mentioned your family. Just to be clear, you have a wife/gf and child?

are u trying to have a babby repeatedly without first asking the niehgobrs persmission?

 As of the last few years, I have been getting more into not finishing in a woman, and more into finishing places that a lot of women find degrading.  Face, ass, etc.

This is interesting, especially coupled with what you said about seeing women as objects. There seems to be some strong misogyny in your relationship to women. Do you agree with that? If so, any idea where that may originate?


p.s. the only way I know how to multi-quote here is to open 2 tabs so I can copy-paste into the reply box.

Yes, I have a significant other, and a child with her.  She knows I have an issue, but not the full extent.  

I think I agree with the misogyny.  It stems from not being popular in school, and having a hard time making friends.  Now I feel like I can take revenge on women because of it.  I have also sought out people who I did not get along with in school, and seduced their wives/gfs.

Yes I can understand that. Being unpopular in school  is very dis-empowering. Probably more so from girls. It also explains why you're unconcerned about lying to them to get what you want. You might even enjoy that aspect? It sounds like to some extent this is all about regaining your power as a person/ego.

I have similar tendencies (misogyny) myself which I've only recently realised the full extent of. It's kind of sad really; to have such a negative relationship to half the human race :/

[eid]

Ok, so you have family and kids, and you are addicted to sex? What things do you enjoy in your life without sex and Is there any moments when you do not think about sex? And with the addict part, you 100% sure you want to lose your addiction or you are not sure?

it's not sex he's worrying about.  it's with random people.  he's obviously the Devil

 

[gagalady]

Ok, so you have family and kids, and you are addicted to sex? What things do you enjoy in your life without sex and Is there any moments when you do not think about sex? And with the addict part, you 100% sure you want to lose your addiction or you are not sure?

it's not sex he's worrying about.  it's with random people.  he's obviously the Devil

 

If talking about random people, I again see big money there. You could make porn videos where you find random person on the street and offer him sex for $5k and he will likely accept It. You put those videos on porn sites and you make very good money, but that's not the point probably. 

[Confessions]

With what things you are unhappy in your life without sex? Do you have any dreams? And are you self confident or you have communicating problems. Or what problems you have without sex or are unhappy with and would like to change?

I am still struggling with self esteem, but sex fixes that, at least during it.  I think knowing that I can still get a woman to sleep with me makes me feel awesome, then after I feel like crap because I know the person I am with I love, and I am destroying my relationship.

Ok, so you have family and kids, and you are addicted to sex? What things do you enjoy in your life without sex and Is there any moments when you do not think about sex? And with the addict part, you 100% sure you want to lose your addiction or you are not sure?

it's not sex he's worrying about.  it's with random people.  he's obviously the Devil

Obviously   

I want to change because I have a family, and obviously this cuts into my ability to have a fulfilling relationship.

I think I misunderstood you earlier when you mentioned your family. Just to be clear, you have a wife/gf and child?

are u trying to have a babby repeatedly without first asking the niehgobrs persmission?

 As of the last few years, I have been getting more into not finishing in a woman, and more into finishing places that a lot of women find degrading.  Face, ass, etc.

This is interesting, especially coupled with what you said about seeing women as objects. There seems to be some strong misogyny in your relationship to women. Do you agree with that? If so, any idea where that may originate?


p.s. the only way I know how to multi-quote here is to open 2 tabs so I can copy-paste into the reply box.

Yes, I have a significant other, and a child with her.  She knows I have an issue, but not the full extent.  

I think I agree with the misogyny.  It stems from not being popular in school, and having a hard time making friends.  Now I feel like I can take revenge on women because of it.  I have also sought out people who I did not get along with in school, and seduced their wives/gfs.

Yes I can understand that. Being unpopular in school  is very dis-empowering. Probably more so from girls. It also explains why you're unconcerned about lying to them to get what you want. You might even enjoy that aspect? It sounds like to some extent this is all about regaining your power as a person/ego.

I have similar tendencies (misogyny) myself which I've only recently realised the full extent of. It's kind of sad really; to have such a negative relationship to half the human race :/

I do enjoy the aspect of being able to say whatever I need to say to get a woman to get sexual.  It's almost a pride thing, that I am able to do this. 

Ok, so you have family and kids, and you are addicted to sex? What things do you enjoy in your life without sex and Is there any moments when you do not think about sex? And with the addict part, you 100% sure you want to lose your addiction or you are not sure?

it's not sex he's worrying about.  it's with random people.  he's obviously the Devil

 

If talking about random people, I again see big money there. You could make porn videos where you find random person on the street and offer him sex for $5k and he will likely accept It. You put those videos on porn sites and you make very good money, but that's not the point probably. 

I have been asked why I didnt get into porn by many partners.  Until a few years ago, I thought I was average, since watching porn will get you a misguided image of what average is.  I was under the impression that when I was told I was very large, it was just a lie.  I now know that I am well above average. 

Doing porn for men is not a well paying job, unless you are doing gay porn.  I am not willing to go that far, as of yet. 

[Bitcoin Magazine]

are u on a drug like Adderall or dexedrine?  cause i know those drugs gave me the evil sex having powers meth users have.

[Confessions]

are u on a drug like Adderall or dexedrine?  cause i know those drugs gave me the evil sex having powers meth users have.

No, I am not on any type of drug, or prescription drug, at all.

[Confessions]

Up all night tonight, bump for questions.

[radog]

Why are you confessing on a forum?

[Confessions]

Why are you confessing on a forum?

Why do people post in IAMA on reddit?  Because I can talk annon here, and it is interesting.

[radog]

Do you easily become angry or scream/argue with those you care about?

[Confessions]

Do you easily become angry or scream/argue with those you care about?

I used to.  I am very laid back now, and my quality of life and stress level has went down significantly since.

[radog]

Have you ever been checked by a doctor for bipolar/compulsive/obsessive disorders? Do you take drugs of any kind?