Sure, but my question was; is there anything that someone with 51% of the network can do that someone with 49% of it can't?
Any miner can attempt to produce a private chain, and release it if it outpaces the network in work done. This chain would then displace the main chain. Hashrate increases the probability, but there is a discontinuity above 50% (because you become the majority).
Imagine a network with a total of 100 hashes per second. The real network is not actually constant hashrate, but it's easier to explain with figures.
With 48% of that network, you produce 48H/s, while the rest of the network produces 52H/s.
A luck streak could mean that you produce blocks faster than everyone else for a bit. It's random, after all. You won't know in advance that you will win, but you have a reasonably high chance. The honest network mines on average about 8% faster than you. (52/40)*100 ~= 1.08.
With 52%, you have 52H/s while everyone else has 48H/s. You mine on average 8% faster than them.
You produce blocks faster on average. It might take a day, or a week, or a month, for statistical fluctuations to average out; but eventually you win (so long as you can maintain 52%).
And so you can mine every future block. Just ignore anyone else's blocks but your own, and only mine on yours.