I wouldn't let it bother you. People who go around ignoring masses of users are usually the ones with little to say or a poor ability to handle others opinions or arguments different or stronger than theirs.
There isn't a way to know it now, but I remeber earlier, your Ignore button would have a background glow when enough people would ignore you.
Yeah, but that was removed.
But that applies to Me seeing if They are ignored by others. I am inquiring if there is a way for Me to see if They are not interested in hearing from Me.
Fair enough if someone don't like me and wishes to mute my comments, I'm not mad. I'd just like to know they aren't listening so that I can do us all a favor and move the convo elsewhere.
Hmmm. I could see that creating resentments though...
However, I do believe that knowing where and when you are wanted or welcome is a solid foundation for good manners and etiquette
Usually they publicly tell you about how they've ignored you because they like the little power they have been given and it's one of the only ways left they think they can try get a 1-up on you. It's not really a good idea to have people's lists publicly displayed because as you mention it will only lead to resentment and disagreements.
