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I'm sure there's a way to do it. just it would take the whole day to find. it just that all my btc is on the adddress and ill be loosing 0.1 per day till its refuded
Well, technically you can try to double spend the initial transaction by creating a new one. You will have a hard time to get your TX broadcasted to the miners though. Most nodes will not relay a transaction that is spending an input that is allready part of a known transaction (confirmed or not does not matter).
You would also need to export the needed private key(s) from bc.i into another wallet in order to create the TX in the first place.
I have no idea why you would not pay a fee for a TX that is vitaly important to you, but everything you can do now is very messy and might result in more problems.