You are a newbie and you want people to send you payment first... And also you are not accepting escrow. WOW! What an offer!
You must except escrow for dealing with the members on this forum. While using escrow , members feel safe and secure to deal with any members .
And no one will go first on this forum as you are a newbie here. So escrow is must.
Here are two examples on why I'm leaving bitcointalk. This place just hurts my head these days. For whatever reason either of you missed the LARGE
BOLDED GREEN text in the OP, it clearly states that I prefer escrow. BUT if you do not want a third party to know the identity of the account, you need to send first. I'll reiterate, I ACCEPT ESCROW.
I'm using a new account so none of my accounts get negative trust (as I am selling all of them).