I would suggest Bitstamp.net
Tried to fund my bitstamp account with € via SEPA and my bank called me telling me they chanceled the transaction as the bank account's owner is known for being part of a fraud group. Don't know what to think of it. Used bitcoin.de instead.
Funny, same thing told a bank to someone regarding mtgox in the past and they asked him if he is really sure to send funds to them. He agreed and few weeks later he knew that his bank was right and mtgox was indeed a scam
Anyway your bank should just do what their customers want, not what they want.
I would directly contact them and say they should transfer my money immediately or I would close my account there.
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